Judgment is the Greatest Source of Human Suffering
In my over 25 years of working with clients and along my longer life’s journey, I’ve come to realize that judgment is the greatest source of human suffering. If you look at the world around you or the world within, everywhere you see struggle and strife. In this reality, it’s all about “I’m right, you’re wrong,” or “You’re right, I’m wrong.” It’s a polarity, a duality. Everything is seen in these dualistic, either/or terms – right and wrong, good and bad, light and dark, etc. This polarized way of looking at things creates abuse in all its forms – war, cruelty, violence, persecution, religious strife and self-abuse. How does it do that? Here I will focus my attention on what we consider to be negative judgments. Positive judgments can be a problem too but I’ll discuss those elsewhere.
Judgment breeds toxic emotions like fear, rage, hate, shame, guilt, regret, which spawn from limiting beliefs such as, “I’m/You’re not good enough,” “There’s something wrong with me/you,” etc. These toxic thoughts and beliefs have a damaging effect on our bodies, minds, and spirits. If you look at the studies that Japanese researcher Masaru Emoto did on water, rice, and plants, for example, you can see how plants that are yelled at or bullied will wither, whereas the ones that are given encouragement will blossom. The study of psychoneuroimmunology and epigenetics has shown repeatedly that stress and emotions that cause it such as anger, grief, and shame and can lead to disease of various kinds including cancer, heart disease, and even death (check out Dr. Dawson Church’s books Mind to Matter or The Genie in Your Genes or Dr. Bruce Lipton’s The Biology of Belief for an interesting read on this).
I would argue that all of these toxic emotions derive from judgment and the projections and expectations that it creates. When you are living in resistance to what is, and judging that things should be different, it creates stress and upset. “I should have done better,” “It shouldn’t be like this” – this “shoulding” sets us up to have unrealistic expectations of ourselves and others (e.g., perfectionism). It causes us to resist what actually is, which contracts us energetically, causes conflict (internal and external), blinds us with emotion, and makes it far more difficult to create change... To read more, go here
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Hey I'm on Soundcloud now! Hear nuggets from recent calls and classes that I have done, like this one from the Freeing Yourself from the Influence of Churches, Cults and Religions class:
https://soundcloud.com/user-206068462-259139528/churches-cults-religions-locus-of-control
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Light and heavy is one of the most powerful tools of Access Consciousness®, designed to help you get in touch with your intuitive knowing.
But what do you do when your light and heavy don't seem to be working?
This is a question that comes up frequently in my practice. I often hear clients say things like:
“Light and heavy doesn’t seem to work for me.”
“I’m just not sure about this issue...what do you get?”
“It was light and now its heavy...what’s going on?”
“My friend and I are getting different answers, who is correct?!”
Are you someone who thinks you are f-ked up because your light and heavy haven’t worked?
Are you having difficulty making choices?
Do you ever get stuck not wanting to make a bad choice?
What if there were some powerful strategies that you could use to always access what is true for you?
I invite you to an online class in which I will share with you the techniques that I have used with hundreds of clients to empower you to have greater clarity with this tool and tap into your infinite perceiving, knowing being and receiving.
Wed. May 16th at 12pm PDT (your time in the world here)
90-minute Zoom class includes audio and video recordings. $50, Country pricing honored. Translation available in Slovenian, Romanian, and Hungarian and other languages upon request.
Register here
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