Education is for improving the lives of others and for leaving your communityand world better than you found it. Marian Wright Edelman
Helping Teens Connect With Their Community
Teens can—and do!—improve the communities they live in. While families provide the love and support needed for teens to become more independent, teens active in their community will:
Do better in school.
Find it easier to stay out of trouble.
Be less likely to become depressed or suicidal.
Why Should Teens Be Involved In Their Community?
Participating in community activities gives more opportunities to become an independent and successful adult.
It provides a group of friends who can help a teen learn more about them self and his talents and help him make better decisions.
By connecting with the community, a teen is never alone. He has a place to go and people to talk with when he needs it.
The more a teen helps others, the better he feels and the more likely that someone will be there for him.
How Your Teen Can Make Community Connections
Helping Others
Ask about service projects. Check with your child's school or where you worship about volunteering at homeless shelters, soup kitchens, nursing homes, or child care centers.
Get involved in a political campaign.
Tutor children at the library or become a coach.
Help clean up the neighborhood.
Doing What They Love
Encourage your teen to try different things until he discovers his passion. Art, music, writing, drama, or sports are just some examples.
Keeping in Touch with Family Members
Teach your teen about her family—both near and far. Get her to ask about family stories and history. Get in touch with family your teen has not met or has not seen for a while or plan a family reunion.
Getting to Know Neighbors
Have your teen talk with people who have different cultural backgrounds, religious or spiritual beliefs, and political values.
Nobody Succeeds Alone— Everyone Needs Help
There are many people in your community who can help your child succeed.
A teacher, coach, or counselor at school can help point your child in the right direction.
A neighbor, relative, friend’s parent, or your boss can give your child the advice he need to make decisions.
Source Connected Kids: Safe, Strong, Secure ( American Academy of Pediatrics)
April is Alcohol Awareness Month
April will be filled with events aimed at educating people about the prevention of alcoholism, particularly among our youth, and the important role that parents can play in giving kids a better understanding of the impact that alcohol can have on their lives.
» Talk early and often with children and teens about your concerns—and theirs—regarding alcohol. Adolescents who know their parents’ opinions about youth drinking are more likely to fall in line with their expectations.
» Establish policies early on, and be consistent in setting expectations and enforcing rules. Consistency is key!
» Work with other parents to monitor where teens are gathering and what they are doing.
» Be aware of RI’s laws about providing alcohol to your own children, especially Social Host laws
» Never provide alcohol to someone else’s child.
Schools, parents, and the community should work together to promote the health, well being, and learning of all students. When schools actively involve parents and engage community resources they are able to respond more effectively to the health-related needs of students.
Family and community involvements foster partnerships among schools, family and community groups, and individuals. These partnerships help children and youth develop healthy behaviors and promote healthy families.
Research shows that students whose parents are involved in their education are more likely to:
Attend school more regularly
Complete homework more consistently
Earn higher grades and test scores
Graduate and go on to college
Have better social skills
Show improved behavior
Have better relationships with their parents
Have higher self-esteem
Additionally, linking community activities to the classroom