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January 2021

Featured Article 

How to Help a Loved One Through Sudden Loss 
By Julie Halpert | The New York Times 
Here’s how to offer support to someone grieving after an unexpected death.

Over the past several years, the husbands of three of my friends died suddenly at the age of 50. These experiences helped educate me on how to be supportive in the face of an unexpected loss. I couldn’t imagine that I would ever be on the receiving end of such support. But that happened when I lost my son, Garrett, to suicide in September 2017.

Since Garrett’s passing, I have been amazed at the generosity of my community. One friend paid to have my home’s gutters cleaned and windows washed. Our family’s veterinarian refused to let us pay for her pet care services for a year. Another friend gave us keys to her lake house to use when we needed to get away. Each spring, we find a hanging plant on our porch from parents of a friend of Garrett’s. As brutally hard as it’s been to walk this new path without my son, these actions have provided a glimmer of positivity amid my despair.

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Julie Halpert, the author, is from Ann Arbor, MI. She and her husband Scott founded an organization called Garrett’s Space to honor their son.

Loved ones of Macomb, Oakland suicide victims stress proactive approach
By Gina Jospeh | Royal Oak Tribune

While local suicide rates are trending in a positive direction, healthcare professionals stress the need to remain on guard about the potential for deaths that can be prevented.

Recent data for both Macomb and Oakland counties show a decline in the number of suicides. However promising, experts in the field of suicidology warn it is a multifaceted issue and mortality data can be deceptive. Death by suicide among young people between the ages of 10 and 24 is still trending upward at alarming rates.

What’s important is to remain diligent in efforts of suicide prevention initiatives.

Many people seeking answers will benefit from Kevin’s Song “Virtual Conference on Suicide: Equity and Equality” taking place virtually, live and streamed Jan. 27-29.

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We Remember - Herman McKalpain, Jr. 

On March 2, 2020, my father, Herman McKalpain, Jr. took his own life in a murder-suicide. My dad was an amazing guy who achieved levels of success that most people only dream of. He was born and raised in Detroit Michigan. My dad adored his hometown and attended both Kettering High School and Wayne State University. This is where his lifelong love affair with the game of basketball began. As a college basketball champion, he stood at 5' 7" tall and was the shortest "point guard" on the team. Yet, he was proudly known for his special ability to slam dunk the basketball with either hand. After graduating from Wayne State University with a Bachelor of Arts in Communications, he found his true calling in life, Radio/TV Broadcasting. For nearly four decades, he successfully worked as an engineer and photographer for WGPR TV-62 and later moved on to work at WXYZ Channel 7 News. He was a star in the public eye, but behind closed doors, he battled with the complexities of life. Many years ago, my dad hosted an award-winning radio show called “Speaking Of Sports” - which is the inspiration behind the name of my podcast “Speaking Of Love".

In an effort to raise mental health awareness and suicide prevention, I created this podcast honoring my father and others like him who are struggling with the effects of mental health challenges, which often leads to suicide.  To date, I have recorded over 80 life-changing episodes. I interview people from all around the world for the sole purpose of spreading love.

Written by Herman's daughter, La Toya Bond 


Volunteer Spotlight - Jennifer Peltzer-Jones

I was introduced to Kevin’s Song Conference on Suicide Prevention during its inaugural year when I spoke about emergency care. Two years after I was honored to be asked to be part of the planning committee and have been involved since. For me, this conference is so critical for several reasons: (1) we - mental health providers - do not focus on understanding suicide enough; it has always felt as though we talk around suicide/only view it as an “outcome”,  not fully focused on the signs/symptoms and interventions and experiences with suicide. Kevin’s Song provides the critical, focused education all providers should learn in order to decrease the suicide rate, (2) it is best practice to ask about suicide with our patients; this conference models open conversations amongst practitioners the same way we should be talking to our patients, our family and our children - about suicide. This is how we talk openly about something people want to avoid discussing. We all need to talk 
about suicide; (3) while I am a psychologist, I am also a registered nurse; nursing is the ultimate patient advocate profession and so I believe this conference provides a means by which I can continue to advocate for changes needed to help prevent suicide; last, (4) I chartered my own career path in mental health because my uncle died by suicide while I was in high school. I saw the ripple effects it had and wanted to help prevent suicide death. Being part of Kevin’s Song Conference on Suicide helps keep me rooted and close to all the reasons why I wanted to work in mental health. This conference makes a difference, and so, for as long as I can help make it happen, I will continue to serve. 

Book of the Month 

Books of the Month can be found on the Kevin’s Song Website

Resources

Support Group for Loss Survivors is meeting virtually through Zoom
First Wednesday of the month and third Thursday of the month at 7:00 p.m. 
If interested in attending,
please email Gail Urso at gail@kevinssong.org and she will send you an invitation code to join. 
Kevin’s Song has its very own YouTube Channel where you’ll find a resource library of Kevin’s Song video vignettes, PSAs, short films, documentaries and more that address the complex issue of suicide. We encourage you to comment, like or “subscribe” to our channel so you can stay up-to-date with our compelling and informative video resources that help us promote suicide education, training, prevention and advocacy.
Together, we will work to empower communities to prevent suicide and offer hope and healing to survivors. 
National Suicide Lifeline 1-800-273-TALK (8255) OR TEXT "GO" TO 741741
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