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In this Issue of Connect
  1. 'Mom, are we rich, poor or middle class?' How do parents deal with out-of-context, open-ended tricky questions about money, from kids?
  2. 3rd Connect for Parents is this month -September 29, on Money and Kids
  3. AIM JAS Issue 3 on Self Control - releasing soon
  4. Smart Series - From our FB Page

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Issue 9
September 2017

Big Focus - Ka Ching
'Mom, are we rich, poor or middle class?'

These days you ask children in the city ‘where milk comes from?’ and you are most likely to get ‘supermarket’ for an answer.
‘Where does money come from?’ Pose this question to your child and the answer you are likely to hear is ATM - ‘a machine,’ ‘a hole in the wall.’

Many children today think getting money is easier than getting a toy from the claw machine in the malls – you just have to insert a card, key in some numbers and ta da… out it comes, always!

Our modern consumer culture reinforces the unwritten equations being formed in their minds;
More money = More stuff = Being Rich = Better Life = More Friends = Better Self Image = Happiness
And its corollary,
Less Stuff = Less Money = Being Poor or ‘Middle Class’ = No Friends = Bad Self Image = Doom
  
So when, while reading a book, my 9-year-old daughter once asked;
‘Mom, are we rich, or poor or middle class?’
Despite being a financial literacy professional for more than a decade, I found myself unprepared for this question from my kid.
 
In those few moments my mind raced to find a proper answer to such a seemingly simple question from an innocent kids. I struggled to find an objective answer to a question that may colour my child’s perspective for the rest of her life.  Or will it? While I was thinking all this, my kid asked me a couple of more times, holding on to the book she was reading, ‘mom, are we rich, poor or middle class?’
 

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3rd Connect on Money and Kids


Have ever found yourself in a tricky situation over money with your kids?
Share with us by writing to us or if you are in Singapore, join us face to face for our 3rd Bi-Monthly Connect, where parents will come together to share their views, experiences, concerns and strategies on the topic of Money and Kids

Friday September 29
from 11am to 1 pm
at Choa Chu Kang Library

Topic: Ka Ching! Talking Money with Kids


Whether we like or not, accept or not, this is the fact of the new age - Money does make the world go round. And it 'Money' is often an ignored topic or even a taboo in family discussions. 

Have your kids ever asked you - Are we rich or poor or middle class? What does being rich mean? Where does money come from? Can we ever run out of money? Who needs money, we have cards? Parents, share your money moments that stumped you, were hilarious, disastrous or surprised you. Join other parents with your stories, strategies and concerns. Lets be prepared for the tricky, icky questions from our kids related to money so that we can give them a clearer picture not confuse them further or worse taint their vision of the world with a lame response. 
 
Moderated by Financial Literacy Expert and Editor of Parents eZine AIM, Swapna Mirashi this session is the third of bi-monthly meetings - Parents Connect!

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Read AIM Issue # 2


If you haven’t yet read this stunning issue of eZine AIM for Parents on Pocket Money, don’t miss it. Read NOW. Discover more on how you can help your child form sensible money habits from young age through pocket money and measured money messages.

Read here

AIM JAS Issue # 3 coming soon

Self-control, willpower, delayed gratification – it goes by many names. Studies have shown this is one ability that is absolutely crucial to success. Modern environment of 'here and now' is destructive to self-control. Explore how parents can help children develop self control



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CONNECT is a monthly Newsletter from Kaleidoscope Training & Development, Singapore - founded by author and financial literacy expert Swapna Mirashi. As the name suggests, CONNECT intends to be Kaleidoscope’s connection with parents, on the money and kids equation in parenting. Know about our latest initiatives, launches, networking opportunities and share your views, concerns and stories.
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About Kaleidoscope's Founder

Swapna Mirashi is an author and consultant with vast experience and expertise in financial literacy and creative thinking. She has written 4 books and writes columns and blog on Financial Literacy. Her current focus is behavioural finance and training children/ young adults conscious financial living – being totally aware of our financial decisions and their implications. An MBA (Marketing), Swapna has worked previously in the fields of Marketing/ Advertising and Training - Creative Thinking, Ideation.
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