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Adelphi Friends Meeting

July 14, 2020

It's About Community

Meetings for Healing 

with a Concern for a Broken Nation 

Wednesdays at noon


Meetings for healing continue on Wednesdays at noon.  Everyone is welcome, whether or not you can join for the full hour.  Here is the Zoom sign in: 
https://us02web.zoom.us/j/88290130829?pwd=UWxVOVhXQUYwdXIvcElhTzQwZ2tFZz09
 
Or join by phone: 3017158592
Meeting ID: 882 9013 0829
Password: 259616

Please note:  The Wednesday meetings are now on a recurring schedule through July 29.  If you wish, you can mark your calendars and save this link.
 

Memories of Nancy Cady

 
When Nancy passed away on April 20, many of us held cherished memories of the times we had spent with her. Several Friends wrote about those special times, and Lynn Hardesty compiled the stories into a booklet. With the family's permission, Lynn now shares the memorial here.

Catoctin Weekend -- Not this fall

 

Adelphi's annual weekend gathering at Catoctin Quaker Camp will not happen this fall. Hopefully by fall 2021 we will be able to return! Meanwhile, remember that Baltimore Yearly Meeting is offering family camping in some of the cabins at Catoctin, through August 16.
 

Recipes - We Need Recipes!

 

We are now gathering recipes to include in the Adelphi Friends Meeting cookbook, so please go get out your favorite recipes and  email them to Nicole Cintas.  All recipes are welcome, certainly, but we also want an extra shout out for vegan recipes, gluten-free recipes and, of course, strawberry recipes.
 

What Shall We Say

on the meetinghouse sign?


Susan Richardson writes: "Discussion of placing a new sign out front at AFM happened at Meeting for Business on Sunday. Peace & Social Concerns, along with others, thought the sign should reflect something about the recent racial and injustice current events. I expressed a concern about the language proposed and some members requested that my concern be shared."  Susan's message is attached here as a Google document.  
 

Lawn Care and Maintenance Needed Close to Home


Adelphi Meeting' s grounds are in need of mowing and weed whacking on a regular basis. We have the equipment, but we need the muscle! Do you know someone who might give our lawn some TLC on an as-needed basis? (It's roughly once a week during the summer, and hardly at all in the fall/winter.) We are especially interested in hiring a member of our neighborhood or community to do the work, but are open to suggestions. This is a paid gig. Please contact clerk of House and Grounds, Patrick Mulvey  by e-mail or phone.
 

Resources for the Journey 

 

"Being antiracist results from a conscious decision to make frequent, consistent, equitable choices daily..."  from the National Museum of African American History and Culture, Talking About Race.

Conversation: Resmaa Menakem with Robin DiAngelo 

 

"On Being with Krista Tippet," a public radio podcast, recently featured a conversation with Resmaa Menakam, author of My Grandmother’s Hands: Racialized Trauma and the Pathway to Mending Our Hearts and Bodies, and Robin DiAngelo, author of White Fragility: Why It’s So Hard For White People To Talk About Racism.  It's difficult to summarize the conversation -- you have to be there.  And you can be.  The podcast is available in audio and transcript form here:  https://onbeing.org/programs/robin-diangelo-and-resmaa-menakem-in-conversation/#audio
 

Adelphi Meeting's Change Group

offers three opportunities to support learning and action against racism: 
  • an accountability group,
  • a book group, and
  • some movie and discussion nights. 
See the descriptions and contact information for each of these here. (Google doc.) The first two groups are beginning soon, but there's still time to join in.
 

John Lewis:  Good Trouble


Diana Rutherford writes that the Old Greenbelt Theater is offering on-line screenings of John Lewis:  Good Trouble.  Using interviews and rare archival footage, the 96-minute film chronicles John Lewis’ 60-plus years of social activism and legislative action on civil rights, voting rights, gun control, health-care reform and immigration.  There’s also a taped interview of John Lewis – now 80 years old – with Oprah Winfrey.  The film is available as a 7-day rental for $12.  Once you have downloaded the film, you have 72 hours to watch it. Learn more here:  https://watch.eventive.org/johnlewis/play/5ee01ea712335e00a2396a89
 

More Information


Much more can be found here on Adelphi Meeting's collection of Anti-Racism Resources.
 
[Clip and save for committee meetings and meetings for business]

Using queries to examine how our decisions may promote inclusiveness, allow equal access, and welcome those we perceive as different from ourselves could, we believe, guide us in our deliberations.  We seek to always be able to answer the following queries:
  1. How could this decision affect those who have been harmed by racist behavior?
  2. To what degree have privilege, class, stereotypes, assumptions, and our ability to include other perspectives affected this decision? Will this decision promote equity, diversity, and inclusiveness? Will it enable us to be more friendly and whole?
  3. How will we provide opportunities for those most likely to be directly affected by our decision to influence that decision?
  4. How does this decision support the declaration of our Yearly Meeting that we are an anti-racist faith community?
     

Community -- Extended

Need Groceries?

County Councilmember Tom Dernoga, who represents the Adelphi area, announces a “grocery giveaway” for whoever needs some good food.  500 boxes of fresh produce and proteins will be given away at the Calverton Office Park 11700 Beltsville Drive at 10 a.m. on Saturdays the 11th, 18th, and 25th, while supplies last.
 

Help with College Applications


A note to parents of rising high school seniors from Lelac Almagor: Now is the perfect time to get that college application essay done.... so you don't have to worry about it in the fall. I can guide your teen from start to finish, through an (online) writing workshop process that is creative, joyful, and customized for you. Discounted rates are available for families qualifying for free or reduced lunch. Check out www.msalmagor.com for more information.
 
Baltimore Yearly Meeting Update - Including Annual Sessions Information - July 13

Continuing Information

Helping Goes Both Ways

 

The meeting can help you through this pandemic.  Friends are prepared to offer spiritual, practical, and financial support.  Find out how, here in WHIRLS.

Missing something you saw in Silent Announcements?


Check out  WHIRLS where we've listed a lot of useful resources, and also Adelphi Meeting's collection of anti-racism resources.  Recent issues of Silent Announcements are linked on Adelphi Meeting's home page.
Wondering about an advocacy issue that you'd like to weigh in on?  Sign up for Adelphi Meeting's Couch Potato Activists list serve.

"WHIRLS"

Relevant and still current information is being saved in a place where you can always find it -- a page called "WHIRLS."  The links below will take you to sections of these announcements.

No-Contact Donations?  No Problem.

Adelphi Meeting's budget appreciates your steady donations as we meet apart. You can donate on our website . You can send a single gift or - even easier - set up an automatic monthly donation. And postal mail is still a thing. You can mail donations to Adelphi Friends Meeting Treasurer, 2303 Metzerott Rd, Adelphi, MD 20783.
 

To Submit an Item for Silent Announcements


Send a message to the editor via an on-line form. Provide essential information (date, time, etc.). Feel free to add informal notes in the description box.  The editor is probably going to edit it anyway.

During the pandemic, Silent Announcements are sent out on Tuesdays and Fridays at about noon.  Please submit items before 10 a.m. on those two days.
 

To Schedule a Virtual Committee Meeting


Send the info below to:  Zoom2@adelphifriends.org

Your e-mail should include at least the following information:  
(1) the title of the meeting (e.g. Finance Committee meeting),
(2) the date and time,
(3) recurring or one time only – if it is recurring, what is the schedule (2nd Tuesday of the month), including beginning and ending dates,
(4) contact person, and
(5) any special considerations (e.g., you need a technical person to help out or to host, you need someone to control breakout rooms).

Note that the specific Zoom invitation info for these committee meetings should NOT be put in Silent Announcements.  Instead put in the Silent Announcement a contact person who will forward the zoom invitation to the committee members.  You can also just send the zoom info directly to the committee members without a Silent Announcement.
 
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9:9–40 9:30–9:50 9:50–10 10–11 11:15–?
quiet reflection meditation singing worship potluck

Business meeting: noon, second Sunday of the month

Bible study: Wednesdays, 7:30pm

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