Simons blog: Tuesday 14 July, Tears behind smiles

“The more I worked with people at Slough Refugee Support (SRS) the more I realised how little I knew and the more impressed I became by how people were prepared to share their experiences. This blog is based on my impressions while working over the last 18 months with people who have come to the UK; it’s not meant to be an exhaustive or definitive account, but perhaps a way to contribute to the conversation. The quotes aren’t necessarily attributable to people in the photos but they are real and given in response to discussions I’ve had with asylum seekers and refugees while volunteering at SRS. When people come here they don’t know what to expect; they’re often scared and worried about the future. They’re glad to be here but sad to have left the familiar and perhaps their family and friends behind. They don’t know what to expect from people here”.

“Before I leave… I worried. There’s no democracy, no freedom… but I miss my country. But I’m happy to come to England, Life is better here.”

“The cultures are so different here. England gives you freedom. I can think how I like and wear the clothes I like. You English, you don’t realise how lucky you are.”

But there are frustrations of bureaucracy. What looks like opportunity can often be put out of reach and time passes. Depression, loneliness and isolation can take their toll. Often, the future looks hopeful – only to turn out to be disjointed; with one step forward and two steps back.

“People need to think about what an asylum seeker or a refugee hides behind a smile on their face.