“Children are the priority. Change is the reality. Collaboration is the strategy.” – Judith Billings
Dear Families:
It would be an understatement to say how thrilled we are that all students are back in the building. Finally, things are starting to feel normal - the energy in the hallways is a source of strength and comfort. But, unfortunately, the return of in-person school also brings the return of middle school drama.
This past week, we have seen the collision between reality and online communication in the form of group chats. The majority of LMC students are in a group chat - be it grade-wide or class-wide. One of the drawbacks of online communication is that it is not uncommon for students to develop alternative personas - putting things in group chats that they would never say in person. However, we know words have power as adults, and something said online has lasting and real-life consequences. As part of our effort to help your children/our students understand the importance of responsible online communication and technology use, we seek your help. We want to partner with you to help prevent events of the past week, where comments stated in group chats have lasting consequences in school. Below are some steps we ask you to consider taking.
1. Monitor your child's social media presence and conversation. Nearly every child at LMC is in a group chat.
2. Set hours of when it is appropriate to use the phone.
3. Consider holding on to the phone beginning at bedtime to help students wind down and prevent communication into the early hours of the morning.
4. Start a dialogue about the benefits and drawbacks of social media.
5. When things get out of hand, have your child block the person - sometimes, it is not enough to leave a chat. Let them know it is OK to ask an adult for help.
6. Accept and allow for mistakes/ lapses in judgment. We have all been there.
Lastly, please communicate with us. We are your partner - your resource. You are an expert on your child -- we know adolescence and middle school. Together we are a strong team.
Shanna Douglas, Principal
sdouglas@lmc896.org
C: 347-232-6130 (Text first)
O: 646-826-6100
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