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When it comes to conflict, I am one of the world's greatest avoiders.
I don't like to rock the boat. I don't like to hurt others or make them feel bad.
But sometimes conflict is necessary. Sometimes a tough conversation needs to be had, even if it might make both parties uncomfortable. Sometimes we need to call someone out, even at the risk of exposing ourselves as hypocritical.
Avoiding conflict is a good way to minimize stress. And it's also a good way to prevent ourselves from growing.
When we accept some conflict and discomfort in our lives, we give ourselves opportunities to grow. After all, as many have said before, life begins at the end of our comfort zones.
And we're not the only ones who grow through conflict. The other person grows and our relationship with that other person grows.
Conflict is uncomfortable. I don't like being and feeling uncomfortable. And...I owe it to myself, to the people in my life, and to my relationship with those people to provide all of us with the opportunity to grow through that discomfort.
Make it a great day!
Coach Chris
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