This month we are focusing on HONESTY. Our children get mixed messages about honesty. While they are told it is an important value, they are surrounded by messaging that implies you can say anything you want, and as long as someone believes you, it is okay. Children experience the world through a different lens than adults and are learning to tell the difference between what is “real” in their imagination, and what is real in the world. Often, children lie for very similar reasons as adults – they feel trapped, are afraid of being punished or rejected, or sometimes just because it seems easier. We can encourage them by modeling honesty, by ensuring that they are not shamed or punished for mistakes, and by providing opportunities for them to repair harm caused by lying. It takes time to develop this skill. For some ideas, take a look at our blogs for parents and educators. You can also follow us on Facebook and Twitter for daily suggestions.
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SOUND DISCIPLINE CHAMPIONS
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Wade King Elementary School
Bellingham, WA
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From the top – Calming Corner in Ms. Samuelsen’s Class, Student-designed Motor Path, Calming Cards, and Reflection Sheet
Sound Discipline is honoring Wade King Elementary School in Bellingham, Washington as our May Champion, for their school-wide approach to teaching self-regulation skills. Ms. Johnson, the Principal, recently made a video for parents that highlighted their Monday Morning Meeting. Every week starts with a schoolwide Monday Morning Meeting, where staff and students share leadership roles.
Ms. Zoba, a 4th grade teacher, leads the school in learning self-regulation strategies and closes the meeting with a Mindful Moment where everyone listens to the sound of a singing bowl. All students learn self-regulation strategies in their classrooms, too. Ms. Wermus’ 1st grade class listens to Mind Yeti (mindyeti.com) meditations right after lunch. This helps them regulate through what is traditionally a challenging transition for young people. All classrooms, including Chinese, Music and PE, have calming corners, where students can take a break and regulate until they are able to re-focus with their class. A group of students helped Ms. Herda, Dean of Students, design a motor path in their hallway. They also made a video showing other students how to use it. This video ( https://wade-king-howard.wistia.com/medias/p18bekavab ) was used to introduce the path in a Monday Morning Meeting.
The team at Wade King is continuing to reflect and try new solutions as they learn more about what students need to learn self-regulation and executive functioning skills across multiple levels of support. They’ve recently introduced Green Calming Cards (most icons are from Noun Project, an online subscription for educators); and the Social and Emotional Learning Team/Data Team is piloting a new Reflection Sheet. It incorporates self-awareness and regulation practices, along with repair. Thank you, Wade King, for all that you are doing to help your students build skills, and thank you for sharing your ideas with all of us!
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Lying Up a Storm
by Julia Cook
Whenever Levi doesn't like the truth, he kinda, sorta makes up other stuff to say. One day his mother explains to him that telling lies will damage the trust of his friends and make him very sad. This book can help parents and teachers understand that lying can be a normal and sometimes healthy response for a child and offers tools to help guide children toward truthfulness.
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