With so much sex information and advice out there, it can be a real anxiety-provoking hunt to find something that’s right for you.

In particular if you:

• Are new to the journey of discovering yourself or others sexually
• Don’t fit into mainstream moulds or images of sexual identity
• Have survived sexual violence or a traumatic experience
• Want to gently but honestly explore what turns you on
• Feel as though you are ‘weird’ and looking for connection (and relief)
• Have kids and are freaking out about having ‘the sex’ talks
• Really aren’t sure what great sex ‘should’ feel like for you or a partner

It’s hugely challenging because you can be subjected to unforgettable horrors by the most innocent of searches.

Ethical sex has never been hotter, but how can you discover your own body and your own gurus without being scarred for life along the way?

My latest blog post covers 7 fantastic sexy sources for genuine information: