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SEEKING RECONCILIATION

Dear colleagues

Welcome to our next edition of ‘Called, Connected, Committed’, where we are focussing on Seeking Reconciliation. It’s a crucial part of all of our leadership journeys, as in any school, conflict and disagreement will be a daily reality and expectation. Some of this will be immediately resolvable, some of it will create longer term challenges, requiring significant patience and endurance.

I was delighted to sit down this week with Lou Peet, who is the Chaplain at Bluecoat Church of England Secondary School in Coventry to talk about the ICONS project, which comes out of the inspirational work of Coventry Cathedral, and indeed the wider city as a city of peace and reconciliation. It was a fantastic conversation with lots of really good practical ideas for school leaders to use straight away in thinking how to embed reconciliation in the school context.

For those of us that seek to avoid conflict, we may need to embrace it through seeking reconciliation, getting things out in the open and expressing ourselves honestly, perhaps for the first time. For those of us that are more comfortable in conflict, we may need to take care not to wound un-necessarily, and pause to listen before opening our mouths for the next word.

As the challenges of this current season continue, there is potential that the need for reconciliation rises – whether it be with colleagues, students, parents or other stakeholders. Perhaps today might be the day to pick up the phone, walk down the corridor to begin that process. It usually starts with me.

In the midst of it all, may we know something of the peace of God – which in religious language, we sometimes say ‘transcends all understanding’ – in more simple terms – peace which just doesn’t make sense otherwise – and where there are opportunities to bring that peace in our classrooms and corridors today, may we have the courage to take the first step.

Andy Wolfe - Deputy Chief Education Officer (Leadership Development)

Seeking Reconciliation Reflection & Conversation (Audio Version) - click here to listen

This week, our reflection is read by Lou Peet - Chaplain at Blue Coat School, Coventry.
Lou then discusses Seeking Reconciliation in conversation with Andy Wolfe.
Seeking Reconciliation Reflection (Extract)
Leaders in education are called to pursue social justice and wellbeing of all, showing love for the disadvantaged, marginalised and vulnerable. They create and implement a curriculum that liberates and empowers children and communities. Barriers are removed by wise pedagogy, transformative pastoral care and wise allocation of resources. Leaders build schools that enable disparate communities to live well together, rooted in dialogue, empathy and love. Their schools become beacons of restoration, filled with peace-seeking, environment-seeking activists.
Reconciliation is the healing of broken, wounded or distrustful relationships, in honest recognition of past hurts.


To read the reflection in full visit:
https://www.cefel.org.uk/reconciliation/

Suggested resources to reflect on Seeking Reconciliation where you are
'A school that does that is making one of the most important contributions to its members and to society.'
As you so warmly welcomed your pupils back into school, you have shone in our society as beacons of reconciliation
You may resonate with how the headteachers in this article from the Church Times feel, yet you have kept going and the impact on your communities is huge: '
We have been a lifeline for a lot of families, and that sense of community has been a real positive for our school during lockdown' (Headteacher of Ellis C.E. Primary). 
Our hope is that these resources can in some way support as you reflect on what, or who, called you to your role in the first place; 'the reason I haven’t burnt out is because I’ve never lost my purpose for doing this' (Headteacher of Archbishop Tennison school).
We stand with you and thank you for all you are doing.
'Christians trust that God is a God of peace in the fullest sense'
Why don't you take a moment to let this beautiful hymn roll over you - that you may know the peace of God for yourself, right where you are.
'Can schools be places where reconciliation can be learned and practised?'
One way in which schools have been able to practise and learn about reconciliation is through Coventry Cathedral's ICONS project. Since WW2, Coventry has been known as a 'City of Peace and Reconciliation' and through its Cathedral has sought to inspire others to join in this difficult but important work of learning to deal well with conflict. ICONS stands for 'International Cross of Nails Schools'; you might recognise the cross of nails symbol from the Archbishop of Canterbury, who wears one around his neck as a sign of his own commitment to reconciliation. These schools commit long term to embedding these principles within their communities:
  • Healing the Wounds of History
  • Living with Difference and Celebrating Diversity
  • Building a Culture of Peace

Schools right across Europe have used this approach and anyone with a connection to Coventry Cathedral can get involved. In this week's podcast, Lou Peet from Blue Coat School in Coventry shares what this looks like in action. Their ICONS project joint with Bilton C.E. Junior school, along with projects by other ICONS schools, are featured in this newsletter .
Why don't you take a look and see how you might embed some of these principles in your own school?
'A Christian understanding of reconciliation first of all hopes in God... Then, we can wholeheartedly be reconcilers.'
Muthuraj Swamy here discusses his book Reconciliation with the Archbishop of Canterbury, talking about how concern for the other comes from seeing them as made in the image of God. When we recognise that we all belong to each other and that reconciliation begins with us, we can start the journey of reconciling with one another.
You can find more resources for exploring ideas of belonging and the story of the Good Samaritan in this week's Faith at Home worship resource for schools.
'Leaders can work out ways in which deep divisions and related conflicts can become occasions for... learning how to be a community where we live in mutual respect, understanding and peace.'
This brief extract from a conversation between Archbishop Desmond Tutu and the Dalai Lama gives some powerful messages about forgiveness - that it requires putting oneself in another's shoes, that it is not weakness but in fact a sign of strength. And that it is vital, but rarely easy.
A great clip to use with both staff and young people, alike.
'...learning how to be a community where we live in mutual respect, understanding and peace.'
Stephen Covey - author of The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People - reminds us that if we truly seek to understand others we need to listen differently. What would our communities look like if we all learnt to listen purely to gain understanding of others?
How might it transform not just our schools, but society too?

Prayers for School Leaders

Heavenly Father, Author of Creation
You have made us in your image - each and every one of us.
We belong to you, and we belong to each other.
Remind us each day of the dignity and inherent worth in all you have made,
Renew our relationships, restore our broken hearts,
And bind us together in your transcendent love.

In you there is no division - 
Help us to be a school that moves quickly to resolve problems.
In you there is no 'in or out' -
Help us to be a school that welcomes and includes without prejudice or bias.
In you there is no enmity -
Help us be a school that seeks not to compete but to draw others together.
In you there is no despair -
Help us to be a school that forges peace whenever and wherever we can.


In you we find only love - may we see everyone with compassionate eyes.
In you we find only freedom - may we forgive that others might be free too.
In you we find only peace - may we relentlessly pursue reconciliation.
In you we find only hope - may we be beacons of good news.

For Jesus Christ's sake - who died that we might be fully reconciled with you,
Amen

'A Christian understanding of reconciliation... hopes in Jesus as embodying peace.'
This new version of the song 'Bind us Together' encourages us to:
'Cast our differences aside
Making room for one another
May we live as we'll abide
In His presence all together
Every nation, tribe and tongue'
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