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Vol. 19 March 2022 Newsletter 

We Are Glad You Are Here!

 

Real Freedom

Last month, Mercy Multiplied posted the following article in their monthly newsletter.  The Tree Analogy was taken from the “Keys to Freedom” Study that Nancy Alcorn, founder of Mercy Multiplied, wrote and uses in her facilities.  We provide this study to the public and it is also a portion of the training that we require each volunteer to complete.
Our mission is to educate and encourage others to know their identity in Christ and experience the freedom He has for them.  This article gives a perfect illustration of what we do.  It is just too good not to share.  
Thank you, Nancy Alcorn, for being obedient to the Lord and allowing Him to work through you to change many lives.

Definitions of Freedom
If you Google the “definition of freedom,” the first one that you see is “the power or right to act, speak, or think as one wants without hindrance or restraint.” My guess is that when most people think of the word “freedom,” they think of some personal version of this definition. Free to do what I want, when I want, where I want, and how I want.  
But if you scroll down a little further on the Google definitions, you’ll run into this one: “the state of not being imprisoned or enslaved.” This is much closer to the definition that we would use when we talk about freedom in CHRIST. It’s not about having the power to do whatever I want; it’s about no longer being in bondage to the things that keep me from being and doing all that God created me to be and do.   
However, many people who love and follow Jesus have ineffective (and exhausting) methods for trying to experience this kind of freedom. Many of us have been taught, “If you are in bondage to insecurity, be more confident!” “If you are in bondage to money, stop caring so much about it!” “If you are in bondage to pornography, get an accountability partner who will call you out on it!” In other words, whatever is holding you in bondage…just stop it! Self-discipline your way out of it. 
I don’t know if you’ve ever tried to will-power your way out of bondage but take it from me: It doesn’t work. It wears you out. And it totally disheartens you. There’s got to be another way. 

The Tree Analogy
Friends, living in freedom is so much more than just fixing our external struggles. At Mercy, we often use the analogy of a tree. I don’t know about you, but when I look at a tree, I hardly ever think about the fact that there is a root system under it. How bizarre that the very part of the tree that you can’t see is the part that’s the most powerful. It not only holds the tree upright, but it also determines whether or not that tree is healthy!  
The tree of our lives consists of branches, which are our behaviors – the ways we act and the attitudes that come out of us. And it’s those unhealthy branches that we often look at in our lives and say, “I want freedom from that.” Things like people-pleasing, overeating, anxiety, insecurity, addiction, comparison, emotional instability, depression… are what we would characterize as branches on the tree.  
Under the branches is the trunk, which is the belief system that we have developed over the course of our lives – the things we believe about ourselves, about God, and about other people and the world around us. It’s those beliefs that sustain and uphold the branches. 
However, it’s the ROOTS of the tree that are the ultimate source that feeds both the trunk and the branches. The roots in our lives draw their power from the different circumstances in our lives that have affected us. So things like divorce, the loss of a family member, being bullied, a long-term sickness, trauma… those experiences often grow roots of abandonment, rejection, unworthiness, shame, fear, bitterness. Those roots then feed our belief system that then determines our behaviors.  
Here’s why this analogy is so important: We tend to focus our attention only on what we can see, so we work our tails off trying to cut off the unhealthy branches of behavior in our lives. And yes, you might be able, through sheer self-discipline, to succeed in cutting an unhealthy branch off. But if a tree is growing bad fruit out in my yard, I’m not going to go cut off all the branches! Why? Because if the roots are still damaged, other unhealthy branches will grow right back in their place! If the roots are never dealt with, that tree’s branches will always be unhealthy.  

Behavior Modification is not Freedom
Friends, our ultimate goal cannot be behavior modification because guess what? That’s not freedom! Behavior modification is only an outward change, not an inward transformation. I once heard: “Managing behaviors just shuffles bondage around.”  
No, our goal is to connect our hearts to God’s heart in such a way that He heals us and restores us from a root level. He rebuilds those pieces of our belief systems that don’t line up with His truth. And as those destructive roots start to get UP-rooted and they begin to fill up with truth, the unhealthy branches will start falling off, and healthy branches will grow in their place!  
Jesus’ heart for us is not that we would clean up our behavior but that we would seek an intimate relationship with Him so that He can bring healing and transformation at a root level. He wants to give us the kind of healing and freedom that only He can give. THAT is what true freedom looks like! For more information, visit mercymultiplied.com

Find YOUR FREEDOM in HIM,
Sheryl McAfee
Director

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Have you ever unintentionally brought pain to someone that you love and would never want to hurt? 
I don’t mean a spouse but a close friend or a family member?

I am not referring to times when we get upset in our relationships and we say things we don’t mean. 
I am referring to an action or inaction that hurts the heart of another that we are oblivious to until it is brought to our attention. 

There are two specific incidents that played out in my own life  a few years ago that come to mind. 
I was brought to my knees when I realized the insensitivity that I had allowed to cloud my decisions.  In both instances what was done was done and there was not one thing I could have done about it.  That part was stinkin’ frustrating.

What about you? Can you relate?

 

To read the rest of the story go to:  "Blessed is She"
 A blog by: Mindy Fair
(A Paula's Hope Volunteer)
I was born in Louisiana, Missouri and raised on a farm 7 miles from town about 5 miles from the Mississippi River.  That location is a little more than an hour north of St. Louis. Farm life consisted of milking cows, riding a tractor, hauling hay and hunting in the surrounding woods – most of all a lot of hard work. I had 4 sisters, 1 brother and many cousins. In high school I participated in Basketball, Football and Track.
After graduating from Bible college in 1965 I moved from Springfield, Mo. to Memphis, TN and became a bi-vocational Pastor/Personnel Manager. Malinda and I met and married in 1975. We have four children and four grandchildren.  They all live in Northwest Arkansas.
After about 15 years in Human Resources at Chicago Bridge and Iron, in Memphis, I joined Walmart for about 15 years. Walmart transferred us to Bentonville in 1989. Before full retirement, I served on the staff at two different churches.
In 2021 I became a Discipleship Counselor at Paula’s Hope. It has brought fulfillment to my calling - to teach and disciple Christ’s body. It is my pleasure to serve!


Thank you, Larry and Malinda Patrick for all you do at Paula's Hope, Inc.
How Blessed We Are To Have You Both On Our Team!
 
March...Women's History Month.

March is known as Women's History Month.  Women throughout biblical history have been known for praying.  Sarah, Naomi, Miriam, Hagar, and Hannah.  They poured out their hearts and had faith in the Lord to meet their needs.  Women are known for needing to talk more than men, so maybe it comes a little more natural for us to talk to God, to pour out our hearts to our Father... which speaks to one of our deepest needs, being heard.  David Augsburger wrote "Being heard is so close to being loved that for the average person they are almost indistinguishable." We all like to know that our Lord is always there to listen to us.  Being heard is being loved.  It is a part of everyone's desire to be known.  I encourage you to pray to your Father in heaven who desperately wants to know you and be known by you.  I honor the women in history who showed us in practice what praying looks like and the fruit that comes from being faithful and obedient in coming to God. 
 
"Then you will call on me and come and pray to me, and I will listen to you." Jeremiah 29:12

REMEMBER: Every Monday at 4:30pm-5:30pm at the Paula's Hope Education Building's Library room, we will be having our prayer time for the needs of our clients, our center, our future and our community. Join me if you can and if you aren't able to, we welcome you to pray with us in spirit wherever you are.
 
NEED PRAYER?  Email us at prayer@paulashope.org or call 479- 372-4370.
(Leave a message if after office hours.)  
Always in prayer for you,
Carmen Lane     


 
  

Our Prayer Needs: 
  1. God's Holy Spirit to be present.
  2. God's vision for Paula's Hope
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  4. Our current volunteers and the ministry they are providing others as well as guidance and wisdom in all they do.
  5. Our clients, their needs and God's revelation in their life.
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