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Merhaba! Welcome to this week's digest. This week is a very special "Conquer (Your Fallible Instincts)" edition. This week's topics include making better strategic decisions, subjective perceptions of (in)justice, and forming stronger human connections via empathy. Enjoy!


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TOPIC OF INTEREST - PRINCIPLES FOR STRATEGIC DECISIONS

TL;DR: I am creating a one-stop resource for anyone making strategic decisions (at work, in life, etc.) and would greatly appreciate your feedback!

Making decisions can be incredibly challenging, and making better decisions is tremendously important. Per my Sensible Living introduction, "Our lives are a summary of the decisions we make. And we make hundreds of decisions, every day. As our decisions compound over the course of our lives, we have tremendous power to positively impact our lived experience and impact on the world; way more than we realize." Thankfully, there is already a vast array of resources out there to help us make better decisions! It can just feel like it is scattered and hard to find at the exact moment when you need it most.

I am a huge believer in the power of simply writing things down. So I went through all of my resources to simply write down everything I could find related to making better strategic decisions! The initial result is Principles for Strategic Decisions, and it is split into three main domains of knowledge: (1) Frameworks for Decision Making - How can we best frame our decisions to optimize our outcomes?; (2) Mental Models & Principles - How can we make better decisions?; (3) Frameworks for Strategic Analysis - What work do we need to do to inform our decisions? (Note: Much of this section is focused on business decisions, but the qualitative and quantitative frameworks can be used for anything :D). It is definitely a massive brain dump right now, thus would love your initial thoughts to help shape this raw clay into a delightful sculpture of strategic insight :D

I would deeply appreciate your feedback, particularly two specific flavors: (1) Usefulness - Is this applicable / valuable for your everyday life? Are there simple ways that I can make this preposterously long document easier to use? (2) Resources to Add - Are there any books / articles / podcasts / frameworks / analyses / etc. that you strongly recommend I should add to the list?

THANK YOU for all of your insight and perspective! I really appreciate your support.

Note: Shout-out to Emily for your initial feedback!! You are a legend.


 
BEST OF WHAT I CONSUMED THIS WEEK

ARTICLE - The Point: Spoiled Rich Kids by Agnes Callard - Agnes' piece does a wonderful job exploring feelings and perceptions of injustice in the world. In particular, what resonates strongly is that we each seem to have a normative equation that we deem 'fair'... but that is still entirely subjective. The fairness principle seems to lie deep in the core of human nature (read more about this in research on "Ultimatum" games), emerging at a very young age (Can you remember the age you started saying to your parents, "But that's not fair!"). To this day, I absolutely still feel anxiety when someone else commits a grave injustice and violates my perceived version of the rules and fairness (Note: This happened a lot in Santa Monica with people riding e-scooters on sidewalks... I'm walking here!). When we begin to accept that what is just / right / etc. is actually subjective, then our notions of governance, institutions, social dynamics, and more can meaningfully evolve. It is a fun trip :D

One-Sentence Takeaway: Our perceptions of injustice seem to be based on our individual normative equations, i.e., what we each subjectively deem to be 'fair'.

Answering The Drucker Question: Read all sides of a recent U.S. Supreme Court Opinion and see if you can spot the multiple (reasonable) versions of justice emanating from different sets of values and perspectives.

Complement with Do Kids Have a Fundamental Sense of Fairness?.

My highlights:
  • The philosopher Bertrand Russell puzzled over the fact that we seem to see such people, the downtrodden, as especially good—he called this the “Superior Virtue of the Oppressed”: “If it were indeed the case that bad nourishment, little education, lack of air and sunshine, unhealthy housing conditions, and overwork produce better people than are produced by good nourishment, open air, adequate education and housing, and a reasonable amount of leisure, the whole case for economic reconstruction would collapse, and we could rejoice that such a large percentage of the population enjoys the conditions that make for virtue."
     
  • Is it just a given that there is a human impulse to try to oppress those below oneself and to experience the very existence of those above oneself as oppressive?
     
  • ...consider why the uneven distribution between you, R[ich] and P[oor] bugs you enough to call for rectification. Randomization is, after all, one way of achieving a fair distribution. You might say, “resources such as parking spots should be distributed for reasons,” but what kinds of “reasons” are you thinking of? I haven’t told you enough to suggest that any other distribution might be more efficient. Your point is not pragmatic, it’s moral. Your hackles are raised by the injustice of…what? The fact that parking spots should in some way be earned. That is the normative equation.
     
  • We are committed to the idea that there should be some price or other, and that that price be a set, fixed, real fact about the way the world is organized. The spoiled demand for unearned satisfaction stands as a threat to that commitment.
     
  • The pressure to bring down the rich and raise up the poor comes neither from the selfishness of envy nor from the selflessness of true egalitarianism, but rather from an instinct to protect the status of the normative equation. The normative order they have inscribed into the world is more precious to most people than any narrowly selfish pursuit of self-interest.
     
  • The deeper source of fragility emerges when we stop looking around us and look ahead of us. The work we do to earn our happiness will, if it succeeds, improve the lot of man in just the way Russell describes: better education, more air and sunshine, healthier housing conditions, a reasonable amount of leisure, etc. We work to change the normative equation to allow our children to work for their happiness under more favorable terms.
MOST FAVORITE FROM THE PAST

VIDEO
- Cleveland Clinic: Empathy: The Human Connection to Patient Care - "Could a greater miracle take place than for us to look through each other's eyes for an instant?" ~ Henry David Thoreau. I cry every single fucking time I watch this. This is the inspiration for one of my semi-weekly mental health reminders, "What is the line of context over every single person's head that I don't know about?"

Answering The Drucker Question: Today, if / when you catch yourself glancing at someone and immediately judging them, simply ask yourself the question, "What is the line of context over this person's head that I don't know about?"

Complement with This is Water and A Sophisticate's Primer on Empathy - And Its Limits.


 
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