Personal Reflections on Pride Month as a ‘Career Queer’
from Kelsey Grunstra
Pride Month is always an interesting time for those who work in LGBT-focused spaces. It can be a joyous time, celebrating our community and the work that we and those who have come before us have done, and watching those to come after us revel in themselves. It can be a revealing time, showing the world around us our gayest, queerest, transest selves, providing safer spaces for coming out, presenting our identities the best we can. It can also be a concerning time as we watch corporations, politicians, law enforcement, and other entities participating in these festivities and parades in ways that can feel performative, co-opting, and down-right out of place. After all, as the saying goes that so many of us have adopted, the first pride was a riot.
For those of us who have dedicated time in our working lives to LGBT, queer, and trans spaces and organizations, Pride can also be stressful and disruptive. From my experience this year with MTPC, as such a small organization with only 1.5 paid employees, the influx of personal requests, ideas, calls for speakers or partnerships, tabling or event opportunities, etc. can be overwhelming. This abundance is incredible in many ways, we are so excited that you are excited to work with us, that you want to share our mission and partner with us in our goals! It is an incredible honor to be so in demand. We are willing to overextend ourselves because we are dedicated to creating the best possible world for our community. It is all worth it because of the wonderful humans we get to meet and interact with at these events and the change that we are able to see made in lives and families and communities. The empowerment that comes from this celebration of queer and trans identities and lives is truly a marvel. I hope that we can keep this as the center of Pride celebrations as our community continues to grow and find these public spaces, that we consider what Pride is truly about and who it is for.
Finally, I’d like to ask for something in return this year from our allies, especially from our cisgender heterosexual allies. We need you to vote YES ON 3 on November 6th, 2018. We need you to vote for candidates in local, regional, state, and federal elections that will fight for trans rights throughout their tenure. We need you to not be quiet when trans lives are under attack, whether in the public spaces that we are currently fighting to keep protections for, or on much larger scales with health care disparity, income and employment disparity, or the simple ability to have identity documents that correspond to one’s gender identity. We may be able to achieve legal equality for trans and gender non-conforming people in Massachusetts within the next few years, but we must always continue to fight for lived equality, particularly for trans people of color. We can never rest on our laurels, as we have seen with the ballot initiative this year. With that said, start shouting YES ON 3 and don’t stop until we’ve said that we will not back down and we keep these protections in place.
TRANS RIGHTS NOW!
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