Mel's Weekly Challenge
Tuesday evening is my article writing time. Every week – always! So last night, after CAB training I reminded myself to write something and then immediately it fell out through a hole in my memory (hands up who else has these holes!!). So this evening, I was relaxing trying to sort through my brain all the issues of Employment Law, Universal Credit, Housing, and Tax Credits; all of these were circling around in my brain looking for somewhere to be filed safely – and the memory of last nights thought popped up!
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I immediately messaged Soraya apologising as I’m rarely late whilst expecting to sit here for a while waiting for the ‘flow’ as I mentioned last week – and feeling a little guilty! But it suddenly came to me what I have to say this week – and that is – allow yourself to not be perfect!
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Now for someone like me, who grew up thinking that only 100 percent and top marks was good enough and then feeling confused and defeated when I achieved anything less than that – it’s a very difficult thing to do. But really – not one human being in this world is perfect. We all make mistakes, miss deadlines, fail, get back up again, fail again, get up yet again, say or do something to upset someone .... and the list could go on and on and on. But if you’re someone like me who expects perfection from themselves it’s super hard not to feel the guilt and the overthinking and the profuse apologies. But the reality is – we accept less than perfect in others so WHY don’t we accept it in ourselves. Now, I’m not saying that upsetting someone over and over using the excuse of imperfection for bad behaviour is OK – but rather that we use those moments of ‘failure’ to learn, re-evaluate and then move on without the need for endless guilt and self loathing.
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So I guess my challenge this week (and especially to myself) is..... ALLOW yourself to not be perfect. Recognise the perfect imperfection in you. Embrace the ‘wonky’ bits and take joy in the absolutely beautiful creation from the Goddess that is YOU!!!
With love and light Mel xx
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JOIN ME FOR A SPELL
The Power is in Your Hands
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I'm grateful that I have a garden and that my herbs and flowers are growing beautifully. I'm ready to gather my first herbs and I always take a moment before I cut a branch or pick a fruit or vegetable, to ask for permission or to give thanks to Mother Earth for her bounty. Here is a verse that you can recite when you are picking berries or vegetables.
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Fruits of the earth come to me
From this harvest let there be
Soups, and puddings, or jams to make
That my loved ones can partake
The Lady she doth bless this task
Harvesting my crop, I always ask
More to come, through winter last
Bless our harvest bless our task
We thank the Lord and Lady above
For blessing our crops with light and love
For giving us this bounty free
And it harm none so mote it be.
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Magickal Associations (Minor Tarot Cards)
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