This article is about my experience of finding a bra after breast-conserving surgery and that took me four years after my operation. Why is that? When you have breast-conserving surgery, however tidy your scars are or not, when you have a lump or tissue removed the chances are that your breast is misshapen. There may be dents or the skin may be puckered and with Lymphoedema your breast is highly likely to be swollen.
With the swelling your boob may swell at different times of the day. For example, your affected boob may start the day as a D cup, by lunch time you may be a double D cup and by teatime a triple D cup and your boob keeps swelling. Not everyone who has had post-operative surgery will experience this, but it does happen. Therefore, when you have one normal boob and one that swells throughout the day then finding a bra can be difficult.
You will need to find a bra that has wide enough sides so that you don’t spill out of them, seams should be soft, no harsh ridges. A bra with straps that do not cut into your shoulder and leave indentations (bra straps will be wider than you are used to). You may need to use cushion straps. Fastenings need to be easy to do up and undo and not leave marks. There needs to be good separation between the cups so that the middle lies flat and if the back of the bra rides up then it hasn’t been fitted correctly. Finally, no wires.
I learnt very quickly post-surgery that wearing matching lingerie/underwear was a thing of the past and not something manufacturers of post-operative bras where keen on. I did ask one of the manufacturers why this was. The general answer was that they had briefly tried this, and the company said it wasn’t cost-effective, to manufacture matching items, and they said in their experience there wasn’t a need. This unfortunately means that whoever manufactures post-operative bras, as their customer, your choice is restricted. There is no, or very little decorative detail and colours are limited to beige, black or white.
However, a group of us where fortunate enough a few years ago to spend time at George Headquarters near Lutterworth and at the time they agreed with us and provided matching-coloured knickers for their coloured post-operative bras.
In our discussions with George, we stated that cotton linings where essential inside the cup as cotton is more absorbent and we asked for the lining to be made deeper. Good post-operative bras will have a decent size pocket so that a prosthesis or massage pad will sit comfortably inside the pocket.
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