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A few days ago, I saw my first exhibition since March. While in some spaces social distancing is awkwardly visible, in a gallery it seemed almost normal. I had missed the slow paced movement of people, the way they step towards or away from a painting, almost arbitrarily. I had missed the way strangers scan a room for the next appealing object and dance through space absorbed, floating, as if sleep walking. The exhibition offered a new perspective on our relationship with trees - a welcomed invitation for those of us who have recently spent more time in nature than we could have imagined.

I was reminded of the complex networks that connect forest organisms and of how little we see on the surface. Environment writer Barry Lopez says that woods defeat the viewfinder because they cannot be framed. Similarly, when we think about the systems of connection we are part of, so little is visible to us. Sociologically predisposed (or socially pressured?) to be strong, independent and individualistic, the modern western person is lead to believe that every achievement is a fruit of personal hard work, willpower and grit. But if you dissect any meaningful moment, you will soon find that it's part of a much larger system of events and people. We operate within a confluence of trajectories and legacies. Becoming interested in the systems we are part of and the ones we are affecting is not only important, but necessary. It's only by looking at the fuller picture that we can start understanding the impact - and reach - of our work, words and care. Belonging has a long tail. 

Correlations

 
  • David Steindl-Rast, a monk known for his work on gratitude, talks about networks beautifully. He says that any complex experience of gratitude makes one aware of the interdependence between people, events and nature. Belonging is not a personal experience but an interconnected one - it's all about belonging to each other. Steindl-Rast also mentions the teachings of Spanish priest Raimon Panikkar who says that the future won't be about a new, big tower of power but "well-trodden path from house to house". How wonderful is this image?
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  • When I talk about community, I often talk about communities, because communities are intertwined, interdependent expanding. They are part of broader systems of connection.This reminds me of a favourite poem by Rilke (which you can also listen to here): 

    I live my life in widening circles


    that reach out across the world.

    I may not complete this last one

    but I give myself to it.


    I circle around God, around the primordial tower.

    I’ve been circling for thousands of years
    
and I still don’t know: am I a falcon,
    
a storm, or a great song?

     
  • This reminds me of a great talk that Carl Martin did for CreativeMornings/London a few years ago on how relationships are the foundation of his career.

Celebrations

Conversations

Conversations communities around me are exploring this week: 
  • Who's in the room and who is missing? 
  • What do you learn when you map out the communities you are part of?  
  • What do you learn when you map out your journey strictly based on relationships that propelled you forward? 
That's all for today!

With gratitude,


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