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Taking Hold of the Life:
Weekly Flame for Thursday October 3, 2019 

From Our Rector
 
“They are to do good, to be rich in good works, generous, and ready to share… so that they may take hold of the life that really is life.” -1 Timothy 6:19
 
It’s been a life-filled week at St. Aidan’s. 
 
Last Sunday after our 8 and 10am worship services, we held our monthly baby diaper distribution, Diamond Diapers. Word seems to be getting out about it: this distribution was by far our best attended one, with families arriving throughout the 1-2pm time block. At one point just as we were running out of size six diapers, a woman arrived with a box of several unopened packages of-- you guessed it-- size six (as well as five). They had been stashed in her garage, waiting to be donated somewhere when she heard about our distribution. Thank you! We’re headed back for more supplies this month, given how many we gave away, thanks to a small grant we recently received for a second year in a row from the Glen Park Festival. It is exciting to experience this little project progressing to its next level. The next distribution will be Sunday, November 24 from 1-2pm.
 
On Monday I headed to Bishop’s Ranch in Healdsberg for the annual retreat for the clergy of the Diocese of California. The retreat was anchored by a series of reflections by former Episcopal Church Presiding Bishop Frank Griswold. We had space to reflect and talk, hike or read, and we ate amazing food. I had no access to the news (what a relief!). The retreat ended Wednesday afternoon.
 
Meanwhile, as I drove back, Diamond Diners was taking place. This was the first month in which one of our several new cooking volunteers contributed lunch: a delicious baked pasta made by Ray, Pam, and Elena Wong. Many thanks to them and to Martha Olmstead, Susan Spencer and Patricia Brown who set up in my absence (and I’m imagining also helped to serve the food), as well as to Grace King for her work on clean up. There were no doubt many other things done by this group and others-- I’m likely missing people and contributions because I could not be there! But I want to express gratitude to all who were there, for their commitment and can-do spirit as we continue this nurturing communal meal that is so important to us at St. Aidan’s. 
 
I was able to be at our  Wednesday 6 PM Communion service, and it especially moved me this week. There we were, a group of about ten people gathered for reflection and spiritual nourishment. We represented a varied range of ages, races and ethnicities, genders and sexualities, countries of origin, economic and housing circumstances. During the reflection time, inspired by a combination of Nehemiah 2:1-8 and Luke 9:57-62, we talked about the idea of home, of displacement and exile, of being away from home and of searching for home. We talked about Christ being with us wherever we may find ourselves.
 
Tomorrow, as it does every week, our Friday Food Pantry will take place from 1-2pm. I look forward to seeing everyone, to sharing food and being in community. 

Saturday morning, as noted below, several of us will gather in the parish hall (where the preschool is located) to make soup. We store it in the freezer to be available for when people need it -- an illness, a death in the family, an especially hard time. 
 
Then on Sunday, also noted below, we will celebrate the Feast of St. Francis. This is a day to bring your companion animal to church for a blessing (8am or 10am), or perhaps to bring your dog to the Upper Douglas Dog Park at noon for a blessing there (or both! we usually have a few dogs at St. Aidan’s every Sunday). It is also a day to celebrate the life of a companion animal who has died: our inter-religious Companion Animal Memorial service begins at 2:30 PM. Our family actually just went through this: a week ago Monday we had to say goodbye to our beloved, nearly twenty-year-old cat, Miss Morgan. She had been through so much life with us! We were so sad to let her go, even as we were clear the time had come. We will bring a photo of her to the service on Sunday afternoon. For the earlier blessing, we will also bring a photo of our very much still living, twenty-plus year-old cat Sophie. 
 
Much is afoot in the life of St. Aidan’s. It all makes me think of the last part of our passage from 1stTimothy, assigned last Sunday. The flow of service and generosity shared in these moments feels to me like “tak[ing] hold of the life that really is life,” as the letter puts it. Deep life, real life, is about people being together, sharing not simply what they may have but who they are, in some sense making a home in community. I am grateful to be taking hold of that life with you. 
 
Peace,
 
Cameron
ANNOUNCEMENTS

Men's Group 
Saturday, October 5, 8:15-10:15am, Wajnert Room
We gather for prayer, study, breakfast, and fellowship. All men are cordially invited.

Invitation to soup-making session: Saturday October 5, 2019

Are you interested in dabbling in an aspect of pastoral care ministry?
The “support and sustenance” team of the St Aidan’s pastoral care committee is holding a soup-making session Saturday, October 5, 9:00 am downstairs at church. Our goal is to enjoy one another’s company while we prepare vegetarian and meat-based soups together, that we will label and freeze for parishioners who may be in need. All ingredients will be provided. Bring a favorite knife if you want.

Please let us know if you plan to come.
JoEllen Brothers, JoEllen.brothers@yahoo.com, phone 415-613-5679

This Sunday, October 6th: St. Francis Day at St. Aidan's -- Animal Blessings and Memorials 
To honor the Feast of St. Francis we will be blessing animals both our 8 and 10am services at St. Aidan's on Sunday, October 6th. Then at noon, we'll head to Upper Douglas Dog Park for blessings. If your dog does better in that setting than at church, please come. And then at 2:30pm we'll honor the memory of animals who have died, as the following blurb explains.  

“Always In Our Hearts: Remembering and Honoring Our Beloved Animal Companions”  --our 12th Interfaith Companion Animal Memorial Service  will be held Sunday, October 6th at 2:30 in our Sanctuary.  Please know you and anyone else who is grieving or has grieved the loss of a pet are welcome to come. Also, please share this information with those you know who might appreciate being at our service.  The loss doesn’t necessarily have to be recent --- as we know, losses and grief continue, and to honor a relationship at different points on a grief journey can be healing. Anyone who has grieved the loss of a companion animal understands the depth and intensity of this journey.  Join us in honoring and acknowledging our relationships with our companion animals. Feel free to bring a photo or other memento to place on the altar that we will create together. Children are most welcome.

Free Printer Cartridges from Elaine Mannon
Thank you to Joe Ferrucci for the office supplies shared with members of this community over the last few weeks as his office moves. Elaine Mannon, who received a printer, now has several new cartridges from her old printer that she no longer can use. Could you use HP 02 cartridges in color as well as black and white? If so, please reach out to Elaine at elaine@mannon.com.

Bryan Baker & Friends- a benefit concert for SF Choral Society
Saturday October 5, 2019 at St. Aidan's 
Bryan Baker, Piano Jessica House Steward, Soprano Pedro Gomez, Clarinet Grodon Thrupp & more
Tickets $25; Wine tasting & hors d'oeuvres at 3:30pm, Concert at 4pm
(see flyer here)
Three Things from the Bishop's Office:

  • Save the Dates for Convention 2019: Friday, October 25 to Saturday, October 26 at Grace Cathedral (please note everyone from across the Bay Area is invited to worship and share a meal together Friday evening).
  • Traveling this summer and want to find an Episcopal Church nearby? Check out the "Find a Church Map"created by The Episcopal Church at episcopalchurch.org/find-a-church!
  • We need volunteers to help with Harry Potter Day on Saturday, November 16. There will be three online meetings: July 17, July 29, and August 11. If you can make one or all of these meetings, email Caren Miles at carenm@diocal.org.

Curious about upcoming events in the diocese? Visit diocal.org/dio-calendar for more!

Healing Touch
Healing Touch San Francisco invites all Healing Touch students and practitioners in the Bay Area to a convenient Sunday afternoon monthly support group to meditate and share HT treatments.  For those coming by BART please let Kathleen know if you would like to be picked-up at the Glen Park Bart Station.  A $5-10 donation is requested to cover costs.  Please bring a massage table if you can.  RSVP to Kathleen Wyckoff at kathleenwyckoff@yahoo.com or 415.577.8359.

Further future dates include Sundays, 2pm- 4pm: October 20, November 17, December 15


Contemplative Prayer: Tues/Thurs 9-10am 
All are welcome to participate in a space of quiet, contemplative prayer. You may come either or both days at any time between 9-10am!
 
Sacred Cup 1st & 3rd Saturdays, 10am
Through Bread & Pastry 248 Church St, San Francisco
Join our Sacred Space Minister for a conversation about 'letting go' and other topics over a cup of coffee or tea and perhaps a tasty treat! Click here for information.

St. Aidan's Gourmet Book Group - note change in schedule! 
  The St. Aidan's Gourmet Book Group does not always adhere to its usual last Monday of the month meeting  time so please note the dates carefully! Bring your favorite sweet and savory finger food and book suggestions for future meetings. 
Home of Elaine Mannon 295 Urbano Drive, SF
                    7:00-9:00pm   
RSVP: 415- 469-9832     elaine@mannon.com

Monday, October 28, 2019Born A Crime by Trevor Noah.  Noah’s unlikely path from apartheid South Africa to the desk of The Daily Show begins with a criminal act:  his birth.  Unions between blacks and whites were punishable by 5 years in prison.

Monday, November 25, 2019: The Library Book by Susan Orlean.  The  1986  Los Angeles Central Library fire sparks Orlean’s imagination as she writes about the history of libraries, including the terrifying practice of groups destroying books to amplify their ideology.

NO MEETING IN DECEMBER 

Monday, January 27, 2020: Where the Crawdads Sing by Delia Owens.  A coming-of-age crime drama about a girl growing up alone in the marshes of North Carolina.  As Owens said,  “I wanted to write about the effect isolation and loneliness can have on a person.”
 
ECS Shelter Dinners
Join us in helping the kitchen staff to serve dinner at the Episcopal Community Services shelter at 8th & Howard every 4th Saturday. Tasks include serving food cafeteria-style, & cleaning the dining room after. You are needed! It's purposeful time with good friends & conversation - a great way to spend the evening! You can sign up here: http://doodle.com/poll/zti2775bth37fwrs  - Lee

 
To add an announcement to the weekly bulletin of the Flame,
please send your edited text no later than 11:00 am Tuesday to office@staidansf.org
St. Aidan's Vestry
J. Scott Evans, Senior Warden
David Mealy, Junior Warden 
Dave Frangquist, Clerk & Treasurer
Peter Fairfield, Charlie Mader, Elaine Mannon,
Martha Olmstead, Grace King,
Will Crockett, Alison Wood


Feast of St. Francis
October 6, 2019

8 a.m 
The Rev. Cameron Partridge, Preaching & Presiding
The Rev. Margaret Dyer-Chamberlain, Deacon
Susan Stanton, Seminarian
Kate Fritz, Sacristan
Martha Olmstead, Bread Baker

10 a.m
The Rev. Cameron Partridge, Preaching & Presiding
The Rev. Margaret Dyer-Chamberlain, Deacon
Susan Stanton, Seminarian
Barry Koron, Music Minister
Betsy Eddy, Greeter(s)
Kathy O'Loughlin & Jen Dizio, Lectors
JoEllen Brothers, Intercessor
Peter Fairfield & Susan Stanton, Eucharistic Ministers
Margaret Tait, Anointing for Healing
Janice Leonard, Sacristan(s)
Alison Wood & Michael Jennings, Offering Stewards
Martha Olmstead, Bread Baker
CoCo Lin, Child Care
Peter Fairfield, Sound 
Dave Frangquist, Sunday School
Michael & Elaine Jennings, Welcome Cafe
Calendar for October 3, 2019
 
Wednesday Oct. 2








Thursday   Oct. 3



Friday        Oct. 4





Saturday   Oct. 5
 





Sunday      Oct. 6




Monday     Oct. 7





Tuesday    Oct. 8






 
OA (Wajnert Room), 6:45am
Morning Prayer (Church), 7:30am
OA Meditation Writing (Wajnert Room), 8:30am
Yoga Class (Church), 10am
Diamond Diners (Parish Hall), 12pm
Holy Eucharist (Church), 6pm

OA (Wajnert Room), 6:45am
Contemplative Prayer (Church), 9am

OA (Wajnert Room), 6:45am
Morning Prayer (Church), 7:30am 
Food Pantry (Church), 1pm
OA (Wajnert Room), 7:15pm

OA (Wajnert Room), 6:45am
Men's Group (Wajnert Room), 8:15am
Pastoral Care Ministry Soup Making (Parish Hall), 9am
Yoga (Church), 9:30am

Holy Eucharist (Church), 8 & 10am
Blessing of the Animals (Upper Douglass Park), 12pm
Pet Memorial Service (Church), 2:30pm 

OA (Wajnert Room), 6:45am
Morning Prayer (Church), 7:30am
AA (Church), 8pm
Al-Anon (Wajnert Room), 8pm

OA (Wajnert Room), 6:45am
Contemplative Prayer (Church), 9am




*Monday through Saturday at 7:00 am Overeaters Anonymous meets in the Wajnert Room.
 
Our Prayers 
 
In Your Prayers, Please Remember:
 
In the Episcopal Church: for Michael our Presiding Bishop; Marc our Bishop; the clergy of the Diocese; our Rector Cameron; our assisting priests Don and Gary; our Deacons Margaret and Mark; our seminarian Susan; our Music Minister Barry; our Administrator Diana

In the Anglican Cycle of Prayer:
Peru (South America) The Rt Revd Jorge Luis Aguilar
Chichester (England) The Rt Revd Martin Warner
Chichester (England) The Revd Richard Charles Jackson
Chichester (England) The Rt Revd Mark Sowerby

In the Diocesan Cycle of Prayer:  
St. Francis of Assisi, Novato   St. Francis of Assisi 
St. Francis, San Francisco    St. Francs of Assisi 
In our Parish Cycle of Prayer: for our Communications Committee
 
For those who have asked for our prayers: Phil P., Carmen, Ellyana, Jen, Jim F., Bryan, Ashley, Darlene, Nancy F., Debbie V., Dave P., Ed C, Deborah T, George, Mary, Jennifer, Tina, and Jim T; Janice, Debbie, Susan, and Colly T., Linda C., Bill C., Valerie, Nora, Linnea, Judy, Michael, Jim P., Mervyn R., Phyllis L. 

For those who strive to maintain mental and emotional wellness, and for their families and friends; 
 
For our congregation as we embrace our call to be a sanctuary people, may we commit ourselves to prayer, education, and practices of sanctuary to support immigrants to this country and all people who are estranged, excluded, or threatened in 21st century America.

For the ongoing work against all forms of oppression, and in affirmation of the  human dignity of all people;
 
For all who are struggling in this time of increased hatred and division; for comfort and community and for a sharpened sense of watchfulness to safeguard our common life;
 
For those who have recently died: JessDon TettelbachGinny TroyanDorothy Leong, Grace Jang, Cathy Paul and all who have died in wars, natural disasters or other violence around the world and for their families. 
 
Names are printed by first name only unless otherwise requested. 
Names will be kept on the prayer list for four weeks, 
to keep someone on the list for longer, please notify the office.
To place a name on our prayer list, please contact the church office
 415-285-9540, ext. 3 or office@staidansf.org 
 

Feast of St. Francis
Genesis 1:24-26
Psalm 121
Galatians 6:14-18
Matthew 11:25-30


Website and Staff email Addresses
Our website address is staidansf.org
The email address to reach Cameron is rector@staidansf.org
The email to reach Diana, the administrator is office@staidansf.org
The  email to reach Barry is music@staidansf.org
The email to reach Dave, the treasurer is treasurer@staidansf.org
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San Francisco, CA 94131

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