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The Cozy Cottage Chronicles
If you want to conquer fear, don't sit home and think about it.
Go out and get busy. ~Dale Carnegie
 

I work at a library, and last Monday, I was scheduled to lead a program. Programs happen every single day there, but I typically don't lead them. I work in the marketing department and am happiest in my cubicle behind my computer. But since the topic was writing, and since I felt compelled to say yes to something that terrified me, I agreed to lead a writing workshop entitled Kickstarting Creativity.

I was virtually frozen with fear. The day of the program, my stomach fluttered and lurched. I told my co-worker I was scared, and she replied with a wry comment about sickening fear being the best indicator of being alive. I mean, maybe she's right, but it didn't make me feel any better.

Just before the class started, I found myself hoping nobody would show up. The workshop would be canceled and I could just go home. Instead, eight wonderful people showed up, all very interested in the topic of writing. When I gave them writing prompts, they took them seriously and bowed their heads over the blank white sheets of paper I gave them. You could only hear pens scratching the surface of the paper for ten minutes. They surprised me again when all eight were willing to read what they'd written out loud. The stories they told were so wonderful, and by the end of the evening, my heart was full with the way writing had connected a roomful of strangers.

The gut-wrenching nervousness I'd felt all day dissolved into this feeling of relief combined with glee. Those eight individuals inspired me so much! I was happy I said yes. I was happy I didn't let fear get the best of me. Saying no would've been easier, but it wouldn't have had this. It made me feel so alive.

Say yes to something today, and see where it leads!

xoxoxo,

Carol
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What I'm reading
I still take pen to paper, especially when making out a to-do list or writing a letter. I'm part of a dying breed that still writes handwritten letters. But who doesn't love getting real snail mail? I love lifting an envelope out of my mailbox and realizing that 1.) it isn't a bill and 2.) it's from someone I love! Good Mail Day by Jennie Hinchcliff and Carolee Gilligan Wheeler
 and Send Something Beautiful by Emily Hogarth have been on my reading stack this week. I was even inspired to make some artsy-fartsy postcards using cereal boxes and images and words cut from magazines and catalogs!

Also, enjoy this well-written piece on the ballpoint pen and how the well-meaning household item had unintended consequences on our handwriting: How the Ballpoint Pen Killed Cursive The Atlantic, Sept. 28, 2015. (Spoiler alert: all hail the mighty fountain pen!)


And while we're on the topic of snail mail and writing, visit the site The World Needs More Love Letters, a project created by writer Hannah Brencher that centers around sending handwritten love notes to the people who need them most. It's a favorite of mine and restores my faith in humanity.
Thank you for subscribing to my newsletter, The Cozy Cottage Chronicles. I hope that over time I can send you love letters that reflect the incredible journey our family has experienced by downsizing to a much smaller house, the Cozy Cottage. Every day, I'm still looking to simplify our lives, reduce stress, eliminate debt, and leave space in our lives to enjoy the little things. I'd love to hear from you! Just hit "reply" and send me a note. I look forward to hearing from you!

Thanks, as always, for reading.

xoxo,
Carol

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