Hi
 
I hope you are having a great week.

Today I want to share some food for thought from a popular TV programme, see our IE Focus: Love It or List It.

Also thank you to everyone who has given feedback already on the new NLP Trainer's Training format we are considering for later this year. If you are interested in taking this course please see IE Focus: NLP Trainer's Training - it would be great to get your input!

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Last night I was watching Kirsty and Phil’s Love It or List It show. In this programme Kirsty and Phil help couples who are in conflict - where one of the couple wants to stay in their current house despite it’s current issues and make it work and the other person wants to move to a new house.
 
Kirsty has the job of renovating the existing house to improve it so the couple “love it” and want to stay. Phil has the job of showing the couple other houses and encouraging them “to list” their current house and move on.
 
Watching the programme made me think about us as individuals and the problems we have, especially when Kirsty summed up the couple’s house dilemma with the observation that “so much of this is a storage issue”.
 
In many ways we are like a house, a house that we are comfortable in and happy to live in and then one day we wake up and realise we are not happy and satisfied any more.
 
Sometimes we think that we can be happy again if we can just improve ourselves a bit, after all, just like with a house, there a bits of us that we love as well as hate and maybe we just need a bit of re-modelling.
 
Sometimes we start looking for solutions outside of ourselves to make us happy again - a radical change is needed not just a revamp.
 
When Kirsty said “so much of this is a storage issue” the same can be said when we are having problems and are not happy anymore.
 
In us we store Negative Emotions like anger, sadness, fear, hurt and guilt. We also store Limiting Decisions or Beliefs like “I am not good enough”, “I am unlovable” or “I can’t make the kind of money I want”.
 
Negatives like these cause our problems in life, e.g. broken relationships, health problems like being overweight, money problems, stress, lack of direction, business failure and so much more.
 
When we find a way to clear out and de-clutter these individual “storage issues” and keep only what is useful and of value to us still we can be happy again.
 
Interestingly on the show once the couple’s original house was renovated they ultimately decided to “list it”.
 
They were very happy with the new version of their house but their eyes had been opened to new possibilities and they were ready to get out of their comfort zone. They knew that all the work that had been done on their house had increased it’s value and given them more choices about where they could live next, and provide them and their family with an even better quality of life.
 
I wonder what you would do next if you were free of your issues, feeling resourceful, of value and happy?
 
Would you “Love” or “List” the re-modelled You?

If you would like to find out how you can clear out and de-clutter your issues email me here or call me on 0800 0433 657 or +44 (0)207 249 5051.

As you may know we currently run a NLP Trainer's Training in June that runs for 18 consecutive days, including 2 days off.

This training is for individuals who want to become a world class NLP Trainer and/ or Presenter. Many attend to overcome their fear of speaking in public or simply to improve their opportunities at work. Others come to set up their own NLP school or develop themselves as a Public Speaker.

We are currently considering offering this course again later this year in a split format so people don't have to commit to attending training for two and a half consecutive weeks, as we recognise for some this can present challenges. We want to make it easier for you if you would like to attend and the current format is preventing you from achieving your goal. And of course we will deliver it here in the UK as I know many of you have said this is more manageable for you.

The proposed new format is:

Week 1  - Training over 7 consecutive days

Interval

Week 2 - Training and Evaluations over 10 consecutive days with 1 day off before Evaluation

The number of days and split will be reviewed to ensure the same high quality training and value offered by the current format. We will look to maximise using weekends so you can minimise using your holiday days!

Today I would simply like to ask:

1) Would you be interested in attending NLP Trainer's Training if it was available in the above format where you can split your attendance over time?

2) When would be good for you to attend this year?

3) What length of interval between the 2 training weeks do you think would be appropriate based on your commitments?

4) What concerns if any do you have about attending NLP Trainer's Training, in this format or the consecutive days format?

5) How can we make it easier for you to attend and reach your goals?

Your input and feedback would be greatly appreciated so we can support you in your goals.

Please email me here with your answers (the questions are laid out in the reply email) or call me on 07900 215540 if you would like to share in person or have questions about the course.

For more details about NLP Trainer's Training please click here or email me here for the latest course details.

Thank you for your help!

Colette