Looking back at my expectations freshman year makes me smile, not only because there is no “perfect” major or career, but because I assumed that this is what “finding myself” meant. I focused on an idealized, successful version of myself and projected that image to be the end goal of college. While it is good to have at least a loose plan through college and to set long-term goals, a crucial part of “finding yourself” is looking inwardly in the present. You and I didn’t arrive at college as a blank slate. Finding your major, career, and passions first requires a self-awareness of your identities and the ways they affect how you navigate the world.
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