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October 2020 
Introduced by... Amanda
   Everyone from Confucious to Mark Twain has dubbed living in pursuit of what you love as the secret to never having to work at all. As a writer, I’m privileged to be doing just that. But in the same way we’ve seen how working-from-home can morph into living-at-work if you’re not careful, chasing a profession that’s tethered to your passion can lead you straight into a corner. Because if the thing you love is also what quite literally props the roof up over your head, it’s bound to change under all that weight. More simply put (and these are not my words, but I like them a lot), when your job is your passion, the work never stops. 

But if I remove the deadlines, the word counts, the SEO terms, the editorial filters, and perhaps most importantly, the paycheck, I’m left with the question: What would I be writing if my livelihood didn’t depend on it?

The answer lies in the unpolished opinions unfolding across my DMs (yes, I went there). Some of my best thinking happens in virtual conversation with two fellow freelance writers where my varied musings don’t just come to life, they’re contemplated, challenged, re-imagined, and improved. Mary Frances hails from New York, covering everything from socialism to sex toys. Alice is a Paris-based Brit known for her sharp-as-hell editing and wit. From my own London perch, I pick ceaselessly at their brilliant brains via Instagram in search of comfort, info, humor, and diverse perspectives. Now, in the throes of this global health crisis and its crippling uncertainty, during which a belated racial reckoning has forced everyone, everywhere to rethink how we move forward from here (not to mention, a historic presidential election that gets more insane by the day, threatening the safety of our bodies, our planet, and our democracy), our private chat has been a place for me to reflect and grow. When I asked Mary Frances and Alice about opening it up to a wider audience, they agreed.  

So that’s how we’ve found ourselves here, in your inbox, welcoming you to our Medium Rare newsletter and thanking you so very much for your curiosity. Each month, we’ll be prompting one other with topical questions to be tackled from our different viewpoints, backgrounds, and geographic locations. We’ll also be reaching out to those we follow and admire — whose voices we look forward to listening to more, including, and amplifying throughout the process — and recommending the cool stuff that’s got our attention RN.

We invite you, the reader, to reach out with anything you want to add, potential new topics of discussion, and so on. Our DMs are always open. 
AR

Amanda asks:
What would you write if your livelihood didn’t depend on it?

In the words of...
Mary Frances

I’m not sure I know what it means to write for myself. When you write for a living, it’s so tempting (for me) to start knee-jerk editing your every thought, whatever the context.
 
I love groping for the right words to put through the rock tumbler. It’s addictive. The mining scene in the 1930s Snow White comes to mind, where they “dig, dig, dig,” and Dopey slams a gem from the haul in each eye, refracting his vision. Six-year-old me was obsessed, and I’ve tried to multiply and crystalize my thoughts ever since. 
 
You could also argue that all writing is inherently transactional – either between you and your editor, your reader, or yourself. Especially in the case of the latter, Carl Jung (RIP the GOAT) would advise us to keep sifting through our infinite, unrefined selves with each topic we address. How else do you find out what’s at stake? What’s growing? Shrinking? Disassociating? I’m grateful that my writing career has been so varied (i.e. end-of-life planning, academia, luxury fashion, sexual wellness). But what’s its axis?  

Anaïs Nin (while we’re name-dropping muses) said “we write to taste life twice.” Moving forward, I’d like to center it, and specifically within the genre of creative non-fiction that first drew me to write. I’d like to learn, unlearn, and use words as less of a tap-dance, and more of a lifeline into the topics of gender, relationships, and ethics that have always piqued my interest, but taken a far more involved role – physically, and mentally – over the past eight months than ever before. MFK

In the words of...
Alice

“Start with a cop-out,” said no-one, ever. But that’s exactly what I’m going to do, because the short answer is: this newsletter.
 
Like many aspiring (or just plain naïve) writers, my career didn’t begin with a paycheck. Cue montage: My earliest memories of writing for fun were putting together The Onion-style spoof newspapers with my best friend Katie when we were in primary school. One memorable headline – "Whale Found in the Thames" – actually came true in 2006. It’s fair to say we were avant-garde. Fast forward through the Tumblr soapbox years, where I ranted about the virtues of smoking (I’ve quit), eating meat (I’ve quit) and why the movie Avatar sucks (it does). Then, there were the “Miserable Poetry” years. Here’s a poem I wrote about myself that will also introduce me, albeit a pretentious 17-year-old me: Made in inland England/She’s educated and frustrated/More than likely inebriated/Liberated, not concentrated/Edges perforated, thoughts articulated.
 
Unbelievably, I didn’t become a poet. My first regular writing gig was for an online music zine and my next one was for a physical art mag which, after about two years, became my first paid writing gig. Art morphed into fashion, then lifestyle, then travel, then culture, then veered off into champagne and cocktails before U-turning back to fashion.
 
Once again, my career has shifted gears and I have found myself with time to concentrate on personal projects. Just as I was panicking about how I’d fill that time, Amanda suggested we start a newsletter. So watch this space. Channeling my childhood clairvoyance, I predict we’ll be exploring all things satirical, sartorial and social for months to come. AB

MEDIUM RARE RADAR


⚖️ This explainer on what court packing is, why people are so opposed to it, and how it might actually be America's best shot at preserving the institutional legitimacy of the Supreme Court - AR

💊 This highly informative and eloquent Vogue article by Amanda about how WhatsApp is the key to democratising global healthcare - AB

💡Assata: An Autobiography by Black Panther Assata Shakur. Pure strength, history and poetry. An invaluable revolutionary tool - MFK

💅 This funny, feminist and mater-of-fact podcast by the unflinching stand-up comic Katherine Ryan - AB

🐸 The absolutely bonkers way they filmed The Muppets’ 1970s “Rainbow Connection” video - MFK

 
👠 This insightful Instagram account documenting the styles and stories of African fashion through the 20th century - AB 

🗳️ This infographic which helps early voters (hi! me!) avoid the common mistakes that could disqualify their mail-in ballots - AR

🌿 The ephemeral plant and vegetable clothing of Ashton Paige Anderson - MFK

🐼 And for the moments where you just want to escape it all, check out the Smithsonian National Zoo’s Panda Cam for 24/7, on-demand cuteness -AR 
 About Us 
Medium Rare is a monthly roundtable from writerly friends and former colleagues Amanda, Alice and Mary Frances, based respectively in London, Paris and New York. Each month we ask the big (the small and, of course, the medium) questions to encourage new perspectives on the things that matter.
 
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