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by Nika Raiffe, 12

Feminism. Eight letters that make me feel full of life, joy, pride, strength, and desire to make an impact. You probably feel it, too. I grew up in two absolutely different countries: the U.S. and Russia. I consider myself a “citizen of the world,” of sorts. I am grateful for all the travels and experiences I have had in my 12 years of living, especially finding feminism. Luckily, my family is not against feminism, but I needed and still need to educate them (and sometimes argue) on issues related to the feminist movement.

But besides my family and friends, there are other people. People who don’t agree with me. People who don’t agree with feminism. People who try to change me.

In Russia, the word “feminist” is still sometimes used as an insult. Feminists are seen as people who betrayed the traditional way of things, and most female feminists are pictured as queer and anti-men. 

I'm not saying that women and men are totally equal and everything is great in the United States, but at least there’s a nationwide conversation about women’s and LGBTQ+ rights in America. My struggle is global sexism. My struggle is 130 million girls who are out of school. My struggle is the fact that over 700 million women today were married as children.

I argue with people quite a lot. I don’t want to accept this “tradition,” so I fight back. I probably can’t change everyone’s mind, but I still believe that if you stop fighting and accept the patriarchy, nothing will change. I don’t want to accept patriarchy, I want to empower young women around the world. I want to support my LGBTQ+ friends in Russia when no one else can. But there are people with whom arguing is not something I can or should do, so I educate my relatives about some issues regarding feminism.

My advice to people who experience similar cultural disagreements? Explain feminism to those who don’t understand, but don’t bother fighting with people who disagree. It is so important to remind yourself that even if your family or community disagrees with your beliefs, there are millions of people who do not.

Don’t waste your time and energy on people who don’t believe that the sexes are meant to be equal socially, politically, and economically; they are not worth it. However, your family and friends often don’t understand the idea of feminism, and you might consider talking with them about it. But always, no matter what, remember: the future is female and there are millions of people who think so, too.
 




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