April Caregiver Tip: A is for Accept Help
Many times, others offer help, but caregivers are reluctant to take them up on their offer. We don’t want to be a bother, we don’t want to intrude, we are capable without help. Again, perhaps one of those statements may sound familiar, right? This month, look at it differently. When you accept help from others you are giving that person an opportunity to give. When you let someone help you, you also let them in and allow them to become more connected to you. It makes us feel purposeful and appreciated. Make a list of those things that you really would love to have someone help with (run an errand, come over and visit, make a meal – you name it) and when someone says “how can I help” pick an item off your list.
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