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Beautiful You Devotional ~ May 2021 / Volume 26

Everyone wants to be seen, heard, acknowledged. No one likes to feel invisible, passed over or ignored. So many times in our experience with trauma or abuse, the exact opposite occurs. If we are seen, it’s usually for the use of others for their own gain or twisted need. Rarely do we really feel seen by others especially if we are trying to stay hidden. And that’s usually out of fear of being hurt.

Being seen for some, meant abuse, exploitation or humiliation. But in these cases, are we really seen? Really. Abusers look past us and see only their own need in using or misusing us, so we are not truly seen.

When you are truly seen, it doesn’t hurt, it validates. Validation is such a powerful and healing thing and the Bible is full of it. I want to share some of those moments with you today of how God “sees” people and watch as Jesus truly values and validates them. This is so transforming!

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“47 Jesus saw Nathanael coming toward Him, and said of him, “Behold, an Israelite indeed, in whom is no deceit!”

48 Nathanael said to Him, “How do You know me?”

Jesus answered and said to him, “Before Philip called you, when you were under the fig tree, I saw you.”

49 Nathanael answered and said to Him, “Rabbi, You are the Son of God! You are the King of Israel!”

50 Jesus answered and said to him, “Because I said to you, ‘I saw you under the fig tree,’ do you believe?”

John 1: 47-50

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Being seen changes everything. It can even change the way we see ourselves and as witnessed in the scripture above, it can change what we believe. When Jesus came, he was not concerned with his own agenda, only the Father’s (John 5:30). So he was able to encounter each person with pure motives. He approached them and interacted with them for their own good. Imagine that!

The Samaritan Woman- John 4- This account was life changing for the woman. The stricture says Jesus “needed” to go through Samaria. I believe it was to encounter this woman. The Father saw her and urged Jesus to travel there to let her know she was seen. Jesus asked her to go get her husband she said she had none and Jesus proceeded to tell her all about her life. He saw her, she felt seen. Maybe a little exposed, but nonetheless seen.

Had he seen all the men she had in her life and those who left her? It’s my belief, based on the culture of that day, that she was not a floozy in search of men, she was rejected and cast out by all of them. In those days men had the power of divorce and could do so if any small thing was not to their liking. Imagine. Jesus said you’ve had five husbands! Five times jilted and rejected.

Jesus saw her, acknowledged her current situation without condemnation and satiated her desire to be loved with Himself!

The woman caught in adultery- John 8- Jesus was teaching in the temple and the Pharisees brought a woman caught in adultery and set her in the midst of everyone. Talk about shame and humiliation. But still Jesus saw her, who she really was. We don’t know the circumstances of her adultery, but Jesus did. Although the Pharisees meant to bring her low into humiliation, Jesus brought her to a level place with everyone else there when he said, ““He who is without sin among you, let him throw a stone at her first.” Can you see that?

It’s so beautiful. You can’t tell me that she did not walk away from that encounter with his love, healed! He’s such a wonderful Savior.

The Tax Collector & Pharisee- Luke 18:9-14 In this account, the Father justified the tax collector who humbled himself instead of the Pharisee who despised the tax collector because he was full of self-righteousness. But the Father saw the tax collector. He saw his brokenness over his sin as he cried out for the mercy of God. Such humility. That man went away justified before the Father.

We are seen and known by the Father, absolutely and completely. He calls us just as we are and yet, loves us deeply. When I realized that God really sees me, it transformed my entire life and all my relationships. He sees me. The good, the bad and the ugly and embraces all of me.

He IS the remedy to all that ails me. He IS the healing I need. He IS a just and righteous Father who knows and sees ALL of me and instead of condemning me, he sought to save me.

John 3:16-17 (NKJV)

“For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son, that whoever believes in Him should not perish but have everlasting life. For God did not send His Son into the world to condemn the world, but that the world through Him might be saved.”

There is one remedy to all that ails us.

The cross!

Journal entries from my healing journey

You are my Rock. You are my Redeemer. You take the shattered things and all the broken pieces. You make all things new again. Every disappointment holds no power when your hands touch my weakness. Bring me to life again. Every tear you catch in your bottle. Every cry comes to your very ears. All things are in your hands. When I fall. When I rise. All things you make whole again. Complete what you started. Oh God, keep your promise! When I’m bowed low or hands lifted high, You hold me. You hem me in on all sides. When I run and even when I hide you lift my head and wipe the tears from my eyes.

Your action step this week is to read the full accounts of the stories I shared above and ask the Lord to show you his heart for each of these people he encountered.

Ask Him to reveal to you how these encounters relate to your life and how he sees you.

Allow what He shows you to wash over your life, your heart and soul. Write down what he reveals to you in your journal.

“I long for things less defined by my reason

Wild and unrestrained

Things I can’t know by my own device

But explained by my seeing of Him”

From A PILGRIM’S LONGING (Poetry by Crisie Hutchings)

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[DISCLAIMER: I am not a licensed counselor or therapist of any kind nor is this devotional an attempt to provide those services. The contents and suggestions in this devotional are results of my own personal experience with these issues and are not meant to be professional advice or therapy. This devotional is not a substitute or replacement for regular therapy or the use of mental health resources. If the content here causes triggers, please see your regular mental health professional. Any content applied to your life along with any consequences is of your own volition.]

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