It'll trigger you at first.

Kind of piss you off.

But if you sit back, take a breathe, and accept it...

It empowers you to accomplish 10x more.

Ownership is what I'm talking about here.

Basically the idea that "it's all your fault", no matter what.

At first, again, it'll kind of make you mad. Because in your mind you're always right, always give yourself the benefit of the doubt, and always create excuses for your failures or lack of action.

It's ok, we all do it - including me.

We're human, it's our nature.

But something I've been implementing lately, every since reading Jocko's book Extreme Ownership, is taking the blame.

Taking ownership is a better way of describing it.

But in all unfavorable scenarios that approach me...

Client, team, family, self, financial... you name it, it applies.

Taking ownership means I'm in control.

You can't have an ego involved if you plan to take ownership or for this principle to serve you well.

But if you do drop the ego, take ownership, and accept what happen...

You can now be in control of changing it.

You will see that your actions dictate the wins and losses that happen around you.

And ownership of yourself is really the only thing within your own power and control, everything and everyone else is outside your control.

Scale not dropping? Your fault.

Weights not progressing in the gym? Your fault.

Can't stick to the diet? Your fault.

Have no time with your family? Your fault.

Not making enough money? Your fault.

If it was someone else's fault, what could you even do about it?

Nothing, because you don't control others around you.

You control yourself.

Take ownership and change your outcomes.

Period.

Coach "Owner of My Fate" Kosta

P.S. If you are ready to get at it, we are now open for 1-1 in person private training. Let me know if you need more info.

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