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Getting Comfortable With
the Discomfort of Mental Health

May 20, 2021

First, From the Heart

Our wellbeing is the foundation for how we move through each precious day of this life. We all carry burdens that influence how we show up in this moment. However, our mental health and wellbeing often goes unseen, unsaid, and unheard.
 
I started my career in 1980, and we never ever hinted there was anything unpleasant rumbling beneath the surface of outward perfection and performance. Yet I had been clinically depressed since my early teens. and developed multiple addictive behaviors. My mother was a child of war, and the intergenerational trauma can be traced back many generations. When I finally started working with a therapist in my 20s, I began to slowly understand my menu of mental health challenges and appreciated that I was not alone in facing life’s difficulties. As many of you know, the inner work is an ongoing gift of discovery and healing.
 
On some level, we are all affected by mental health – it is part of our individual and collective human experience. Thank goodness we live in a time when we can finally rally awareness of mental health in the workplace. Let’s celebrate that some organizations offer Mental Health Days. Maybe we are ready for “Bring Your Emotions to Work Day.” The more we share about the challenging parts of our human journey, the more we can normalize, lift the stigma, offer support, and lend compassion towards each other and for ourselves.

With lovingkindness,
Laura

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Practice Matters

See Me, Feel Me

Surrounded by the dark shroud of shame, victimhood, loneliness, anxiety, and/or depression, we often feel like we are the only ones sitting in the deep puddle of muck. In those difficult moments, we want to run away from the painful feelings and emotions. So we avoid it all by numbing ourselves, tuning out, or blaming others.

As much as we want to drive around our own car wreck and avert our eyes, the exact opposite is how we will move through it. Pay attention to how you feel. Name it. Sit with it and feel all the feels. Yes, it’s uncomfortable. But if we don’t allow it to move through us, it will stick around. Maybe it will dissipate temporarily, but the same emotion or limiting belief will be back for you to see and feel again and again and again. Allow yourself to be fully present with the heaviness of difficult emotions and acknowledge that this is part of our common humanity. Their power will diminish and eventually fade. Be especially kind as you learn to hold yourself with compassion.

When can we practice? Always!

Upcoming Events

Life After COVID Summit
May 21-23, 2021

Join Dr. Rick Hanson and a roster of world-class experts during this three-day online event to explore how we can prepare for a life after COVID, including how we can recover from the wounds caused by the pandemic, embrace new ways of being, and work towards a brighter future as we re-enter a new world together. Find out more.

Upcoming Events

Practicing Compassion: An Antidote for These Challenging Times
Saturday, May 22, 4pm EDT

Esteemed compassion teacher Thupten Jinpa will share insights and practices to help us strengthen our innate compassion ability for the benefit of ourselves, our loved ones, and our society. During this free event, there will be a guided practice and time for audience Q&A as well! Find out more.

Recommended Reads
 

The Compassionate Mind
by Paul Gilbert

In this important book, Paul Gilbert shows the science behind our behaviors and offers many exercises to support the reader’s growth of compassion for themselves and for others. Read more.
Leadership, Evolved.
 
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