Gratitude
If you spend any time in yoga class with me, you may hear the word 'gratitude' a lot. Gratitude is related to a yogic concept called "Santosha", which means contentment in all circumstances. That's easy when things are going well. But what about when things don't go your way? Think about a circumstance you are less than happy about. Where can you find contentment in that circumstance, or what about that situation can make you feel grateful? It can be challenging to find the good in all things, but it's there - you just have to look. You see, our brains are wired to pay attention to the negative stuff - it's a survival mechanism. But, we practice those negative thoughts by repeating them over and over. And the more negative thoughts we think, the more negative thoughts we're going to have. Science calls this neuroplasticity, but yogis have called this "samskaras" for thousands of years. The good news is that we can rewire our brain by shifting our thoughts, and that's where neuroplasticity works to our advantage. So, rather than focus on the negative about a situation, find the positive and focus on that. Each day before you go to bed, write down three things about the day for which you are grateful. It could be anything - a phone call from a friend, a beautiful sunset, or snuggling with your dog. You can write on plain paper, or in a fancy journal. The important part is to write it down so, over time, as the list grows and grows, you'll be able to see - in writing - just how blessed you are. You can pick up your gratitude journal when a dark mood arises to remind you of all the reasons you have for feeling gratitude. You'll notice that, with practice, your thoughts shift toward gratitude rather than the doldrums of "stinkin' thinkin'". Gratitude becomes a habit. The practice of gratitude leads us to that place of contentment in all situations - Santosha - which ultimately leads us to peace.
Thanksgiving is a holiday where we focus on the abundance we have, and it's a great time to begin the practice of gratitude. Don't wait - start today.
Happy Thanksgiving, and many blessings to you and your family.
Kim
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