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This Weekend at First Unitarian Church

Sunday, December 6, 2020

Livestreamed at 10:30 am (prelude begins at 10:25) – https://youtu.be/jOHXke60eWQ

“Having Principles”

Mahatma Gandhi suggested that “A principle is a principle, and in no case can it be watered down because of our incapacity to live it in practice.  We have to strive to achieve it, and the striving should be conscious, deliberate, and hard.”  What are the principles of Unitarian Universalism; where do they come from; and what do they mean?  Homily by Rev. Connie Grant; music by Ellen Gozion, Instrumental Music Director.

 Annual Budget Meeting
 Sunday, December 6, 2020 – 12:00–1:00 p.m. 
 Via Zoom
(Link will be sent to your email address on Saturday, December 5)

All members and friends of First Unitarian Church are invited to attend the Annual Budget Meeting. The Board of Trustees will present the proposed 2021 church budget and answer questions. We welcome your input and participation in our annual budget process!


RUaUU? Orientation Toward Membership at First Unitarian Church
Sunday, December 6, 2:00-4:30 by Zoom
Are you considering becoming a member of the congregation and want to find out more about what that means?
How do people of diverse beliefs become part of one congregation? Enjoy an afternoon of exploration about your own spiritual and religious orientation and the workings of the church, led by Rev. Connie Grant and representatives of church programs. The session will be held if a minimum of 6 people are registered by Friday, December 4. RSVP to Constance.L.Grant@gmail.com to receive a Zoom link and a packet of materials for the session.

NEWSLETTER NEWS

Participatory Pageant Returns by Video!
Have you always wanted to be a star? or a friendly beast, a shepherd, an angel, or a wise person? This is your chance! Sign up here by December 6 for the part of your choice: (https://forms.gle/FxDP8fQZ3ibdrb89A.)

This year, our Christmas pageant will be a video with music, created from your submitted still photos and video recordings. There are many speaking parts and an unlimited number of non-speaking parts, all suitable for children, youth, and adults! For speaking parts, you’ll be given a line to read. For all parts, you can devise a costume, as simple or as elaborate as you choose. Your submission will be needed by December 10, and the resulting video will be featured in our 10:30 am worship service on Sunday, December 20.

SIGN UP FORM


 

In 2020, First Unitarian Church’s Alternative Gift Market has a singular focus!
THE KHASI HILLS SCHOOL SPONSORSHIP
In Meghalaya, India

Each year, our First Unitarian Church hosts an “Alternative Gift Market” to support high need international and domestic charities endorsed by Alternative Gifts International. Congregants choose charities and make donations as a “gift of conscience” or as a gift in someone’s honor or memory. In 2020, COVID-19 has eliminated the option for us to host an onsite Alternative Gift Market.

Thankfully we have a beautiful, virtual set of gift options focused on one cherished partnership that First Unitarian Church has sponsored since 2003. For the past few years, we have supported two new high school teachers at the Annie Margaret Barr Higher Secondary School in the Khasi Hills. This year we continue our commitment to funding the annual salaries of these teachers. We need your crucial help because the pandemic has prevented our usual festive fall Khasi Hills campaign. The Virtual Alternative Gift Market, with your help, will fill that gap.

Many of you are familiar with our history of helping our fellow UUs in India. Although we started small, by providing student sponsorships for 5th through 10th-grade students and funds for fences to keep goats out of the school science projects, the work we do is no longer small. The school has expanded to include all of high school (“higher secondary school”). Students can now complete high school locally rather than traveling to the state capital, which has enabled many more students to get their high school degree and continue their education. They have been so grateful for our help.

Here are some donation suggestions… and please be as generous as you can. A little goes so far!

___$500 for one month of a teacher’s salary
___$250 for two weeks of a teacher’s salary
___$125 for one week of a teacher’s salary
___$50 for two days of a teacher’s salary
___$25 for one day of a teacher’s salary
___$10 for one library book

You have two ways to donate:

1) Go to our website (first-unitarian-pgh.org) to make a secure donation. On the Home page, click “GIVE” on the upper right. You will see a menu asking for the amount. Where it says, “Give to Annual Fund,” use the arrow to scroll down and you will see “Khasi Hills Sponsorship Fund.” Make your donation.
2) Send a check made out to First Unitarian Church of Pittsburgh, noting “Khasi Hills Gift” in the memo line. Send to: First Unitarian Church Pittsburgh, Attn: Rita Gates, Business Manager, 605 Morewood Ave, Pittsburgh PA 15213.


Gift Cards
You have the option of receiving a note to add to a greeting card. This enclosure will say that “A Gift Has Been Made in Your Honor.” Send an email to Chris Milcarek at milcarek@pitt.edu. Chris will email you Word documents that describe our partnership, and you will have the option to enter the specific gift level (if you like) before you print them.

A MESSAGE FROM YOUR INTERIM MINISTER 

Ways to Be Together

At our virtual “Coffee Hour” after the service last Sunday, in the few minutes when the larger group was together before and after breakout room discussions, a number of people mentioned birthdays being celebrated by congregants, and some of the various ways they were celebrating. One mentioned a party by Zoom, attended by people from all over the country, who wouldn’t have been able to gather in person even in “normal” times. The topic of the service was “things worth waiting for,” and the suggested discussion question was “what is something you are waiting for or have waited for?” In these times, many of us are eagerly awaiting the time when it will be possible to be together in person with friends and family. And even in these times, there is much to celebrate and many ways to do to it.

Many congregants have said that they find the virtual social time after the Sunday service to be a meaningful way to connect with others. Even though I know that you are “there” in the livestream service, I love seeing your faces at coffee hour! (The Zoom link is sent out by email on Saturday; please email me if you’d like to be on the list to receive the link.)

Looking forward to the time when it will again be possible to hold regular in-person gatherings in the building, a task force is forming to plan for re-opening, including specific criteria and procedures that will need to be in place. Please contact me if you have relevant expertise to offer.

And as always, please be in touch if you’d like to talk with me about anything that has come up for you.

Looking forward,

Connie

INSPIRE

Upcoming Worship Services

Dec. 13, 2020

Livestreamed at 10:30 am (prelude begins at 10:25) 

“The Extraordinary in the Ordinary”

Albert Einstein suggested that there are only two ways to live your life: as if nothing is a miracle, or as if everything is. How do you want to live your life? Homily by Rev. Connie Grant; music by Ellen Gozioin, Instrumental Music Director.

 

Dec 20, 2020

Livestreamed at 10:30 am (prelude begins at 10:25) 

“Participatory Christmas Pageant”

Christmas pageant by video, with a cast of many! Sign up here by December 6for the part of your choice: (https://forms.gle/FxDP8fQZ3ibdrb89A). Have you always wanted to be a star? or a friendly beast, a shepherd, an angel, or a wise person? This is your chance! This year, our Christmas pageant will be a video with music, created from your submitted still photos and video recordings. There are many speaking parts and an unlimited number of non-speaking parts, all suitable for children, youth, and adults! For speaking parts, you’ll be given a line to read. For all parts, you can devise a costume, as simple or as elaborate as you choose. Your submission will be needed by December 10. A multigenerational service led by Rev. Connie Grant and Erica Shadowsong, Director of Lifespan Religious Education; Music by Ellen Gozion, Director of Instrumental Music.

"Descent of Persephone" - A Virtual Winter Solstice Service
Each year, nature invites us to contemplate darkness, light, and the space in-between.  This year, our solstice service will explore a telling of this familiar Greek myth, and the story of a goddess who learned to navigate and ultimately triumph, over two realms.  We invite you to join us on Monday, December 21st, @ 7:30 pm to experience the power of the Winter Solstice on the longest night of the year.  Our service will be live via Zoom.

 

Dec 27, 2020

Livestreamed at 10:30 am (prelude begins at 10:25) 

“Darkness into Light”

Darkness can be a place of fear and sadness or a source of comfort and rest. We’ll explore aspects of darkness in our lives. A collaboration of the Worship Team: Bryan Bandli, Alice Carnes, Kathy Fein, Louise Jencik, Ward Kelsey, Stephanie Pawlowski, and Melody Platz. Music by Ellen Gozion, Director of Instrumental Music.





Buffalo Rose returns to SongSpace on Dec 12, 7:30 pm for a Livestream to remember!
Buffalo Rose commandeers the shimmering and electrifying riffs of the mandolin (Bryce Rabideau), the cascading guitar arpeggios of folk and bluegrass (Shane McLaughlin), the ringing purity of the dobro (Malcolm Inglis), and the steady percussive thrum of an upright bass (Jason Rafalak), providing an effervescent blanket of sound under and around which the ethereal harmonies of Lucy Clabby, Rosanna Spindler, and McLaughlin float.

Livestreams at
https://www.facebook.com/SongSpace/live/
https://youtube.com/channel/UCm8Fa3PZUG5XjcreYf7KNaw

The stream will open shortly before 7:30 pm Show at 7:30 pm 
Free admission, tips to the performers strongly encouraged.

Check them out at http://www.buffalorosemusic.com
Hear their music at https://ffm.bio/buffalorose

Last-minute details at uusongspace.com

LEARN

Adult Religious Education

New Fall Book Groups!
Explore the following books with others throughout the year!  To sign up, email eshadowsong@first-unitarian-pgh.org with the title/s you are interested in.  Those who sign up for the same book will be connected with each other, to decide meeting dates and times based on your availability.  You can sign up for more than one.  Once there is a minimum of 3 people for a title, those people will be contacted.


Yes to Life: In Spite of Everything by  Viktor E. Frankl
Eleven months after he was liberated from the Nazi concentration camps, Viktor E. Frankl held a series of public lectures in Vienna. The psychiatrist, who would soon become world-famous, explained his central thoughts on meaning, resilience, and the importance of embracing life even in the face of great adversity.

Published here for the very first time in English, Frankl’s words resonate as strongly today—as the world faces a coronavirus pandemic, social isolation, and great economic uncertainty—as they did in 1946. He offers an insightful exploration of the maxim “Live as if you were living for the second time,” and he unfolds his basic conviction that every crisis contains an opportunity. Despite the unspeakable horrors of the camps, Frankl learned from the strength of his fellow inmates that it is always possible to “say yes to life”—a profound and timeless lesson for us all.  



UUA Common Read 2020:  Breathe A Letter to My Sons by Imani Perry
Emotionally raw and deeply reflective, Imani Perry issues a challenge to society to see Black children as deserving of humanity. She admits fear and frustration for her African American sons in a society that is increasingly racist and at times seems irredeemable. However, as a mother, feminist, writer, and intellectual, Perry offers an unfettered expression of love—finding beauty and possibility in life—and she exhorts her children and their peers to find the courage to chart their own paths and find steady footing and inspiration in Black tradition. The New York Times calls Breathe “an elixir of history, ancestry, and compassion, which, together, become instruction…a parent’s unflinching demand, born of inherited trauma and love, for her children’s right simply to be possible.”

Breathe offers a broader meditation on race, gender, and the meaning of a life well-lived and is also an unforgettable lesson in Black resistance and resilience.



UU Spiritual Affinity Groups
Do you consider yourself a UU Buddhist?  UU Christian?  Buddhist?  Humanist?  Pagan?   All of these and more are part of our congregation, but not all of us know who we are!  I am looking to help those interested to start affinity groups in which they can explore and practice those spiritual paths that call them the most.  Unitarian Universalism represents a wide variety of faith paths among individuals who share our 7 Principles in common.  Many of us have a need to engage with our spiritual paths with others more directly and frequently than we otherwise might as a whole congregation.  Please email eshadowsong@first-unitarian-pgh.org to let me know of your interest.  When I have a minimum of 4 for any group, I will connect you with each other and we will discuss possibilities for activities, learning, and engagement.

Young Adults Religious Education 

Young Adults Small Group     
Weekly Meetings on Zoom
Please join us for our weekly meeting at 7 pm on Wednesdays, where we explore spiritual practice in our everyday lives.  Interested in joining us?  Email Erica at 
eshadowsong@first-unitarian-pgh.org 

Children and Youth Religious Education 

The Artist's Way for Parents - New Book Group for Parents!

Now a book group especially for parents of school-aged children and youth.
According to Cameron, “Every child is creative—and every parent is creative. Your child requires joy, and exercising creativity, both independently and together, makes for a happy and fulfilling family life.” Focusing on parents and their children, newborn through age twelve, The Artist’s Way for Parents builds on the foundation of The Artist’s Way and shares it with the next generation. The spiritual concepts and practical tools in this book will guide parents as they steer their children gently to greater creativity. The Artist’s Way for Parents provides an ongoing spiritual toolkit that parents can enter—and reenter—at any pace and at any point in their children’s early years.   
This book group will be facilitated by the LRED, with dates and times to be determined by committed participants.  This group will be held if there is a minimum of participating parents of 6 families.  Participants can be parents in the RE program or who have school-aged children and are friends or visitors of the church.  Contact the LRED at 
eshadowsong@first-unitarian-pgh.org right away if interested!


 
FALL RELIGIOUS EDUCATION has started, Sundays @ 11:30 a.m. - 12 p.m!
Join the director of religious education and religious education volunteers for an ongoing exploration of living our Unitarian Universalist faith at home, in our families, and beyond.  During this year of the church building closure, we are spending more time than ever with our families, a situation that presents many challenges, but also some opportunities.  Religious education for children this year will have a multi-age, family focus; parents are invited to attend with their children via Zoom.  This year, we are diving into the 6 Sources of Unitarian Universalist faith (https://www.uua.org/beliefs/what-we-believe/sources).   Zoom information will be sent to the parent list; please email me directly to be added to the list at eshadowsong@first-unitarian-pgh.org. 
CONNECT 

Introduction to Unitarian Universalism
Fourth Sundays of the Month, 11:30 – 12:15

Find out more about the history, varied theologies, and organization of Unitarian Universalism. Led by church staff and representatives of the Membership Team. Fourth Sundays of the month, January 22, February 26, and March 26. Start out in Zoom social time following the service, and you’ll be directed to a breakout room for “Intro to UU.” RSVP to Constance.L.Grant@gmail.com to receive the link.


 

Men's Group 
The December 9th meeting of the Men's group will be from 7:30 to 9:00 with a ZOOM gathering.  
We will begin with our usual check-in and then - we will have a discussion. Someone told me that the Nov meeting was a downer thinking of what we most dread about getting older.  OK, let's turn the question on its head for the holiday season.  What are some of the good things about getting older that we appreciate and celebrate?  If you need any help with the zoom link, get back to me. Bob Mitchell or I will send the link a few days before the meeting. For more information contact Jim at 
J5650R@comcast.net.

 


Women’s Alliance 
First and third Thursdays of each month on Zoom from 10:30 am. to 12:15 p.m. From 10:00 a.m. to 10:30 we have a business meeting and announcements.
All are welcome!
Contact Alice Carnes, co-chair, alice.carnes51@yahoo.com 704-453-4175 or Kathy Fein, co-chair, kathyrsp@comcast.net 412-337-4925 for the Zoom invitation.


 

 Covenant group Opportunities  
Consider joining or creating a virtual covenant group.
If you are interested in joining or creating  a new covenant group, you can complete a 
Covenant Group interest form or contact Alice Bright
ab03@andrew.cmu.edu

If your group would like to set up meetings using the church account please contact Rev. Connie Grant at Constance.L.Grant@gmail.com.
SERVE

Church Sponsored Activities and Community Events
Khasi Hills Video of You “Gathered Side by Side” 
 The Khasi Hills team heard several comments that the video we shared at the end of the October 4 church service brought folks to tears, watching us sing as a congregation in the church we so miss. Click on the video link below to see a rendition of We Shall Overcome by Khasi youth followed by our congregation singing, filmed at the March 2019 Khasi Hills church service. With our 200-year anniversary celebration on October 18 featuring the hymn words “Here we have gathered, gathered side by side,” we thought you might like to actually see that!
 



Toy Drive for Matilda Theiss Center
(Photo; Just a small part of the 2019 toy donations!)

For many years, our church has provided toys, hats, and mittens to children served by the Matilda Theiss Health Center in the Hill District. The Center provides primary health care for people of all ages, including uninsured patients, and is the only federally qualified health center within UPMC. We will be continuing our Holiday gift tradition a little differently this year, but we want to make sure that all the children will receive gifts this Holiday season.

We know you love to shop for these gifts, choose a tag from the tree so you can buy for a toddler, school-age child, or teen, and then place it under a Christmas tree in the Sanctuary. But, to keep you safe and out of the shops, our team will have all the fun this year! Last year we hung tags for 130 children and this year we have 108 children to buy for. Our committee has information from Matilda Theiss about the children’s gender and ages, so we will shop accordingly. Just so we don’t have all the fun, we will share photos of the toys when we deliver them early in December.

So, this year the Holiday Toy Drive will, with gratitude, be the recipient of this month’s Share the Plate Sunday. We are asking the congregation to contribute so that the committee can purchase toys, hats, and gloves for the children. The deadline for contributions is Friday, December 4th.

We thank you in advance for your contributions to this longstanding tradition that supports our local community. And we look forward to 2021 when we can see the Christmas trees at church with toys, hats, and mittens stacked underneath!


 

UUJusticePA Advocacy Day 2020
UUJustice PA news-Nov. 14 Advocacy Day summary (compiled and shared by Elizabeth Perkins)
Thanks to zoom, 70 UU's (including several from 1st Unitarian) gathered on Nov. 14, 2020, for a day of reflection on the elections: "What Happened, What's Next".
On the state level, four UU's ran for office and one won! Dianne Herrin will now represent House District 156, a district composed mainly of West Chester, PA. She beat her Republican opponent by 3, 963 votes. (Ms. Herrin is currently Mayor of West Chester Borough.)
Of the other three UU's who ran but lost, ( Shanna Danielson, Peter Buck, and Tara Zrinski ), Tara Zrinski says she will run again in 2022.
Overall, the PA House of Representatives will have 91 Democrats to 112 Republicans. The PA Senate will have 20 Democrats to 30 Republicans. With both chambers dominated by Republicans, our efforts to promote UU values remain severely challenged.
Highlights from our partners were presented by individuals representing each organization:
~Pennsylvania Stands Up: 
https://pastandsup.org/
~Pennsylvania United: https://paunited.org/
~CASA
~POWER: 
https://powerinterfaith.org/
~Poor People's Campaign - PA
-- 
https://www.poorpeoplescampaign.org/committee/pennsylvania/
~March on Harrisburg: https://www.mohpa.org/
~Fair Districts PA: https://www.fairdistrictspa.com/
All the speakers were young, articulate, and dedicated!
They shared these opinions:
~ don't wait for the next election to get involved; white volunteers are needed at all times, not just at elections;
~ white people showed up for UUtheVote - don't wait until 2022 to get involved again!
~ become a dues-paying member of our organizations and bring 3 friends in with you!
~ become one/twelfth of a teaspoon in the work - that's what honeybees do
~ politicians promote a divide-and-conquer mentality trying to say there is not enough money for all our demands; this is false; we must change the narrative
~ politicians don't represent us
~ politicians won't save us
~ legislative Rules in Harrisburg must be reformed
~ Campaign Finance Reform needs a complete overhaul
~ write letters-to-the-editor calling out legislators on their lack of knowledge of best practices in democracy; hold them accountable publicly
~ make friends with a Republican
~ build relationships BETWEEN elections; grassroots organizing is messy, conflict-laden, and Necessary!
~ show up at your local Council or Borough meetings
The work laid out is clear. Please join us at 
https://uujusticepa.org/ and join one or more of our partners!



 
What About the January Senate runoffs in Georgia??
01/05/2021 7:00 AM
What about the January Senate runoffs in Georgia?
This is a question raised at last week's Women's Alliance meeting. So here are some suggestions if you have the time and energy and/or money to support GOTV for these important races. The suggestions from Madeline and Sandy are especially valuable as they come from people with personal knowledge of the effective organizations at work in GA. Check out these recommendations from Madeline Darnell, who recently moved from GA to join us here in Pgh: Stacie Abram's Fair Fight. "They are doing a great job and her organization knows how to get out the vote in Georgia." 
https://fairfight.com
The Athens Clarke County Knock on Every Door Campaign. "I know the folks doing it and they'll do a good job (It's my former hometown). "
https://flagpole.com/news/in-the-loop/2020/11/16/commissioners-mount-grassroots-campaign-for-democrats-in-runoff/
From a friend of Sandra Woolley in GA, here is a link to sign up with the Georgia New Voters Project focusing on assuring the youth voice is heard by helping students register and turn out to vote for the runoff election on January 5th. To do this, they will be holding weekly phonebanks on Mondays and Thursdays and weekly text banks on Tuesdays to get out the vote, focusing attention and messaging on the important deadlines leading up to Election Day. Use this link to sign up to help::
https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSevfJnfgxFx8LFkEpCYy35YpA3v0hIacYIhnwv7mGam39oJuw/viewform
The Environmental Voter Project, with who some of us have worked before, has identified 382,844 environmentalists in Georgia who are unlikely to vote in the two Jan. 5th runoff elections for U.S. Senate. Each session will begin with easy training so you'll learn exactly what you need to do. If you are Already Trained? Great! Sign up, get your log-in information at the beginning of the shift, skip the training session, and get right to making calls!
SIGN UP HERE:

https://www.environmentalvoter.org/events?emci=3796148c-862a-eb11-9fb4-0003ff196a4c&emdi=b3af3a38-8a2a-eb11-9fb4-0003ff196a4c&ceid=2146788
UU the Vote Georgia Phonebanks began on Sunday, November 22, 2020. The work continues, from protecting the results of the election to continuing to expand democracy in Georgia, we must commit ourselves to build democracy and justice for all of us! One way to do that is by supporting our national partner Reclaim Our Vote, whose mission is to increase turnout among voters of color, by calling and texting voters in Georgia before the Senate Runoff elections on January 5. Go to https://actionnetwork.org/forms/reclaim-our-vote-signup to sign up and work with this group.
For UU the VOTE work in GA go to 
https://www.uuthevote.org/phone-banking/. They will be using a manual dialer so that we can leave voicemails with important voting information. All training will be included in the event. Once trained, you will be able to use this system to make calls after your initial phonebank any day of the week.
And if you want to write letters to GA, try Vote Forward who has several campaigns in Georgia to encourage application for ballots and to vote: 
https://votefwd.org/campaigns.
It has been a long election season, but our efforts are valuable and the work will continue even with a new administration.



Sharing the Plate!
Is there an organization you’d like to nominate to be the recipient of our third-Sunday Share the Plate offering? Please send your nomination to Tony Rutigliano (arutigl@comcast.net) on behalf of the Serve Council. Please include the following information:

Name of organization

Website address or other source of information

Is this a 501 (c) (3) organization (required)?

What is your involvement with this organization?

Why do you consider this an appropriate recipient for our Share the Plate offering?

Preferred month (if any)



Helping Each Other
During these trying times, members of the church may occasionally need a helping hand. The Pastoral Care Team asks you to identify ways you may be able to assist. We expect you would be called only a few times during the year. Please contact a member of the team if you are able to help. 

You’ll be asked to indicate which of these you may be able to help with from time to time:

□ Transportation

□ Providing a meal for an individual or family

□ Shopping

In the event of a need in the congregation, you may be contacted to see whether you are available to help at that time. Your help will be appreciated!

 

Pastoral Care Team Contact Information:
Christine Beregi: cberegi1@verizon.net Phone:
412-992-1888
Jan Carlino: jancarlino807@gmail.com Phone: 412-727-0200
Julie Childers: julie36pa@gmail.com Phone: 412-726-3590
Jim Cunningham: cunni@comcast.net Phone: 412-256-0205 (Co-Chair)
Kathy Miller: kathymillerotter@gmail.com Phone:
412-639-8012 (Co-Chair)
Bob Sullivan: r.sullivan13@verizon.net Phone:
412-952-7772
Rev. Connie Grant: constance.l.grant@gmail.com Phone: 847-840-8542 (Church Office: 412-621-8008)
OMBUDSMAN
 
Need an answer to a question and don’t know who to ask?  Want to pass along some feedback and not sure who to contact?  Reach out to your Board Ombudsman Ebe Emmons.  Ebe will coordinate with staff, committees, and the board to get an answer or pass along feedback.  Ebe can be reached at firstuupghombudsman@gmail.com
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