How to Inspire a Person, Who Doesn't Want to do Anything, Into Taking Massive Action
Do you love someone who is just wasting time and doing nothing with their life?
They're not on medication, sickness or anything like that. They told you about their dreams and how much it'll mean to them. They might have told you their details plans about achieving their goals and... at the time, they were so excited about it.
Then... weeks later.... NOTHING!!!
He or she sleeps all day. Stuck in front of the TV or searching for YouTube videos. When you asked them, "what's going on"? All you get are more excuses for not doing anything. They might even share with you the intricate details of the reasons why they haven't started yet.
Sounds familiar?
Good news!!! You're answered prayer is here.
You totally get it, don't you? Perhaps you were once like them. Individuals who lacked the motivation or inspiration to do anything. Allowing life to just happen. Hoping against hope that something or someone will 'give them a break'. We all know that's never going to happen until the break comes from within them.
What Can You Do About It?
The realistic answer is NOTHING. You can't do anything about it. Unless...
Except if they ask for your help. That's the only time you can jump in and help them because they've invited you in. They have given you permission.
Helper's Trap: Here's the rub! Without being conscious of it, you most likely end up doing the work for them. I mean, after all, you've waited for weeks, right? Doing their work is when you've created two problems. One for you and the other, for them, because you'll be responsible (not them).
What to Do Instead
Given you have their permission for you to help. The best thing you can do is to COACH them.
Now, let's bet clear, coaching is not about telling them what to do. Why? Because you'll still be held responsible for the result. Coaching is also not about listening deeper into their excuses or reasons (the adult version of excuses), that's what therapy or counselling is for.
You BECOME the COACH for them.
Coaching does not need knowledge about their goals. You don't need to know what they need to do.
Coaching is about inspiring them to take action. You do so simply being doing the following:
Asking empowering questions, and this will, in turn, do the following
Helping them to identify the fear(s) that is causing the procrastination.
Formulate the success strategies - what inspires them
Anchor the pivot points between successful strategies and criticism.
Promote resilience to succeed
Creating accountability and responsibility feedback
Does this sound like a lot for you to do?
The correct answer is NO. They're doing the work to break themselves free from the chain of procrastination.
You're simply their coach and your job is to inspire them to learn and to take action. You're simply asking the questions they haven't asked themselves. Simple, isn't it?
How will you learn this skill, you ask?
That's simple too. Firstly, this will be FREE for you. No need to go to your wallet. In fact, we insist on it. We're doing this for FREE.
FREE only to the first dozen people who truly wants to make a difference by helping other people.
• This is for you if you have someone already in a position of being trapped and victims of procrastination. They've asked for you help and you don't know quite what to do, and you don't want to do the work for them (as explained above).
• This is for you if you want to learn a lifetime of skills and a collection of mindset tools to help people with problems.
• This is for you if you want to help someone heal from the hurts and pains of grief and long-term depression.
All you need to do is register now, while this is FREE, and we will do a 5 week, self-paced, program that will teach you about being the ideal coach for your friend or family (or someone in class or work). This is very useful too for business owners dealing with their customers.
What you do need to invest is your time. we will do a series of webinars over the next 5 weeks after the class has been fully signed up - only 55 people can sign up FREE.
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