Yesterday I did a radio interview with WWL in New Orleans. At one point a homeschool father called in and told the host that he had homeschooled his two children, and that both had graduated (or were about to graduate) from college with honors. This moment made me think about the way our stories are told, and who tells them, and why. For too long questions about homeschooling have focused on whether it can work. Stories like this father’s---and like mine---suggest that homeschooling can give children the preparation they need to lead successful lives. But are these the only stories there are?
What happens when stories of successful homeschool graduates are the only ones we ever hear? What happens when homeschool advocacy groups ignore the stories of homeschool graduates who are living on the streets, or struggling to qualify for the most basic job? We need to start asking different questions---not whether homeschooling can work, but rather which factors make it succeed and which factors lead to failure. When homeschool advocates promote the positive stories and ignore the stories of failure, they fail parents by leaving them ill equipped to recognize the pitfalls that may confront them.
We want to hear the story of the homeschool graduate who became a successful engineer, and the story of the homeschool graduate still struggling to get a GED, the story of the homeschool graduate admitted to Harvard and the story of the homeschool graduate struggling to make C’s in community college. When all of the stories, both successes and failures, are told and listened to, we can make homeschooling better for current and future homeschooled children.
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