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The energetic connection/loop to mother is what becomes our foundation for Self.

If we feel accepted, wanted, validated and appreciated by mother, then our first impressions of Self are high.

But what happens when we experience our mothers as believing we are inconvenient, a burden, and in the way?

The Key To Self Esteem

Finding The Gaps 


A beings most impressionable moments are when he/she is in an absorbable state of infancy.  During our infancy we are absorbing all the energies, and patterns around us. Research has proven that infants have the ability to try and please their mothers and fathers when they sense their parent's moods shifting.  Infants coo, smile and show concern on their faces when they "sense" vibrationally that mom and or dad are not in a content vibration (mood).

On a quantum level, an infant who is tuning into mother and or father, is at same time--turning off and away from The Self.  In an effort to self preserve, we beings know when to minimize our contact with what we are feeling, what we are thinking, and what we need.

When infants are born to troubled parents, sometimes this connection to Self is lost forever.  

Not having a connection to Self--or having that connection broken because of the need to constantly check in with how mom or dad feels, causes the being to deny The Self.
 
How Then Can A Being Born To This Kind of Dynamic Have Self Esteem Later On In Life--If The Being Has Been Forced To Disconnect With Self Because Mother and Father Are Ill Equipped To Understand The Enormity Of Their Obligation and Responsibility To Their Own Child's Need To Stay In Alignment With Self?
 
PROOF AN AUTHENTIC CONNECTION TO MOTHERS CAN BRING A CHILD BACK FROM THE DEAD

In the article I have included in this newsletter, you will discover that the ENERGETIC BOND to mother is so crucial it can actually bring a premature clinically dead child back to life.

Imagine Dear Ones--how creative as well as how destructive the energy between a mother and a child can be.

Is it any wonder, we children from emotionally indifferent homes feel so stuck, and sometimes even dead?

I do not think so.



http://www.whydontyoutrythis.com/2013/06/mother-brings-baby-back-to-life-with-two-hours-of-loving-cuddles-after-doctors-pronounce-him-dead.html

 

Dearest Ones--The Truth Shall Set You Free

It is not your fault if you have low self esteem.  If you suffer from low self esteem--that is because the parents in your life did not do an efficient enough of a job at keeping you in alignment with YOUR SELF.

If your parents made everything you did, said, or needed about them, then they pulled you out of alignment with YOUR SELF.

Want to know what the key to high Self Esteem is?

The key is found in jumping into all those gaps within you, that are full of the pain of feeling ignored, abandoned, criticized, and alike.  

Yep...

DENIAL KILLS OUR CONNECTIONS TO SELF

We were taught to deny how we feel, and thus instead learned how to try and control others and our emotions rather than honoring the pain within us.

Because our parents denied our experiences, we mirror that behavior to Self.  We ignore Self/Pain just as our parents taught us to do.

THE KEY IS FOUND IN EMBRACING THE PAIN

The parents in the above article, "jumped into the grief" caused by believing they had lost their infant son.  Although they had another child born at the same time, they jumped into the gap of pain, and swam in all those glorious human, miraculous emotions.  And when they did, they literally healed!

Counterintuitive, most of us avoid emotional pain--and that is the problem.  By avoiding the pain--we deny our connection to the inner Self that is experiencing the pain on an emotional/vibrational/physical level.  

Simply by NOT recalling the pain consciously, many of us believe we are 'getting over it' whatever 'it' is--and NOTHING could be further from the truth.

Dear Ones--take some time to jump into those moments others taught you you had no right to experience.

Honor your inner child's painful experience--and you will find that your Esteem For Your Inner Self begins to rise.

One Hour Free Tele Class On Youtube

If you have not already done so, I encourage you to watch this free tele class on Youtube.  Please let me know if you enjoyed the longer video and if any of the information resonated with you, as your cues are where I will attempt to shine the most light.

I bow to the love and the light in you Dear Ones...

Lisa A. Romano
ACoA Life Coach
Stuck In The Past No More

https://www.healingselfesteem.com

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