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Family Update

Hello from the Eggman's! Jesse's recovery from surgery is nearing completion and he is very happy to be enjoying exercise and mobility again! He just finished another semester of full-time classes and is happy to have maintained a 4.0-grade average. He is thoroughly enjoying his classes and has learned a lot, much of which he has already been able to put into good use. In fact, the main portion of this update is made up entirely from the things he has learned through his studies and school assignments. Sara continues to manage our household very well even as she leads a children's class at our church and continues working on behalf of MK's all over the globe. Makai has learned so much in the past year and is getting ready to graduate Pre-K which he is very excited about. We are currently enjoying a season of birthdays. Jesse turned 34 on April 6th and Amelia followed shortly after by turning 1 on April 17th. Makai just turned 6 on May 9th and now we are looking forward to Sara's 30th birthday on July 6th which we will get to celebrate while doing missions work in Cyprus this Summer. Our summer is full of many wonderful things. Jesse is currently in a short 2-week summer course. After he finishes in May we will be doing some partner development and then will be heading to Jacksonville, FL for Go To Nation's Leadership Development Summit. After the Summit, we will be flying to Cyprus to work with some of GTN's amazing missionaries for about 5 1/2 weeks before returning to Texas. After we get settled back in, Jesse plans on going into full-time partner building until our funding is where it needs to be for our mission at hand. Many of you will probably be hearing from him as he makes his way around the States updating our current partners and working to build new partnerships. He is very much looking forward to getting to spend some time with those he can! 

MKs, TCKs & Global Nomads

Sara and I really enjoy our role as Missionary Kid advocates! They hold such a very special place in our hearts and we absolutely love being around them! We thoroughly enjoy our role at GTN as Membercare for Missionary Children. It is something we are truly passionate about! 
While many people know that MK stands for Missionary Kid, many less know what TCK stands for or what it means. The book Third Culture Kids defines a Third Culture Kid (TCK) as "a person who spends a significant part of his or her first eighteen years of life accompanying parent(s) into a country that is different from at least one parent’s passport country(ies)". This traditionally means kids who accompany their parents to one or more foreign nations for significant amounts of time for work, education, or religious purposes. TCKs grow into adults (ATCKs) who are characterized by their experiences and share many unique characteristics not found in individuals who grow up in one place or within their parent's passport country. In some circles, TCKs and ATCKs are called Global Nomads. The reason this interests us so much is that MKs who spend any significant amount of time overseas are TCKs who grow into ATCKs. There are many unique challenges and benefits to being a TCK/ATCK which mean that there are many unique challenges and benefits to being an MK. 

Understanding The World of MKs

A quote from the book Third Culture Kids says that “TCKs are raised in a neither/nor world” that is “neither fully the world of their parents’ culture (or cultures) nor fully the world of the other culture (or cultures) in which they were raised”. Pico Iyer, author of The Global Soul, described the TCK as “a person who had grown up in many cultures all at once – and so lived in the cracks between them”. TCKs neither/nor world is not a simple combination or consolidation of the cultures but instead, a unique life-view different from those who are birthed and raised in a mono-cultural setting. Another way of saying this is that TCKs take on relationships with all of the cultures they come into contact with, while not having full ownership in any of them. TCKs do not think of “home” as a physical place where they belong so much as a feeling of commonality they are able to share with people who have experienced similar life experiences. Because of this TCKs from entirely different countries, backgrounds, cultures and settings might not feel that they are from any one place or even fit in any one place but they are able to relate to each other at deep level's wherever they run into each other. 
While the wonderful experiences and benefits of children experiencing foreign cultures are often emphasized, few realize the challenging psychological trials and aftermath associated with or caused by the experience of growing up as a TCK (MK). TCK’s developmental years are quite different from the norm. Most TCKs are raised in a highly mobile world since their parents tend to move around a lot for work. One of the most permanent things in the life of a TCK can be impermanence. TCKs have a culture in their house that is different than the culture outside their house. As such, TCKs grow up in a  world in which it is normal to transition between cultures multiple times every day.
Challenges often faced by TCK's include:
  • Learning to adjust
  • Healthy identity formation and solidification
  • Relational loss and pain
  • Becoming ok with being different
  • Belonging
  • Properly processing grief
  • Overcoming Anger
  • Overcoming Bitterness
  • Overcoming Confusion
  • Overcoming Disorientation
Because TCK's are so good at adaptation and blending in,  they are often adept at hiding their pain and discomfort and are often able to give off the surface appearance of being ok even when they are not. TCKs go through lots of hard challenges, but those challenges work for them in the formation of some of their most beneficial characteristics.
A TCKs unique upbringing is often considered to be central to the development of them as an individual. The unique life experiences that occur during their formative years provide them with advantages as an adult that would be hard, if not impossible, to produce in any other way. This can create in them amazing qualities and capabilities not often found in others. Some of the proposed benefits of a TCK upbringing are the following characteristics and traits: 
  • Wellbeing and healthy adjustment during adulthood
  • Adaptability (both externally and internally)
  • Resiliency
  • Multicultural understanding and identity
  • Linguistic abilities
  • Diplomacy
  • Tolerant and respectful (non-judgmental) attitude
  • Maturity
  • Independence
  • Social sensitivity
  • Cultural sensitivity
  • Social skills (both general and cross-cultural)
  • Much higher levels of education than average
  • Outside the box thinking
  • Suitability for future expatriate living
  • Cross-cultural competencies such as global thinking, moving in and out of cultures with ease, cultural awareness, management of diversity, multicultural effectiveness, and the capacity to accept and embrace change
The list goes on and on but it is important to note that many of these benefits are hard won. TCKs often have to fight hard for them and do not often have any other positive option. They are often faced with the choice to adapt or remain in great discomfort and isolation. It is because their trials are so trying that they so often come out so strong in the end. That being said the process if much easier on them if they have help.   
Sara and I are on a mission to help TCKs, ATCKs, parents, friends, churches and missions organizations all around the world better understand and help TCKs and ATCKs. Their journey can often be somewhat traumatic but Sara and I believe that it doesn't have to be. It will be challenging, but we believe it can be overwhelmingly positive and beneficial as long as the journey is guided and protected with key insights and caring individuals. A difficult journey is always better with a friend and certainly a LOT easier with an experienced guide. Sara and I would like to see many such "experienced caring guides" be raised up all around the globe to help MKs along their journey. We want to see them flourish in each and every stage of their missionary journey. Together we are working towards accomplishing this goal and mission. We know that God is in this and that his great love for MKs is going to cause this endeavor to be a great success! 

Prayer Points

  • For God to connect us to those he would have us partner and network with
  • For the remaining necessary funds for our trip to Cyprus to come in
  • For our health, safety and wellbeing
  • For our funding to quickly get to where it needs to be to fully accomplish our mission and for our personal finances as we adapt to having a fourth member in our family
  • For MKs and their families all over the globe who are laying down their lives to advance God's Kingdom

Thank You!

Thank you to each and every one of you who partner with us! We are truly grateful for each of you! As the Apostle Paul once said, "We always thank God for all of you and continually mention you in our prayers". We could not do it without you but together we are changing the lives of MKs and reaping a global harvest.
Sincerely,
     Jesse, Sara, Makai & Amelia
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