Services vs friends
What is the difference between a service and a real life relationship?
This may seem like an obvious question - but is often not fully explored when we design our services to support the people we work with.
At Wiltshire CIL we are really committed to working in a person centred way and we love our work, but we are still a service, we work within office hours, have weekends off etc. Compare this to 'real relationships'; a good friend rings me up just as I am leaving the supermarket, she is upset and would really like to talk to me, I know she is going through some stuff at the moment so I drop everything, go visit.
What is the difference here? My friend didn’t have to fill in a referral form; she didn’t need to meet any criteria. I don’t tell her I am only available in office hours or schedule in a weekly visit at a pre-specified time. She knows I am there for her when she needs me.
However great a service is, it is never going to replace real life relationships and real connections. Therefore, all our work focuses on getting people to make real and meaningful relationships in their community.
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