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End of January, 2018
Preparing kids for the financial jungle.

TIP OF THE MONTH

Teen with Clothing Budget

Teach Your Kid To Take Some Lumps

The typical allowance cadence is weekly. So, if kids mess up with overspending, they know the next infusion of funds is only days away.

But learning to stretch funds out over a longer timeframe is a critical life skill.

That’s why I love this article from personal finance columnist Liz Weston. Her advice in a nutshell:

“The problem with weekly or even monthly allowances is that the cash simply comes too often. If your kid blows hers, she just has to wait a little while to get more. Less frequent lump sums, on the other hand, can teach teenagers how to plan and save for future expenses — two crucial habits they’ll need to get ahead financially.”

Personally, I like a hybrid approach for teens: a 6 or 12 month lump sum for a specific budget area coupled with a modest weekly allowance for other discretionary spending.

My daughter learned memorable budgeting lessons with her annual clothing allowance in high school — like how that Nieman Marcus chiffon gown purchase for the prom wasn’t such a good idea after all. #BrokenBudget

READ THE GOWN STORY

STAT OF THE MONTH: 83.4%

Allowance frequency stats.

Too Few Lumps

So just how common is the weekly allowance cadence?

It dominates. 83.4% of the allowances for current families on FamZoo arrive weekly.

Just 1.2% appear in an annual lump.

Perhaps it’s time to try a lump sum allowance with your teen.

STORY OF THE MONTH

Cancellation fine print.

A Prime Learning Example

Nothing beats a real story from a real FamZoo family. I love getting them.

This week, “JJ” sent me this gem:

The weekly summary already, last week, gave my 16yo daughter her first glimpse into the reality of having your own debit card.

She had signed up for Amazon Prime over the holidays (which was our original reason for going out searching for a pre-paid method so that she could buy Christmas presents for my wife and I, “without Mom and Dad seeing what I ordered”), with the intention of cancelling it at the end of her month free trial.

She “forgot to cancel it” and got the shock on her debit card statement in email. She came to me in a panic, and I told her that she just learned the hard way what happens if you don’t watch your money. Someone is always looking to get it from you. I told her that she was lucky that it defaulted to a monthly payment of about $10, and didn’t charge her the yearly fee of about $100.

I told her that she just got a $10 lesson, and it was cheap.

As it turns out, because she hadn’t used Amazon Prime in the time after she automatically “paid her monthly fee”, Amazon allows her to cancel it for a refund of that month’s service. I told her that was a lucky break for her, and not to expect that from everything that she signs up for. Read the fine print. Fortunately, Amazon is pretty customer friendly. Next time might not be so pretty for her.

So the FamZoo account is paying money experience dividends every month already :) This is the best money education tool I could imagine for the kids. I just need to stay on them, reminding them of their interest earning benefit, etc. so that they will gradually gain my enthusiasm about managing their money to their best advantage.

Now that’s some family finance gold right there!

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QUOTE OF THE MONTH

What’s in a name?

Many parents recoil with disgust when they hear the word “allowance”.

“We don’t do handouts in our family! No entitlement here!”

But those same parents readily embrace the idea of kids learning to manage a budget. That’s a skill requiring discipline.

No stigma there.

And that’s why I love KJ Dell’Antonia’s definition of an allowance:

Allowance: a very tiny piece of the family budget to manage.

It’s the perfect reframing.

Give your kid a budget, not a hand-out.

SHOUTOUTS OF THE MONTH

Robert M's 5 Star FamZoo Review

Kudos to...

  • Robert M. — for leaving the wonderful 5 star review on Facebook that shares the positive experience you’ve had with your daughters. That’s word-of-mouth gold for us, and we deeply appreciate it.
  • Elizabeth G. — for alerting us to the card carrier issue with our new teen cards. The insert incorrectly refers to the card as a gift card. Thanks to you, we’re working with our card processor to get that fixed.
  • Amanda C. — for the kind FamZoo mention on the Fox 5 NY TV news segment. What a wonderful surprise to stumble upon!
  • Kristen the “Frugal Girl” — for describing how your family does allowance with FamZoo to your readers. And for patiently explaining our value proposition to some of your more skeptical readers in the comments! The value is in the education, not the mere transmission of money.

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