In was late Spring, 1980. Pamela was almost 7 months pregnant. We had just driven two vehicles (me in the U-Haul, her in the Honda) almost 1200 miles from Dallas, Texas to Grand Forks, North Dakota. I-35 plus I-29 to…well, not the edge of the world, but as they like to say, “You can see it from there.”
Grand Forks. Located on the Red River of the North. [Yes, one of the rare US rivers that flows north.]
Our first church ministry assignment.
Not long after we arrived, we met a couple with whom we would be life-long friends. Jay and Ilene Anderson. A young dentist and his wife, having their first child just about the same time as us.. Cam (ours) and Tripp (theirs) would become fast friends as little boys. Jay and Ilene, treasured companions who had a deep commitment to loving others like Jesus loves.
Which is why, today as I write, I mourn the loss of my friend. Ilene’s husband. Jay suddenly slipped away to heaven just a few days ago. Ugh.
SOMEONE TRULY LIKE JESUS
Jay had met Christ during his days at university. He never got over his love affair with the Savior. When he graduated from dental school (Northwestern), with Ilene he established his practice in Grand Forks. They would find the Faith Evangelical Free Church there and serve the Lord with faithfulness all their married years.