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"Vision is a clearer revelation than a dream."
- Sir Francis Bacon, c. 1597

 

 
At Second Chair Solutions, Your Vision is our Mission.  
 

These quick article summaries will brief you on some highlights of what our team has been researching. Skim through and find something that interests you. If you want to dive deeper, there will be links for further reading. As always, we have free resources, articles, and templates on our website as well.

This month's focus is on:
  • Raising Successful Kids
  • The Reason You Procrastinate
  • Skills That Won't Be Automated
 

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Raising Successful Kids

One act that can change it all.

One of my main concerns in life is raising our children to be great people. Not great in a famous way; great as in good, productive members of society.

I want to have a great relationship with them, and I want them to have healthy, lasting relationships with others as adults. So I am constantly looking for articles and examples that lead towards this.

Currently, in our household, we are hyper focused on the 8 to 13 year age range. Meaning, we are trying to be more engaged, more present, more in tune with what is going on with our kids. This does not mean we are raising snowflakes, or that we are helicopter parents (well, we probably are helicopter parents) . . . What it means is we are choosing to be more present now, and realizing that as they become teenagers and will want more autonomy, we can work more and travel more.  This is a bit of an experiment. Most people I know raised their kids while working long hours on the front end, and hoping to re-engage and be more present during the teenage years after the parents gained more financial freedom; only to realize the teens did not have nor want a relationship with their parents at that point. Again, parenting is about the adults doing the best they can, and as the children get older hopefully they forgive their parents for falling short. Everyone has to own their part. . . and, it really is all a shot in the dark. 

Here is an article from a parent who seemingly has gotten some things right. One of her kids is the CEO of YouTube. Another is the Co-Founder and CEO of 23andMe. A third child is a professor of pediatric medicine. All of her children are females. Here are some of her main points:

  • Teach Your Kids to Care
  • The Importance of Community
  • The American Idea is All Wrong
  • Prioritize Service and Purpose
You can read more of her article here “How to Raise Successful People: Simple Lessons for Radical Results,”

Also, for the Dads out there, we see you! 

The Reason You Procrastinate is Not What You Think

Hint: it's not more about Self-Discipline
 

Procrastination is real. It is something that can plague the best of us, or most of us. Oftentimes, self-talk will tell us procrastination is because we are lazy, distracted, or doing things that are not in our “gift mix.” 

This article confirms something that has been life changing for us and others: ASKING WHY. And not just asking it once, but continuing to answer until you get to the bottom of the problem. This Inc. article addresses this. Here are a few things you can do:
 

  • Ask yourself “Why am I doing this?” 
  • Working harder is never the answer, digging deeper is. Why are you putting this off?
There are a few others sources that will practically help as well.

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7 Skills that Won't be Automated in the Future


Automation is coming! From your order at restaurants, to subscription delivery services, bills to be paid and beyond. Automation is happening.

 

We need to get used to it, lean into it, and prepare for it. However, there are several skills that won't be automated in the future. Some may call these soft skills. This Harvard Business Review article leans into seven skills, how and why they will not be automated.
  • Communication
  • Content creation
  • Context
  • Emotional Competence
  • Teaching
  • Connections
  • An Ethical Compass

Coaching 

Consider coaching to guide you from the Summer slump through Spring Growth.

A coach walks with someone through a season or a project to help them get a desired result. A coach is not a mentor, a friend, a peer, or a counselor. Those roles are great to have in your life. But that is not the role of a coach. There are many great coaches and coaching programs out there. Of course our team would love to help you, or at least point you to other trusted sources who can help you succeed.     Schedule a call

“Second Chair Solutions has an uncanny ability to challenge the status quo and provide viable solutions for future advancement. Simply put, they are real, relevant, resourceful, and reliable.”
— Dr. Ed Love, Director of Multiplication
The Wesleyan Church 
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