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Happy New Year!   Took a blogging break, partly due to being ill over the last few weeks. So, this will remain brief.

To my defence, Prof. Kyle Sue in the British Medical Journal (BMJ, peer reviewed, bona fide high tier academic journal) has suggested that “man-flu” exists.

She writes: “I do think that the research does point towards men having a weaker immune response when it comes to common viral respiratory infections and the flu. This is shown in the fact that they [have] worse symptoms, they last longer, they are more likely to be hospitalised and more likely to die from it.”

It is part of the BMJ Christmas edition and citing real studies, it is not completely serious with some definite tongue in cheek.  The original paper is here (but behind paywall, the BMJ press release is here, not behind wall).

Highlights of 2017, in the short life of this blog 3.0.  The popular posts have been

  1. The academic study on the value of active ownership and stewardship in equity investing  (so some serious thinkers out there)

  2. The post highlighting the energy consumption of Bitcoin (now broadly the same as Ireland)

  3. The commencement address of Nassim Taleb, this might be due to the quote attrib to Taleb suggesting   “The three most harmful addictions are heroin, carbohydrates, and a monthly salary.” which acted like clickbait.

  4. A glimpse inside the head of a 13 year old autistic boy and his book, Reason I jump.

 

And the more recent look at how to live a life well lived, from a play expert, Bernie De Koven suffering from terminal cancer.

-How do you live, a life well lived?
-If you would do life differently - what would you do?
-What would you tell your 40-year-old self?
-If these are the better days of an early nation, what should I do?”

Read more about the answers and discussion in this 3 min blog post here. 

I started a post about diets. It turned out to be somewhat vast and confounded, so I’m detangling it before posting. But, as a side note, I compiled some thoughts on living a long life.

This post looks at some of the science thinking behind it, but the life style part can be summed up:

Laugh a lot (Sardininian men) and have friends/community (Okinawan moai, faith)

Walk (Sardininain sheperds, long lived nuns cloister walking) or other (often low impact) physical exercise which is part of your daily routine (hand made food, do things yourself).  Maybe, I will try walking up stairs and not using the lift (I noted the Nesta building was encouraging this the other day)

Do not over eat and use ritual tactics to ensure this (hara hachi bu in Japan, serve food on a counter, so you have to go up for more). The diet evidence is confounded but, simplistically, there is evidence for calorie restriction, and a diet heavy in vegetables.

This post points to some other links and the book, author,  looking at the long lived enclaves of the world (blue zones).  

 

Randomness:  A dog taking itself sledding.

 

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Paper on face-to-face communication:   Suggests face-to-face communication is better than electronic in this study. (2 mins)

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Ideas for presents for those who have everything. Also very high return on investment.  Crafting presents (2 mins)

 

Brilliant Stuff from Friends and others:  

Tassos and Bernie and colloborators have made a legacy of play

Thanks for keeping in touch. Ben 

P.S. Some of you may be on here from the Mingle or Linkedin (or possibly Facebook), if this is not for you just hit unsubscribe below. I’d much rather you spent your time on items that do matter to you, such as… go on make a call to someone you love and tell them (Matt Haig life tip #5). 

 

Quick hits on jobs and projects (Arts/Diversity/Pharma):  

Sustrans is the charity making it easier for people to walk and cycle.  “We connect people and places, create liveable neighbourhoods, transform the school run and deliver a happier, healthier commute. We are now seeking to appoint a new trustee to join Sustrans’ Board and to chair our London Advisory Board.

Asthma UK is looking to recruit Trustees with a financial, commercial and/or fundraising background. “We are also actively seeking one Trustee with clinical experience relevant to asthma.”

 


Lessons from Autism
Everybody is somebody's weirdo. What unites humanity is vast and wonderful. (5 Lessons

... On Welcome to Holland... "I am often asked to describe the experience of raising a child with a disability - to try to help people who have not shared that unique experience to understand it, to imagine how it would feel. It's like this......

When you're going to have a baby, it's like planning a fabulous vacation trip - to Italy. You buy a bunch of guide books and make your wonderful plans. The Coliseum. The Michelangelo David. The gondolas in Venice. You may learn some handy phrases in Italian. It's all very exciting.

After months of eager anticipation, the day finally arrives. You pack your bags and off you go. Several hours later, the plane lands. The stewardess comes in and says, "Welcome to Holland." "Holland?!?" you say. "What do you mean Holland?? I signed up for Italy! ... All my life I've dreamed of going to Italy."

But there's been a change in the flight plan. They've landed in Holland and there you must stay.

The important thing is that they haven't taken you to a horrible, disgusting, filthy place, full of pestilence, famine and disease. It's just a different place.

So you must go out and buy new guide books. And you must learn a whole new language. And you will meet a whole new group of people you would never have met.

It's just a different place. ...But everyone you know is busy coming and going from Italy... and they're all bragging about what a wonderful time they had there. And for the rest of your life, you will say "Yes, that's where I was supposed to go. That's what I had planned." And the pain of that will never, ever, ever, ever go away... because the loss of that dream is a very very significant loss.

But... if you spend your life mourning the fact that you didn't get to Italy, you may never be free to enjoy the very special, the very lovely things ... about Holland.


from Anoushka's blog on thinking about the Future: "

In her New York Times article, Cammie McGovern very eloquently and movingly describes her struggles with the process of securing provision and, ultimately, employment for her autistic son.

I have not become inured to setting out in plain words, the ways in which my child is not like other children. 

When Spike was younger, detailing our concerns was quite a simple exercise, "He is not pointing. His words are not coming quick enough. He seems obsessed with fans." His eccentricities formed a collection of off-beat quirks, which belied the inherent seriousness of their presence or absence. As he got older, those differences fleshed out and took on weight. It takes longer to paint a picture in words of our autistic child, who perceives his peers as primarily a source of unwanted sensory disturbance, or who finds that his teacher's words turn from concrete, meaningful symbols to water as her language moves into a more sophisticated register. Detailing the many points of divergence between Spike's development and what is typically expected is an exercise running to many pages. We read them back to our selves, checking for balance and veracity. By our hand, these accounts are merely quick sketches of Spike, but we try very hard to be faithful to our boy, so that he is there, among the words. A bright, cheerful boy with passions and interests, a creative streak...." A post on it here. 

No one ever clicks on these archive links, so I’m just going to highlight a couple, if you’re having a bored moment. But there really is a lot of good stuff here, if you want to have a random browse...

Neil Gaiman's brilliant commencement address on making brilliant mistakes - the ones only you can make. (wonderful, fabulous, brilliant mistakes).

Sheryl Sandberg on 
grief, resilience and gratitude
, her commencement address speaking about the sudden death of her husband.


Selected Archive links. The life lesson collection: Nassim Taleb's life lessons commencement address; Ursula K Le Guin on literature as an operating manual for life;  Neil Gaiman on making wonderful, fabulous, brilliant mistakes. Matt Haig's 20 life tips.  Charlie Munger on "always invert".    

There is also Anne Lamott on writing and truth as paradox.    And Oprah on gratitude and service.  JK Rowling on the benefits of failure.    Sheryl Sandberg on grief, resilience and gratitude or investor Ray Dalio on  on Principles.

Annie Proulx on the hope in stories.

A free carbon model and code from Google scientists; What makes effective teams from Google Research. Boom/Bust economics from Minsky.   Latest Memo from Howard Marks.  Mankiw on Economist as scientist or engineer.

An overview of Bitcoin -
not an investment, but a currency possibly.  And the sustainability issues of bitcoin.

Ray Dalio on
populism and risk,   Richard St John's success secrets, David Ogilvy on (1) advertising and (2) management; How to choose a font.  Le Guin on writing craft.  Elon Musk on how best to do corporate communication.

The work of painter-poet David Jones;   A visit to one of the last traditional bucket makers in Japan

 
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