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RECOGNIZING REACTIVE ABUSE

By CraigG on Apr 26, 2021 10:29 pm

How Emotional Abusers Push You To It, Blame You For It & Shame You With It! Do you ever wonder if you're the problem in a relationship when you know that the other person is forever pushing your buttons, blaming and shaming you? You may be suffering from "Reactive Abuse," and that's a cycle that
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PASTCASTING™? What it is & 8 Ways It Can Keep Your Stuck in a Toxic Relationhip By CraigG on Apr 20, 2021 07:37 pm

Wonder why you don't seem to create the momentum to address your toxic relationship? PastCasting™ is one way. It's my term for a well-established internal program that immediately causes you to stay stuck, even when you know you're settling and unhappy. Or, why you are fearful and exhausted. It's so much easier to think of
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10 Underhanded Ways Gaslighting Shows Up in Relationships By CraigG on Apr 20, 2021 12:36 pm

Understanding the many faces of gaslighting helps you see it coming. Then, seeing it for what it is, you can discount it, reject and deny it. In this episode, I help you see ten faces of gaslighting that can help you recognize it for what it is: emotional abuse. The actual definition of gaslighting I
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Wonder Why People-Pleasers Attract Emotional Abusers? By CraigG on Apr 15, 2021 09:29 pm

25 WAYS: When You Know Them, You Can Change Them! Growing up in an emotionally abusive home, or an overly compassionate home, or even and emotionally neglectful home can set you up to accept emotional abuse. It's not your fault! HIGHLIGHTS OF THIS EPISODE: Insights into the effects of your childhood on your current relationships
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10 Childhood Traumas You Need to Recognize & Recover From By CraigG on Apr 15, 2021 09:12 pm

Did you have a toxic home life, or something that happened to you at a young age? Any of these 10 things we're discussing could seriously affect your adult life. Ever wonder why you give difficult or toxic people too many chances? Ever wonder why you make a plan to leave, execute it, and end
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Feeling Stuck & Second-Guessing Yourself? By CraigG on Apr 06, 2021 09:09 am

3 Good Questions I'm Often Asked That Show The Trauma Bonds Causing you to start second-guessing yourself is an unwritten directive of an emotionally abusive, narcissistic person. When that happens, they know they have staked their claim in your psyche and that you will have a harder time maintaining your boundaries and sense of self.
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MEN: How to Revive a Dormant Sex Life After You’ve Killed the Connection By CraigG on Apr 03, 2021 09:30 pm

Author of The Masculine in Relationships joins me to talk about male/female differences in relationships, and what's toxic. Men, would you like to know what to say when your female partner is really angry? The answer--and many more--are in this episode with GS Youngblood, author of The Masculine in Relationship. HIGHLIGHTS OF THIS EPISODE: When
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