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February 2019

 
CUUC's phone number is:

(386) 308-8080
A Month of Sundays
 
February 3rd

Gail Radley

"And Unity and Justice for All"
How can individuals contribute to the betterment of society in their daily lives with those whose paths they cross? The UUA website advocates “confronting powers and structures of evil with justice, compassion, and the transforming power of love.” Confronting evil with justice is one thing, but with compassion and love? ‘Abdu’l-Baha tells us that “until the minds of men become united, no important matter can be accomplished.” “And Unity and Justice for All” will challenge the audience to practice practical applications of unity as an essential element to achieving a world of justice, peace, and harmony.
 


February 10th

Joe Wolfarth
Dr. Rev. Martin Luther King Jr., what have we learned? 



February 17th

Cliff Jackson
"Living in the Simplest Terms"
How would you describe living in the simplest terms ? Cliff will share his journey to his focusing in on what is truly important in his life. Peeling the onion to find the core value at the center is the easy part of the journey. The real challenge and surprising joy is then applying  that core value into living in daily life. That choice has led to some experiences that highlight the difference between understanding and knowledge.


February 24th

Gaia & Kurtland Davies

"How to Be of Service Without Killing Ourselves"
Why does the flight attendant tell you to put your own oxygen mask on before you help someone else? Because a dead helper is not a good helper! We UUs are famously service oriented. There is probably not a UU in the world that does not have a caring ministry and a community service committee.
Gaia and Kurtland Davies have reached the point of burn out several times in their "retirement careers" as caregivers and community leaders.
"This late in our lives, we are surprised to find that we are still learning how to manage expectations, define boundaries, know our limits and recognize our need for self-care. Come along with us on our journey!"
 
 
 
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Services Sundays @ 10:30
Community Unitarian Universalist Church
403 West Street

New Smyrna Beach, FL  32168

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Looking Ahead to March 2019

March 3rd
Michelle Sullivan
Topic TBA
March 10th 
 Mel Melvin  
"Little Known-American Women Heroes"
March 17th
Bryan Fulwider
Topic TBA

March 24th
  Laura Chilkott   
"A Celebration of Spring and Flower Communion" 
 
March 31st
In-House reading

Upcoming Events
February 13th
Board of Trustees Meeting
5:30-7:30 p.m.

Location: Church Sanctuary
403 West Street NSB 





***For the most up to date information on events, please check the calendar on our webpage- www.nsbcuuc.org or www.dbcuuc.org

The Board, at the October meeting, accepted the initiative of the Events Committee to establish a master calendar for all church activity.  Therefore, when any activity is considered, check the calendar at church or email djchris.kaplan@yahoo.com.

Upcoming Birthdays
February
February 10 Laura Chilkott
February 12 Nancy McCormick
February 15 David Lang
February 21 Al Fregin


March 
March 3 Sharon Herr
March 6 Amber Smith
March 8 Pat Gadbaw
March 9 Katy Baker
March 11 Dana Jacobsen
March 19 Laurel Moehring



 

CO-PRESIDENT’S ARTICLE

Semi-Annual Meeting, January 20, 2019 Summary of Fiscal Year to Date

It’s been an eventful six months for the Community Unitarian Universalist Church at 403 West Street, New Smyrna Beach as we’ve worked toward making this building into a real church home and becoming part of this community.  

Co-Presidents
In June you voted to embark on a totally new concept of Board leadership – co-presidents.  For the past six months this new collaboration has gone through both successes, trials and tribulations.  But it survives and is becoming a good working relationship.  Connie and I come from different backgrounds and have different perspectives.  She is a long-time church member and I am a relatively new comer.  We bring to this joint leadership position different attributes and strengths; different foibles and flaws.  These differing points of view, hopefully, make us stronger.  I do know one fundamentally important thing, we are united in our love for this church and our desire to help it achieve success, for it to grow and to thrive.  

The Board 
The Board is the brains of this church.  Everything in this Semi-Annual Update results from discussions and/or approvals at Board meetings over the past six months.  The Board has made new policy decisions regarding the display and distribution of campaign materials on church property and what is acceptable as an annual pledge contribution.  A policy book and the meeting minute books are maintained by the Board secretary and kept in the church office.  
Committees are the workhorse of any church, but especially for a lay lead congregation.  In September a Committee Workshop was held to offer support and to request committees hone their mission statements.  Individual board members now attend meetings and act as liaisons.  In the past six months some committees have flourished and others struggle.  When the same people have to serve on several committees due to lack of participation, this is what occurs.  Those diligent volunteers are spread too thin and get burnt out.  Everything in this update was initiated and implemented through the hard work of either an unnamed individual and/or an unnamed committee.  If you cannot identify yourself as being a contributor to this report and you want this church to survive, I urge you to get involved.  

Advertising
Advertising has played a big role in the increasing attendance in our church.  The FY 2018/19 Advertising Budget was substantially increased for just that purpose.  Many of the events in this report were promoted either on social media, on the radio, and in print advertising/fliers or all three.  Over the past six months we’ve utilized both paid advertising and free press releases in local and regional publications.  This fall our church brochure and flier were reprinted with updated information and pictures.  In an attempt to monitor which form of advertising successfully brings in visitors, our sign-in sheet was redesigned to capture “how did you hear about us?” information.
 
Attendance
Our Sunday services/speakers have been of a consistently high quality, and we are becoming better known in the community.  This accounts for the 73 visitors who have signed our book over the past six months.  Of the 19 Sunday’s total attendance information was recorded, we’ve had 557 people enter our doors and averaged 30 people each service.

Our physical space
Inside - Having a handicapped bathroom has always been at the top of our priority list, but it is now being vigorously pursued due to the personal requests of several of our members.  We want our church and its facilities to be accessible to everyone.  
Our building’s electrical system has been updated and is now much safer and much more user friendly with the addition of new outlets and circuit breakers for the foyer, sanctuary, and kitchen.  When you enjoy that cup of coffee on Sunday mornings, long-gone is the worry that two coffee pots plugged into the same outlet will blow a fuse.  

Through the hard work and expertise of a lot of dedicated people, we now have fewer “technical difficulties” for our on screen presentations on Sunday mornings and at special events.  This results from many volunteers’ hours of honing our system.  And thank you to those who pulled and untangled wires while crawling around in the hot cramped ceiling.  Kudos to you who have spent time evaluating the condition of the inherited electronic equipment to establish prices and for your continuing sales efforts.  We also thank those folks who have either taught, learned, or are teaching the proper use of the AV equipment for presentations.  

In September the Board designated uses for the two small rooms.  The old AV room is now our new church office and we are working to make it a suitable place to store our records and conduct our business.  It has been improved.  Remember when we had to pull the door shut so visitors entering the foyer weren’t greeted by a dark, gloomy, scary black dungeon.  Now when the office door is left open visitors are greeted by a newly painted white room, illuminated by light shining through a window (a window, by the way, many did not even know existed).  

Our back room will eventually become the children’s space.  In that effort your Board is talking about contemporary safety issues – background checks for teachers, glass doors to provide maximum visibility; etc.  We’ve retrieved long stored children’s religious education material and are evaluating it for current usefulness.  

Outside
We’ve benefited from free grass cuttings.  Volunteers have raked our yard several times.  We’ve pulled weeds, pruned vegetation, and added foliage.  Because New Smyrna Beach is a Monarch Butterfly City, we started a butterfly garden.  Our building now has rain gutters and rain barrels so we can economically and environmentally water in the dry season.  The old, rotten wooden picnic tables were refurbished.  The shed was sprayed for an ant infestation and the church interior/exterior for fleas.
 
And because we have respect for the interdependent web of all existence of which we are a part, we’ve begun our pursuit of achieving Green Sanctuary Congregation Certification by using recyclable or compostable products and becoming more energy efficiency.
 
Raising Funds
Some of our ideas to raise funds have borne fruit and others have not; but we’ve tried, and we’ve learned from each experience.  We wanted to build a brick path to enhance our exterior and to honor founders/friends, and members.  This project did not stack up because the construction cost was not conducive to making a profit.  We’ve explored renting space in our church to host special events; but after evaluating our competition we concluded our church needs significant improvements to be competitive in that market.  Our silent auction is ongoing and has had some success, so much so that future profits are earmarked for funding smaller church improvements.  Online sales efforts were scaled back due to the lack of a person to provide oversight.  Electronic equipment sales continue and have resulted in some profit.  In-house refrigerator magnet sales are ongoing.  Bake sales have brought in some dollars mainly because all UU’s love to eat.  

Outreach
Community Participation – We’ve been a part of the Interfaith & Community Night (Daytona Tortugas), NSB Police Department Toy Drive, Interfaith Meeting at Florida Hospital, Methodist Church Thanksgiving Meal, and the Volusia Pride Fest.  A church delegation attended the installation of Reverend Kathy Tew-Rickey, UU Church, Ormond Beach.  Our chosen outreach program is Cudas Unhooked – and in the past six months, we’ve attended their open house and meetings, hosted a fundraiser, become involved in their mentor program, and contributed to their scholarship.  Our help for HUM (Halifax Urban Ministry) continues; the collection box is located in the foyer.  

Events for our congregation and the community – There have been a lot of these: the First Anniversary Celebration; pot lucks; November Art & Music Festival benefiting Cudas; Reiki Healing Orientation; Hobby Club; Women’s Healing Circle; Labyrinth Walk; Book Club; Dream Circle; Tibetan Buddhist Lama talk; Constitutional Amendments Meeting; and contributions to the UUA Chalice Lighter Program.
 
The Bequest
In late September we learned of the Carlyn G. Hamilton/Carl J. Covell Trust Disbursement benefiting our church.  In October the Board voted to use this gift to help pay off our balloon mortgage.  On December 31, 2018 we were gifted with a check in the amount of $24,006.65.  In January the Board voted to use a portion of our savings to completely payoff our mortgage.  But there is still much to do - to survive, this church needs both money and participation.  I conclude with this -- 
If you are proud of this church, become its advocate.
If you are concerned for its future, share its message.
If its values resonate deep within you, give it a measure of your devotion.

This church cannot survive without your faith, your confidence your enthusiasm, and your participation.
Its destiny, the larger hope, rests in your hands.  

Kathi Smith
Co-President

 

BRICKS DIDN’T STACK UP
CAMPAIGN IS TABLED
As you know, we wanted to build a brick path to raise funds, to enhance our exterior, and to honor founders, members, and friends.  Unfortunately, this project had to be tabled by the Board.  The small brick path we had planned to build does not meet the size required by paving contractors.  To build a larger path is not conducive for us to make a profit. 
We appreciate all of those who signed up to purchase a brick.  If things change in the future, you will be notified.  Thanks again for your desire to support our church. 

Kathi
Help Wanted! Apply With-IN!
The Worship Committee is Seeking a Programmer and Service Leaders.

Want to Influence the Direction of CUUC?!
WELL, BABY, Here's Your Chance! 
If you have a few hours every couple of weeks to make phone calls and send emails, being a programmer might be for you!  We Promise Conprehensive job training!

If you would like to learn how the service is put together, we now Offer a Shadowing program.  

You may Discover that you like looking for readings and music to go with a Topic. It is SO REWARDING to Put Together a Sunday Service, then Watch it All Come Together with a Speaker's Message. 
YOU can work WITH an experienced Service Leader to make it Easier! 

Also, if you know you can speak in the pulpit & want to challenge yourself, we can help with this!  
Many Speakers Begin by introducing a Theme or Topic, then Leading a Group Discussion.
Others read a Sermon that moves them Deeply!

Please contact Joe Wolfarth or Debbi Zill for more information.  

Our Worship Committee is the Heart of this Church! 
BECOME A HEARTBEAT!!!

 


Native American Women’s Spirituality Group Starting

Mid-January, 2019 we hope to start a Women’s group discussing and studying Native American Spirituality.  The monthly meetings will be based on readings from Jamie Sams, “The 13 Original Clan Mothers” – Your Sacred Path to discovering the gifts, talents and abilities of the Feminine through the Ancient teaching of the Sisterhood.
Participants are encouraged to purchase the book, which can be found in paperback.  (Often times used versions are sold on e-bay, etc.)  The meetings will take place once a month on an agreed upon weeknight.  If interested, please contact Chris Kaplan 813-469-0765 and let me know your availability. 
 
Spotlight On A Member

Shawn Capers Spotlight
Shawn Capers currently lives in New Smyrna  Beach with her husband and two sons.  She graduated from UCF with a BA degree in Sociology and later completed certification in Special Education K-6.  Currently, she is pursuing a career in Elementary Education.  Her special interests include neuroscience, pyschology, and philosophy.  In her spare time she enjoys reading, writing, journaling and eating dark chocolate!

Caring and Sharing

    We live in a time of opportunity - the Unitarian Universalist Association is asking member congregations to endorse a directed study on the need to rescue Democracy from tyranny and corruption; since this preoccupation is a direct linear outgrowth from the concerns our nation's founders held dear when they drafted the United States' Constitution, one could say we have circled back to the roots of our American quest for freedom.

I listen to the news from NPR on the radio, and now I get emails from the "On Point" radio show (broadcast from Boston, home of our UUA) as well. A recent email describes a book about the challenges faced by the ancient Roman Republic before it fell to the demagoguery of the Roman Empire under Octavian (who, perhaps narcissistically but quite shrewdly, renamed himself "Augustus" and declared himself a living God). The book, "Mortal Republic; How Rome Fell Into Tyranny" was written by Edward Watts, who teaches history at the University of California in San Diego. It was inspired by the questions his students posed about the slippery slope from a stable representative republic into a state ruled by a "strongman" that characterized the transformation of life in the ancient capital city. Watts says that many things which alarm U.S. citizens today - senators corrupted by money and influence, heads of state advocating mob violence over the rule of law and order, a political system in which the ruling elite manipulates laws and rules of conduct designed to provide "checks and balances" in political dealings for the protection of the average citizen, and "zero-sum" ("all or nothing") tactics employed by politicians, also undermined the effectiveness of the Roman Republic. Finally the situation in ancient Rome became so unstable and dangerous for the population that they actually Preferred the relative stability afforded by the Emperor, figuring that it was better to be afraid of a single tyrant and his henchmen than to fear Many Opportunistic Tyrants at once. The author states that if we examine failed attempts at democracies in modern history we can see the way that this shift in public perception still happens in societies today. In nations governed by tyrannical rulers, this kind of "better the Devil you Know" attitude prevails - which helps to explain how tyrants and dictators manage to stay in power for such great lengths of time.

Watts indicates that the United States has the opportunity to realign its own government with the best ideals on which it was founded, but we need to act swiftly before our republic too falls into the dustbin of history! 
Perhaps to the average U.S. citizen today, this pronouncement appears gloomy,  but I will point out how much better off our lives are today - thanks to the Best aspects of our democracy's history, the ongoing struggle for equality and justice "For All" that characterizes it, its ability to embrace positive changes, and its necessary flexibility - than those of previous generations. We have every reason to lift up the best of our achievements as a nation united in hope for the future as proof of what we CAN Accomplish. And there is SO MUCH we can accomplish. 

I am proud to be a Unitarian Universalist, partly because our principles and traditions embrace the democratic ideals (based largely on those of the Roman Republic, Watts points out) on which this nation was founded. Our ideals - and our heroes' - for, however flawed and "human" they turn out to have been, we often find that our heroes would not let those ideals drop by the wayside - fuel our society and enable us to continue to strive to build a world lit by the lamps of Peace, Justice, and Love.
And So Mote It Be!

Namaste.
Joe Wolfarth
Worship Committee Co-Chair


 


Special Thanks to our
CUUC VOLUNTEER YARD CREW  who were HARD AT WORK 



 David Herr                                  Chris Kaplan                               

Dana Jacobsen                                            Steve Baker




General Assembly 2019 – The Power of We

June 19-23, Spokane, WA

In a time of great challenge and heartbreak in our world, what does our faith demand from us? At this year’s General Assemblywe will explore the power, possibility, purpose, struggle and joy of finding the path forward together as Unitarian Universalists. Attendees will leave inspired, with the tools needed to carry on the work into their own congregations and communities. Join us as we work for collective liberation inside and outside our faith.



 
NEW SMYRNA HIGH SCHOOL DRAMA CLUB PRESENTATION
ON BULLYING








THE STUDENTS WROTE AND ACTED OUT  VIGNETTES OF INSTANCES WHEN STUDENTS HAVE BEEN BULLIED BASED ON RACE, GENDER, RELIGIOUS BELIEFS AND TEEN PREGNANCY.  THOSE WHO ATTENDED THOUGHT THE PERFORMANCE POWERFUL AS WAS THE DISCUSSION THAT FOLLOWED.
Different Religious Observances for the Month of February

February 1st: Imbolc- Pagan/Wicca- Imbolc is also called (Saint) Brigid's Day.is a Gaelic traditional festival marking the beginning of spring. Most commonly it is held on 1 and 2 February, or about halfway between the winter solstice and the spring equinox.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Imbolc


February 5th: Chinese New Year or Lunar New Year- Buddhism/Daoism/Confucianism-Gift exchange, Fireworks, Dragon and Lion dance, Family gathering.  It is the year of the Pig.
http://www.calendarlabs.com/holidays/china/chinese-new-year.php

February 8th: Nirvana Day-Buddhism/Jainism/Sikhism- Nirvana Day is an annual Buddhist festival that remembers the death of the Buddha when he reached Nirvana at the age of 80. It is also known as Parinirvana Day.  Also, the day is a time to think about one's own future death and on the deaths of loved ones. This thought process reflects the Buddhist teachings on impermanence.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Parinirvana_Day

February 9th: Vasant Panchami- Hinduism-Vasant Panchami, also spelled Basant Panchami, is a festival that marks the arrival of spring, celebrated by people in various ways depending on the region. The people of the Punjab wear yellow clothes and eat yellow rice to emulate the yellow mustard (sarson) flower fields, or play by flying kites.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Vasant_Panchami
 

 
Famous  Unitarian Universalists

e.e. cummings
1894-1962

American poet, painter, essayist, author, and playwright

   e.e. cummings was a poet who wrote in freeform; he is known for his use of lower case spellings in his poems and the"inventive use of grammar and syntax"."Cummings' poetry often deals with themes of love and nature, as well as the relationship of the individual to the masses and to the world."

He was a lifelong Unitarian, growing up in a Unitarian household; his father was a Unitarian minister of South Congregational Church in Boston, MA. "Cummings was politically neutral much of his life until the rise of the Cold War when he became a Republican and a supporter of Joseph McCarthy. He taught briefly at Harvard University in the 1950s, before his death in 1962."

For more information on  e.e. cummings, please use the following links that I used to copy some of the facts about his life. :

http://www.harvardsquarelibrary.org/biographies/e-e-cummings-3/

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/E._E._Cummings


 
 UGLY SWEATER CONTEST WINNER-

DEBBI ZILL
Book Club will meet in March to discuss.  
We'll be discussing our next selection "The Water is Wide" by Pat Conroy.

It is a memoir; this description was taken from Amazon books
"The island is nearly deserted, haunting, beautiful. Across a slip of ocean lies South Carolina. But for the handful of families on Yamacraw Island, America is a world away. For years the people here lived proudly from the sea, but now its waters are not safe. Waste from industry threatens their very existence unless, somehow, they can learn a new way. But they will learn nothing without someone to teach them, and their school has no teacher—until one man gives a year of his life to the island and its people."
Here is a link to a Youtube video about Pat Conroy and his memoir
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=19yTAFrgVjA

A Great Reminder of Unitarian Universalism!


This is a picture of the refrigerator magnet of our 7 Principles of Unitarian Universalist.  They are available for purchase for $5.00, every Sunday.  Please see Victor our greeter to purchase one.

Are you a potential Youth camp JC or Adult volunteer?
Summer youth camp planning is already underway!  Our dates are set and now I am hoping to find summer staff who enjoy being with kids, enjoy being outside and sharing their joy for living out our UU Principles.  Being a Junior Counselor (a youth who is in high school) or an Adult Counselor is not for everyone, but if you want to share your gifts with UBarU youth and other adults for a week this summer, please go to our website for more information and contact me at director@ubaru.org.  

http://ubaru.org/home/SummerCamp

Camp registration will open Dec. 1, 2018 including for Scholarships.  

Camp dates are 9-11 year olds   June 9-15

                   12-14 year olds    June 16-22

                   15 year olds to 2019 High School graduates   June 23-29

We are also planning a Middle School Science week from July 28-Aug 3.  If you are interested in being an adult counselor for Science week, please submit an application and indicate it is for Science week.  

Thank you for your commitment to the future!  

Robyn Stout

Executive Director

830-460-6002

Dana Jacobsen is our Newsletter Editor.  Please send articles to her at sguard@bellsouth.net with the subject lin "for Cuuc newsletter".

We are now on Ebay


We have sold over $1,400.00 in donated items.  Share our items for sale with friends.  New items added daily.

http://tinyurl.com/gpk96nw

We are still accepting donations.  
Bring them to church or drop off at Sharon's home.


Items should not be too large.  See Sharon for details.
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Deadline for the March Newsletter

is February 20th.

 

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403 West Street
New Smyrna Beach, 32168

(386) 308-8080 
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