Being a parent is weird.
Being a parent who happens to also be a seminarian called to ministry in Word and Service makes things even weirder.
Yesterday, Grant, our 6-year-old, said, "I wonder why blonde hair exists." What ensued was a discussion on genetics and God making us all different. Grant justified this as good because "it would be boring if we all looked alike and couldn't tell each other apart."
As we continued to make our way home from the park, we met two young women walking down the sidewalk, one helping the other. As we got closer, it was apparent the woman being helped had physical differences. She stopped me as I walked by, and I smiled and said my name was Sarah. She began signing my name to the other young woman, and I said, "Yes! You just signed my name!" Grant was fascinated. The encounter was brief, and as we continued on our ways, I could tell his head was spinning. I spoke up and said, "Sometimes it can be uncomfortable meeting people who are different than us." He lit up because I was able to name what he was feeling. Then came the question I knew was brewing but was also hoping I could avoid: "Why did God make her not be able to talk and her face look funny?" I tried to circle back to genetics and it wasn't as easy as asking why blonde hair exists, but the truth is ... I don't have that answer. My personal faith and understanding tells me that life happens and God doesn't make things happen—they just do because we are human. And then he made a connection we all have made at some point: "I wish Jesus was around to heal her like he did the man who came through the roof." Thank you, Ms. Laurie, for that Sunday School connection!
We all wish it were so easy for Jesus to be here and tell us to pick up our mats and walk. I wonder, how can we reach out to those who need us and help them walk or speak or see this week?
On a separate note—a special thank you to all of our wonderful Sunday school teachers as our Sunday School ends for another year this Sunday, May 22. Thank you for answering those hard questions, too, and helping our children ask them.
God's peace be with you this week and always,
Sarah, Director of Youth Ministries
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