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How to Play for Solutions with a Genuine Conversation

The best games are the ones where the suspense lasts until the final minutes. The excitement and anticipation on the field and in the stands permeate the atmosphere. Each player is giving their best, keeping the ball in play as long as possible…Five, 4, 3, 2, 1 … the ending whistle blows.

After disputing such an intense game, players are proud of themselves, as they should be. Some may shed a tear when they lose, but all those engaged in the game respectfully shake hands with their worthy opponent, nodding in approval.

It’s about keeping the game in play

These unfortunate tactics sadly remind me of soccer game hooliganism. Each person walks away with exactly what they came in with: Anger, resentment, disappointment, bewilderment. What does it solve?

On the other hand, a genuine conversation uses a similar approach as a match played at the highest level: You engage with the objective of keeping the game in play until a solution is hatched!  This last statement may be worth repeating…  

“Until a solution is hatched!” – Five Practical Steps for Challenging Conversations

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