It seems obvious in retrospect, but the secret to an extrovert like me finally enjoying playing board games online with friends was simply adding a second platform so we could actually talk or even see each other. That was what I was missing before. This new ability to truly be with my friends while we played has done wonders to help us feel like we're all together even though we're miles and even continents apart.
(Also, I really love to trash talk and typing out “hahaha you lose” doesn’t have the same effect!)
In the last few weeks, I’ve had successes—Just One, Wavelength, Star Realms, Dominion—and I’ve had failures. But even the failures have been fun: trying to play Obscurio on Tabletop Simulator was a mistake I’m never partaking in again, but the laughs we shared while I incessantly hit the Alt key because I couldn't see the stupid clue was totally worth the frustration.
Playing games online this way has even brought me closer to the non-gamers in my life. Using Zoom, I was able to share the fun of Jackbox with my family in India! Quiplash was a favorite and they’ve already asked to play again, something I never would have imagined happening before. Being able to share my love of gaming with the people in my life who haven’t gotten to experience it yet has been a bright silver lining to this crisis. But it makes me wonder: why did it take a global pandemic for me to do this!?
I can’t wait for things to get back to normal, but I'll never forget how board game websites and apps helped this extrovert deal with being stuck at home. I began my online gaming experiment thinking that it would just be a way to keep playing board games. But along the way, I discovered that—just like games in general—they're actually much more important than that: they're powerful tools to help us reconnect with the people we care about and create incredible new memories of our time together.
Stay safe friends. ⚛
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