The good news? They were wrong!

For anyone who, far too often, feels misunderstood and invisible, I want to share some good news. But first, know that this is not about blame. It’s about perspective and understanding so you can move on. Why? Because at some point a belief was created by an incident, several events, or repeated behavior that resulted in your feeling unworthy, not good enough.

So it’s important to accept that they were wrong. The ones that told you you were worthless, you would never amount to anything; the ones that told you no one would care, no one would love you; the ones that told you you were stupid and ugly and no good. …..And the ones that made you feel that way? They were wrong, too.

Obviously they did not know you, did not see you, because if they did, they would have seen your light—the loving being that you are at your core. All you needed, all you wanted was recognition from them for that. You wanted them to truly see you. Sadly, all they saw were their troubles, their fears, and their unreconciled past. Yes, they were wrong to carry their pain forward and put it on you.

But, oh, the lessons you learned, the skills you acquired, and the strength you’ve gained! You may not realize it yet, but, one day, when you give yourself the chance, you will understand that their pain and fear is not yours. You can release it. When you do, you will see the courage, persistence, creativity, and love that got you through the challenges of that time. And on that day you will recognize your strength for the many masks it wore that brought you here, now, to this day. 

Yes, they were wrong to make you feel that your existence was so limited. Sadly, it was they who felt limited but that is a part of their story and that is for them to reconcile. And that was then. 

The bright truth is you are, and have always been, magnificent. You are love energy. And when you remember that and live in that light, you will not be able to contain the love, joy, and abundance that freely radiates from you. You may have made some choices you regret, but, starting now, you can acknowledge those, make amends where you can, and move forward in your light. Not what others think you are or say you should be, but who you know you are.

And the really good news? You know it’s true, because every once in a while it bubbles up to the surface. It’s in the thought that puts a sparkle in your eyes, tugs at your face with a hint of a smile, and that wondering of possibilities that gives you a glimpse into the brightness of your future. You know you are more and the proof is in your longing, your wishes, and your dreams.

You are not invisible but the person who needs to see you the most now — is you.