But in the wild west of comedy, gratitude can turn ugly.
After all, there are objectively many, many people seeking very few opportunities. And when someone deigns to bestow one of these opportunities upon you, you will of course feel grateful!
But that gratitude should have a sane and reasonable limit. For example:
You don’t need to keep working at a club you’ve “outgrown” just because they “did so much to get you where you are” or not work another club because the two venues have beef.
You don’t have to drive the headliner you’re featuring for this weekend to the nail salon and dry cleaners and dog groomers “on the way” to the gig just because they offered you work (and hopefully some gas money).
You don’t have to post about someone else’s album or special or give them an algo boost comment if they have previously (voluntarily) posted about yours.
But if you find yourself in a situation that isn’t as clear cut as “I’ll give you a spot for a blow job”, here’s a couple things to think about to figure out where you fall on the scale of entitled ingrate to people pleasing doormat.