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March 4, 2021
 
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This Sunday At First Unitarian Church

Mar 7, 2021
Livestreamed at 10:30 am (prelude begins at 10:25) 

"Social Distancing"
For nearly a year, we’ve been living in a socially distanced world.  We’ve been sequestered, with or without others in our household or "pod," from the rest of the world.  Depending on the demands of work or other obligations, we've limited our contact with others.  It’s been a difficult year, more so for some than for others.  For myself, I’ve been trying to think of this as a time of cloistering: social distance as a spiritual practice.  How are we faring?  Homily by Rev. Connie Grant.  Music by Ellen Gozion, Director of Instrumental Music, with guest singer-songwriter Joe Jencks.

Happening This Weekend 
Racial Justice Taskforce
The next meeting of the Racial Justice Taskforce will take place on Sunday, March 7 from 3:00 - 5:00 pm by Zoom to debrief from the New Day conference and to continue organizing.  Please email Rev. Connie Grant at
 constance.l.grant@gmail.com for a link to the meeting.
NEWSLETTER NEWS
Call for Candidates for Board of Trustees and Nominating Committee
LAST CHANCE: Call for Candidates for Board of Trustees and Nominating Committee Thank you to the 1st Unitarian Members who have expressed an interest in serving either on the Board of Trustees or on the Nominating Committee. The deadline to contact any one of the current NC members and learn more about what the responsibilities are for either group and indicating your willingness to serve is next Thursday, March 11. So consider whether you or someone with whom you have worked here at 1st Unitarian might be ready to step up to new leadership roles. The current NC members [Martin Schmidt, Jen Layman, Linda Fleming, Christine Milcarek, Raeann Olander Murray, Susan Regan, Shelley Ross, Heather Cunningham, or Becky Studer] await your questions and enthusiasm to serve. Again, the deadline for your candidates for nomination is March 11.
First Unitarian Church Racial Justice Task Force
Plan to attend by zoom our Annual Meeting, "Faith, Democracy & Commitment: A UUJusticePA Approach" happening on April 23 (7-9 PM) and April 24 (10-12 AM & 1-4 PM ).

Fight to get fair legislative
Wondering where we are in the fight to get fair legislative district boundaries in PA? Check out this memo from Fair Districts PA: We need YOU to help ensure fair maps for the next decade of PA elections.

The transparency bills, House Bill 22 and Senate Bill 222, also called the Legislative and Congressional Redistricting Act (LACRA), are now officially introduced with co-sponsors from both parties. It’s time to invite more co-sponsors and ask for support for a vote.
Mar. 3 starts March toward Transparency: a campaign to talk with every PA state legislator about the need to pass LACRA quickly. PA needs plans in place NOW for a fair, transparent redistricting process.

You’re invited to be part of a constituent advocacy team to meet with your PA senator or representative. You’ll be asking for co-sponsorship of the bill OR saying thank you and asking for further support if your legislator has already co-sponsored.
A volunteer captain will help arrange the meeting, put you in touch with others in your district. and make sure you have materials and anything you need to have a successful Zoom meeting with your legislator.
Sign up HERE to be part of a constituent team

A Message From Your Interim Minister 

During a time of ministerial transition, one of the interim minister’s functions is to help the congregation recognize its unique identity and its strengths, needs, and challenges. Just over a year ago, more than fifty congregants responded to the invitation to participate in a “heart-storming experience” called “Getting to the Heart of the Matter,” created by your Interim Minister, Transition Team, and VIM (Vision, Identity, Mission) Team. The objectives of this congregational gathering were two-fold:

1) To offer an opportunity for congregants to articulate and share their thoughts and feelings about what this congregation is and can be, for themselves, for each other, and for the larger community.

2) To generate a congregational covenant that can become part of Sunday morning liturgy, expressing the foundational and aspirational identity of the First Unitarian Church of Pittsburgh.

Congregants were invited to explore their experiences with and hopes for the church, and to respond in six-word increments to prompts intended to elicit their understanding of these aspects of congregational identity: This is who we are; This is why we are a congregation; This what we (try to) do together.

Prompts including the following: What brings me to church on Sunday morning 
A hope I have for the Church’s role in the larger community
What makes this community special?
What more can this community be?
What is the guiding principle of this congregation?
What is the most important thing this congregation does?
Why does this congregation exist?
Who are we at our best?
What unites us?
I hope we can become
My highest aspiration for this congregation

There was a high level of consistency among the responses that were given to the questions that were asked. Your Interim Minister distilled the congregation’s written responses into this covenantal statement, and reviewed it with the Transition Team, the Worship Team, the Bylaws Task Force, and program staff members:

We gather as the congregation of the First Unitarian Church of Pittsburgh
to discern, explore, and reflect on our responses to the questions life asks of us;
to celebrate our life passages in shared sorrow and shared joy;
and to live and act according to our deepest and highest values.
We challenge ourselves and each other to create ever-widening circles
of compassion and connection within our congregation and in the larger community.

A covenant grounds and unites the congregation in a relationship. In a covenantal relationship, the demands and requirements of the day or the year are not necessarily known in advance, but the covenant sets the parameters for the kinds of responses that can be expected. Hopefully, the covenant itself is timeless--and could have been written in 1820 or 2020 (and maybe even in 2120!) to describe the reasons that members of the church gather together. The parts about responding to the questions life asks of us and living and acting according to our deepest and highest values are directly applicable to the challenges of these times.

As an expression of the foundational and aspirational identity of the First Unitarian Church of Pittsburgh, the statement is intended to be a clear and concise articulation of your reasons for existing as a church and the promises you make to each other as a congregation. “The practice of promising to walk together is the precious core of our creedless faith,” as a document from the UUA Congregational Life Staff Group notes. Many UU congregations have such covenantal statements and many express similar sentiments, but this one is unique to this congregation, based on ideas you expressed and phrasings you used in the “heartstorming” workshop.

Unitarian Universalists covenant together at many levels:

Member congregations of the Unitarian Universalist Association are bound in a covenant of “mutual trust and support,” which is Section C-2.1. of Article II of the UUA Bylaws. This is the statement known as the “Seven Principles.”

Many individual congregations have their own covenants of the relationship among congregants. In many congregations, their covenant is read/recited weekly in Sunday morning worship.

Other covenants within congregations often include covenants between new members and existing members of a congregation; covenants among members of covenant groups; behavioral covenants; and covenants among members of a Board of Trustees.

When the draft covenant was being presented to the congregation for consideration last November at the time Bylaws revisions were being made, some questions were raised about the process by which the covenant was drafted and about the potential role of the covenant, that made it appear that insufficient information had been provided to the congregation, and it was withdrawn from consideration at that time. It’s important not to just drop this matter, since that would not be a good model of how to deal with disagreement.

Now, the Board of Trustees has scheduled a congregational meeting on Sunday, March 21 at noon for the sole purpose of deciding whether to adopt this draft covenant. An informational/Q&A meeting is scheduled for Sunday, March 14 at 3:00 pm. Both these meetings will be held by Zoom, and links will be provided to members of the congregation the day before each meeting.

The fundamental question before the congregation is whether or not you believe that this statement expresses the foundational and aspirational identity of the First Unitarian Church of Pittsburgh.

It’s up to you!

Rev. Connie Grant

INSPIRE
Upcoming Worship Service 

Mar 14, 2021

Livestreamed at 10:30 am (prelude begins at 10:25) 

“Ways to Grow”

How and why do congregations grow?  It’s not just about numbers!  Homily by Rev. Connie Grant.  Music by Ellen Gozion, Director of Instrumental Music, with Maddy Izzo, flute.

Mar 21, 2021

Livestreamed at 10:30 am (prelude begins at 10:25) 

“Living the Stories of our Lives”

How do we live the stories of our lives, and how do we tell them to ourselves and others?
Homily by Rev. Connie Grant.  Music by Deanna Witkowski, guest pianist.

 

Mar 28, 2021

Livestreamed at 10:30 am (prelude begins at 10:25)

“Seed Corn and Tomorrow” When I was young, I would go with my grandfather when he went to visit his farmer friends. Instead of saying "goodbye," many of them would say, "Don't eat your seed corn!" It was an acknowledgment that, though times might be bad, there is hope if we hang on.  Homily by Rev. Dr. David Breeden, Senior Minister, First Unitarian Society of Minneapolis.  Welcome by Rev. Connie Grant.  Music by Ellen Gozion, Director of Instrumental Music.

SongSpace  
SongSpace and Joe Jencks Celebrate the Friendship House Concert Series!
Joe Jencks (joejencks.com) is performing in the SongSpace Streams series on March 13, 2021, to celebrate Llouise and Jim Altes and the 16-year, the 101-show success that is the Friendship House Concert Series. We couldn't be happier to host Joe and honor the Altes as people and as friends of live music.

Joe Jencks is a 20-year veteran of the international folk circuit, an award-winning songwriter, and a celebrated vocalist based in Chicago. Merging conservatory training with his Irish roots and working-class upbringing, Joe delivers engaged musical narratives filled with heart, soul, groove, and grit. Blending well-crafted instrumentals and vivid songwriting, Jencks serves it all up with a lyric baritone voice that has the edgy richness of a good sea-salt caramel.
This will be a free, live show, on Facebook, Youtube, and perhaps elsewhere, with donations strongly encouraged. Stay tuned to our Facebook Event Page
(https://www.facebook.com/events/123906206289334/), Joe Jencks's Calendar (http://joejencks.com/calendar/event/3015), or at http://uusongspace.com/ for up to date details!
Any last-minute changes will be announced at 
http://uusongspace.com/

 

SongSpace Streams: Joe Crookston!
Friday, April 2, 7:30 pm

Last-minute details at uusongspace.com.

The stream will open shortly before 7:30 pm; Show at 7:30 pm

We missed him so much last spring when the COVID crisis forced us to cancel his SongSpace 2020 show. We are thrilled to be able to welcome Joe Crookston (joecrookston.com) to the SongSpace Streams series, to kick off April 2021 and find some new beauty in this broken world. If you've seen Joe before, you know how good this will be. And if you haven't, listen to the critics...

“At every festival, I hope to find the gift of one artist whose songwriting and performance stand out. Joe Crookston was that gift for me this year at the Philadelphia Folk Festival. A stunning performance, great songs, and not a word wasted! I LOVE That!” — David Francey, Songwriter Ontario

Free admission, tips to the performers strongly encouraged.

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LEARN 

Adult Religious Education
Inner Listening Course
 In this stressful world, how can we respond with more wisdom and kindness?  An awareness practice called
"Focused Listening" teaches one to turn toward our feelings, even difficult ones, with kindness; it brings more clarity and perspective.  
This class is being offered at the Quaker Meeting (not affiliated with First Unitarian) It consists of - 6 weekly sessions with 2 hrs. per session beginning in
mid-March.  Patricia Carpenter, the facilitator, is interested in expanding the course for UUs.  The course is free except for the cost of a manual. 
 If you are interested, please contact her to set up a time to talk: 
patriciacarpenter8@gmail.com
Course Flyer Description 

 Book Discussion 
Yes to Life: In Spite of Everything by  Viktor E. Frankl
Eleven months after he was liberated from the Nazi concentration camps, Viktor E. Frankl held a series of public lectures in Vienna. The psychiatrist, who would soon become world-famous, explained his central thoughts on meaning, resilience, and the importance of embracing life even in the face of great adversity. Frankl’s words resonate as strongly today—as the world faces a coronavirus pandemic, social isolation, and great economic uncertainty—as they did in 1946. He offers an insightful exploration of the maxim “Live as if you were living for the second time,” and he unfolds his basic conviction that every crisis contains an opportunity. Despite the unspeakable horrors of the camps, Frankl learned from the strength of his fellow inmates that it is always possible to “say yes to life”—a profound and timeless lesson for us all. 
To sign up, email eshadowsong@first-unitarian-pgh.org.  
Led by Rev. Connie Grant, Tuesday March 9, 7:00 - 8:30 pm

New Virtual Course: Building Your Own Theology
Begins in April 2021
10 Classes

Based on the assumption that everyone is their own theologian, this classic UU adult education program invites participants to develop their own personal credos, the fundamental religious beliefs, values, and convictions that inform and direct their lives. Gilbert Poses five developmental tasks in which participants come to terms with human nature, ultimate reality, history, ethics, and religious meaning. Begins with an introduction to our seven UU principles. Ten Sessions.
Lifespan Religious Education Director Erica Shadowsong will facilitate this course that will give you an opportunity to explore, discuss, and articulate your religious beliefs.  Whether you are new to Unitarian Universalism or not, this course will develop and strengthen your sense of spiritual grounding within this dynamic faith.  This will be a virtual class on Zoom.  Please let me know of your interest by emailing me at 
eshadowsong@first-unitarian-pgh.org.  As we get closer to April, we will choose times and dates based on participants' availability.  

 

Young Adults Religious Education 
Young Adults Small Group     
Weekly Meetings on Zoom
Please join us for our weekly meeting at 7 pm on Wednesdays, where we explore spiritual practice in our everyday lives.  Interested in joining us?  Email Erica at 
eshadowsong@first-unitarian-pgh.org 

Children and Youth Religious Education 
Central East Region Offerings - Peer Pastoral Care To/With Youth
We’ve heard loud and clear that this is a program more people want to be a part of. Our three-session series for high school youth was a great success. We focused on learning the skills and applying them to the online environment youth are in right now. The three sessions were: introduction to pastoral care and listening skills, responding to youth in crisis, pastoral response to oppression, and microaggressions.

Keeping the same basic outline, we are adapting and offering the same basic outline to more groups of youth and adults:

Junior High Youth - grades 7-9: March 6, 13, and 27 12-3 pm eastern
The material will be adapted developmentally for this age group. Youth in junior high have just as much need to support each other, especially right now, as older youth! Youth can sign up for sessions individually. Session 1 is required for both sessions 2 and 3, but youth does not need to take the full series. Youth do need an adult from their congregation attending with them.

Adult Volunteers - March 17, 27, 6-9pm eastern
This skill set is critical for adult volunteers. These sessions will use the same curriculum we use with the youth but allow a greater chance for adult conversation.

Religious Educators - March 10, 24, April 7, 14 3-6pm eastern
This program will be the same as the others but tailored for conversations with professional religious educators. It’s meant to supplement the Lay Spiritual Care course on UU Leadership Institute (
https://www.uua.org/leadership/library/spiritual-care-training). Religious educators will gain an understanding of the curriculum and have a chance to consider what exercises they may want to do with their own youth. The fourth session will focus on the challenges and benefits of encouraging youth to support each other this way within a congregation.

Details will be emailed out when we have them and posted here: 
https://www.uua.org/central-east/youth/online-youth-programs/peer-pastoral-care. In the meantime, visit that link to get an overview of the sessions done with the high schoolers as these series will follow the same basic arc, adapted for the group.

RELIGIOUS EDUCATION FOR CHILDREN AND FAMILIES
Sundays @ 11:30 am to 12:00 pm
Join the director of religious education and religious education volunteers for an ongoing exploration of living our Unitarian Universalist faith at home, in our families, and beyond.  During this year of the church building closure, we are spending more time than ever with our families, a situation that presents many challenges, but also some opportunities.  Religious education for children this year will have a multi-age, family focus; parents are invited to attend with their children via Zoom.  This year, we are diving into the 6 Sources of Unitarian Universalist faith (https://www.uua.org/beliefs/what-we-believe/sources).   Zoom information will be sent to the parent list; please email me directly to be added to the list at eshadowsong@first-unitarian-pgh.org. 
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CONNECT 
Thursday Night Book Club 
Join us today, March 4 at 7:30 p.m. If interested, please contact Alice Carnes at 704-453-4175 or alice.carnes51@yahoo.com for more info and a Zoom link.

The Home Place: Memoirs of a Colored Man's Love Affair with Nature by Drew Lanham
”In me, there is the red of miry clay, the brown of spring floods, the gold of ripening tobacco. All of these hues are me; I am, in the deepest sense, colored.”
Dating back to slavery, Edgefield County, South Carolina—a place “easy to pass by on the way somewhere else”—has been home to generations of Lanhams. In The Home Place, readers meet these extraordinary people, including Drew himself, who over the course of the 1970s falls in love with the natural world around him. As his passion takes flight, however, he begins to ask what it means to be “the rare bird, the oddity.”
Men of 1st Church 
The March 10th meeting of the Men's group will be from 7:30 to 9:00 with a ZOOM gathering.    Last month we focused on the topic - can you name 3 people who made a difference in your life?   The people who make a difference in your life are simply the ones who care the most.  It was a very interesting & useful session.  It was suggested we continue the topic with a different focus.   Thinking of one or more of those people who made a difference in your life  -  what, as a result,  -   have you deliberately decided to do to "pay that forward."  How will we or can we use that experience for the benefit of others in our lives.  You need not have been at the Feb session to participate in this new discussion.  You all come.  If you need any help with the zoom link, get back to me.  For more information contact Jim at J5650R@comcast.net.
Church Connection Opportunities 

Introduction to Unitarian Universalism
Fourth Sundays of the Month, 11:30 – 12:15

Find out more about the history, varied theologies, and organization of Unitarian Universalism. Led by church staff and representatives of the Membership Team, March 28Start out in Zoom social time following the service, and you’ll be directed to a breakout room for “Intro to UU.” If you’d like to attend a meeting to learn more about the history, varied theologies, and organization of Unitarian Universalism, please complete this Intro to UU registration form and check out the path to membership.


 Covenant group Opportunities  
Consider joining or creating a virtual covenant group.
If you are interested in joining or creating a new covenant group, you can complete a Covenant Group interest form or contact Alice Bright
ab03@andrew.cmu.edu
If your group would like to set up meetings using the church account please contact Rev. Connie Grant at Constance.L.Grant@gmail.com.
 
Community Connection Opportunities 
Central East Region's BIPOC gathering
If you identify as Black, Indigenous, or a person of color (BIPOC), you're invited to join us for the Central East Region's BIPOC gathering happening on two Mondays of the month at 6:30 pm ET. In our gatherings, we are joined by lay folks of color, lay leaders of color, and/or religious professionals of color to be in the community. Our conversations focus on topics like wellness and resilience and our goal is to center BIPOC experiences and create space to explore our UU experiences. Please email Sana Saeed, ssaeed@uua.org, or Paula Cole Jones pcolejones@gmail.com for zoom information. 
Dates for Spring Gatherings: Mar 8 & 22, Apr 12 & 26, May 10 & 24, and June 14 & 28.

Beth Casebolt : she/her/hers  CER Communications Consultant and Operations Manager  740-232-9048 Schedule a phone or zoom meeting at calendly.com/bcasebolt
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SERVE
 
Khasi Hills & Congregation "We Shall Overcome"
The next Khasi Hills Team meeting is on Sunday, March 14 at 9:30. Contact Karen Litzinger for the Zoom link, 412-977-4029.
Habitat For Humanity 
We are currently working on a home in Penn Hills and are interested in engaging faith-based volunteers starting in the month of March. Here is some information about the project:
Location of build: 246 Calmar Drive, Verona, PA 15147
Build Schedule: Monday - Friday
Time: 9:00am - 3:00pm
Number of volunteers needed each day: 2-3
If you are interested in volunteering, please send Kate Keenley an email at 
kkeeley@pittsburghhabitat.org. 
Opportunities To Help 

Sharing the Plate!
Is there an organization you’d like to nominate to be the recipient of our third-Sunday Share the Plate offering? Please use this form or send your nomination to Tony Rutigliano (arutigl@comcast.net) on behalf of the Serve Council. Please include the following information:
Name of organization, Website address, or other sources of information, Is this a 501 (c) (3) organization (required)? What is your involvement with this organization? Why do you consider this an appropriate recipient for our Share the Plate offering? Preferred month (if any)

Helping Each Other
During these trying times, members of the church may occasionally need a helping hand. The Pastoral Care Team asks you to identify ways you may be able to assist. We expect you would be called only a few times during the year. Please contact a member of the team if you are able to help. 

You’ll be asked to indicate which of these you may be able to help with from time to time:
□ Transportation   □ Providing a meal for an individual or family   □ Shopping
In the event of a need in the congregation, you may be contacted to see whether you are available to help at that time. Your help will be appreciated!


Pastoral Care Team Contact Information:
Christine Beregi: cberegi1@verizon.net Phone:
412-992-1888
Jan Carlino: jancarlino807@gmail.com Phone: 412-727-0200
Julie Childers: julie36pa@gmail.com Phone: 412-726-3590
Jim Cunningham: cunni@comcast.net Phone: 412-256-0205 (Co-Chair)
Kathy Miller: kathymillerotter@gmail.com Phone:
412-639-8012 (Co-Chair)
Bob Sullivan: r.sullivan13@verizon.net Phone:
412-952-7772
Rev. Connie Grant: constance.l.grant@gmail.com Phone: 847-840-8542 (Church Office: 412-621-8008)
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OMBUDSMAN
 
Need an answer to a question and don’t know who to ask?  Want to pass along some feedback and not sure who to contact?  Reach out to your Board Ombudsman Ebe Emmons.  Ebe will coordinate with staff, committees, and the board to get an answer or pass along feedback.  Ebe can be reached at firstuupghombudsman@gmail.com
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