Mel's Weekly Challenge
Today was the first day of my second week of training for CAB. One of the topics on discussion was the fact that we should not be judgemental of anyone who comes through the doors. Well, having done quite a lot of diversity training in the past, of course I decided that I knew all about that, and of course I was not judgemental about anyone or anything.
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I felt quite proud and elated to realise this and a little tiny part of me, for a second, felt better than anyone else! WELL!!! In that instant, it was like the Goddess was just pointing a finger at me saying “Oh really!!”
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So all this evening I’ve been thinking about this. The truth is – we are all judgemental to some degree. And I believe that’s actually fairly natural. We see a situation and instinct compels us to analyse it and from the evidence available, make a decision as to whether its a safe situation or not! That’s how the human race survived all those years ago.
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There’s a part of us that automatically tends to judge what they’re like based on our first impressions. How many of you have seen someone covered in piercings, tattoos and wearing all black (for example) and make a judgement as to whether you want to be associated with that person, or whether they’re on benefits, or drink, or drugs, or violent?
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I freely admit that I have. We’re human after all and part of it is an inbuilt trigger that we all have. But how much of it is influenced by society. We see an Asian man getting on the same plane as us with a backpack and a copy of the Quran and assume that he’s up to no good! I ashamedly admit to this a good few years ago. But is this because we are influenced these days via the media about various groups of people – those with a different ethnicity, the unemployed, the religious, the disabled, the elderly, the young and so on
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So just for this week, I challenge you to look twice at someone and ask yourself if those pre – judgements are at all valid, or if they could, actually, not be correct at all.There’s no right or wrong here – its just a wee challenge to make you think about the inbuilt beliefs that we have, and whether or not we need to consider widening those. With love and light Mel x
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The Power is in Your Hands
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Magickal Associations (Minor Tarot Cards)
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