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Issue 150 ~ 16th February 2024

Hello,  

Mary and I are always delighted to receive your messages following the publication of our latest Newsletter.

Recently, the subject of bra-fitting has attracted a lot of interest. One reader explained that she always fastened her bra around her waist before manoeuvring it into place. Another reader said that she always buys her bras from Rigby and Peller as she has a small cup size and found they could really help her.

In another Newsletter we talked about how we could check where we might be going wrong if our unwanted weight wasn’t shifting. I mentioned about home-made bread being a danger zone. I received another wonderful response from our almost 88-year-old reader Barbara, who wrote to me a few weeks ago to say she didn’t need our help with weight-loss or exercise because she had lost three stone on one of my diet plans decades ago and had maintained her weight ever since. She wrote again with this brilliant advice…

‘Here I go again. I made my own bread for many years. When it was cold, I sliced it and put 3 slices in plastic bags. Two for my husband, 1 for me. Never any stale bread in my house. Nearly 88, hardly ever use car. 15000 steps today and aqua aerobics. I did not eat cakes, scones, buns, pies, but husband did. Froze them as soon as they were cold after baking. Took one a day out for him. Freezer is handy on regulating what you eat.’

So, I contacted Barbara again to ask if she minded me quoting her and using her name. She came back with:

Only too happy to tell people how I do it and my name. I do Aqua aerobics 4 times a week and walk every day.’

I absolutely love Barbara’s positive, can-do attitude! I think we can all learn from her.

One of the problems we have when we are trying to lose weight is that we are super critical of ourselves. We are so quick to say, when our muscles and joints ache a bit, ‘I’m getting old!’ We must stop saying that. Yes, of course, we are getting older, but not old! Getting old is a frame of mind and we should have no place for that kind of negative self-talk!

We can have the same negative attitude when we are trying to lose weight. We may have lost half a stone but we can’t see it and we still feel just as big because we can still pinch more than an inch! Then we get disheartened.

We must understand that our eyes always play tricks on us – not only in guessing our portion size but also as to how much slimmer we look. So, we need evidence. Measuring ourselves regularly with a tape measure around our waist is a good start. Another tip is to have an old garment that was tight when you were at your biggest and to never get rid of it. When you are feeling despondent because you haven’t lost weight one week, try on the ‘fat garment’ and see how far you have progressed.

I absolutely love the book by Charlie Mackesey, The Boy, the Mole, the Fox and the Horse. It is so full of wisdom and hope. As I was writing this piece, I remembered this conversation between two of the characters: ‘We have such a long way to go’ sighed the boy. ‘Yes, but look how far we’ve come’, said the horse. Let’s remember these very true words when trying to lose weight or become fitter.

Another motivational tip is to find a strong carrier bag – a ‘bag for life’ is ideal. As you lose your lbs each week, place ‘weights’ equivalent to the weight you have lost inside the bag. Over the weeks and months, keep adding the weights to let them accumulate. If you gain weight, take the equivalent weight out of your bag. Your ‘weights’ can be water bottles filled with water or sand, cans of food, bags of rice/cat litter… whatever you can find that weighs heavy. Interestingly, a half-litre bottle of water weighs about 1lb but if you fill it with sand, it weighs 1½ lbs. If you use a 1 litre bottle, just double up the weight. Place the bag somewhere out of the way. At the bottom of a wardrobe, under the stairs, in the garage - then on one of those ‘I’m still fat!’ days, go and pick it up and realise how far you’ve come.

It is crazy how reluctant we are to give ourselves credit and are much more inclined to beat ourselves up as failures. We really must learn to be kinder to ourselves.

There is nothing better than to enjoy the rewards of your efforts. One of my Monday evening class members, Eileen, lost several stone and has now maintained her slim figure for over 20 years. Recently she enthusiastically told me of her trip to the shops to buy something for her upcoming holiday. ‘I can slip into any size 10 and they fit! I love being slim!’ How fabulous is that?

We must acknowledge that It takes time for us to lose our unwanted weight and it takes time for us to become fit, but the effort is so worthwhile. And even when we slip and gain a couple of lbs or skip our daily walk for a few days because of extenuating circumstances, we can soon get back on track and make up for those lost days. The key is to never, ever give up.

While we keep on trying, we will never fail.

Recipe of the Week

Serves 2
Per serving: 185 calories, 8g fat
Prep time: 5 mins
Cook Time: 8 mins
 

4 very large flat mushrooms, wiped clean
1 slice wholegrain bread, made into breadcrumbs
1 red onion, peeled and very finely chopped
Freshly ground black pepper
40g hard cheese, finely grated
Rapeseed oil spray

 

  1. Preheat the grill to maximum heat but lower the shelf slightly or place in a hot oven. Carefully remove the stalks from the mushrooms. Season with freshly ground black pepper.
  2. Place the mushrooms on their backs and fill the mushrooms with the finely chopped red onion and breadcrumbs. Spray with a little rapeseed oil. Top with the finely grated cheese.
  3. Place the mushrooms on a non-stick baking tray and place under the grill but not too close to the elements to avoid burning, or in a hot oven 200°C, 400°F or Gas Mark 6.
  4. Cook for 7 - 9 minutes to cook through. Serve with a salad.
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Fun, Facts & Fitness from Mary Morris MSc.


The amount of body fat we carry around every day is rather a sensitive issue, particularly if we think we are carrying too much of it! There is an obsession, particularly across the media that we need to lose fat... and fast! However, it is a very complex issue and it is very important that we have the right amount of fat in our body in order to be healthy. So let's clarify some of the most important facts so that we can begin to understand just what a vital role fat has in the body, particularly in reducing our risk of serious illness.
 

Why do we need body fat?

We might moan about being able to 'pinch more than an inch' but that fat is not an inert lump of lard – it has an important job to do, and scientists are starting to find out more about its hidden powers. The fatty tissue lying just underneath our skin plays a vital role in keeping us alive and healthy. Apart from insulating us from the cold and cushioning any impact on our body, it is most importantly our energy storer for times when we may be unwell and struggling to eat normally.

On a recent ‘coffee stop’ on one of my regular walks, the conversation centred around the thickening waistline we have to suffer now that we are all of a certain age. The entire group were clearly very disturbed by it, bearing in mind that the majority of them have been fit and slim for most of their adult lives and their tummy fat now seems totally out of control!

One little voice did pipe up from one of the 80-year-olds who said that hers had quite suddenly all disappeared since suffering recurring UTIs which left her drained of energy. And herein lies a very important message... we do need a decent 'store' of body fat as we get older as a valuable energy reserve, in case we become ill or maybe have a fall that takes us off our feet for a significant period of time. The result being that we will automatically lose a lot of our precious muscle due to suddenly being very sedentary which sadly can mean that we may become exceedingly frail very quickly.  A good level of body fat therefore becomes our insurance policy against frailty.

 

How much body fat is too much?

It is only in recent decades that we have seen a huge rise in energy-dense (high-calorie) foods that cause us to store more body fat than we need. The culprit is often those fast-food outlets that create 'hard to resist' foods, massively increasing our intake of the type of dietary fat that is not good for us. 

Our bodies are designed to store fat in case of lean times, but when those lean times no longer happen, the body just keeps storing more and more fat. This attracts the attention of our immune system and those enlarged fat cells start to release unwanted chemicals into the blood that cause inflammation and stress. The result is a much-weakened immune system and a higher risk of becoming ill.

The American Journal of Clinical Nutrition gives a range of healthy fat levels according to age and whether we are male or female and here is a guide:

  Female Male
Age 20 – 39 21% - 32% 8% - 19%
Age 40 – 59 23% - 33% 11% - 21%
Age 60+ 25% - 35% 13% - 24%

A great many of my more mature people that I measure, are at the top end of their range at around 35% and I always reassure them that they are not 'over-fat' but a sensible level for their age. If you find you exceed 40%, I urge strong action though, to bring it down. 

Many home body weight scales now give an indication of our level of body fat and they are reasonably accurate. However, many of you reading this may not have access to that information, but it would follow that if you have a high Body Mass Index (BMI) (your height/weight ratio) of over 30, and you do very little exercise that burns off excess body fat, the chances are you are carrying too much fat. Lose the weight, exercise regularly and you will greatly reduce the fat on your body! Knowing your BMI is important and you can find it easily by using the NHS BMI Calculator.

 

Why does our waist expand as we age?

As our bodies age they get worse at burning fat, often caused by us becoming more sedentary the older we are and the corresponding loss of muscle mass (your fat-burning engines!). But we should also be aware of the different types of fat and look at which causes the greatest concern.

Subcutaneous fat is the one that we can pinch between our fingers and thumbs lying just underneath the skin. But there is also visceral fat that lies beneath our stomach muscles and collects around our vital organs. This type of fat is much more detrimental to our health and in older bodies the visceral fat seems to be harder to shift. Not what we want to hear.

Women tend to notice their waist expanding following the menopause, when they start to store fat in much the same way as men do, around the tummy. This is largely an increase in visceral fat and why women's risk of illness begins to match more closely that of their male counterparts – the chances of a heart condition developing for example.

Can we specifically target our visceral fat?  Well, it's not that easy to single out our visceral fat away from the rest of our body fat. Our best bet is to go for fat loss in general, ideally eating a low-fat diet enriched with just a small amount of the good fats combined with plenty of exercise. The result will be a reduction of all types of body fat. Exercise has a key role to play here.

 

The King of Body Fats!

So, we know the bad news that too much visceral fat is not good for us, but there is some good news in that we also have what is called brown fat. There is much scientific study currently ongoing, but the current thinking is that if we can increase the amount of brown fat in the body, we will be a far more efficient calorie burner. Brown fat is a more 'active' tissue, burning energy at a much higher rate than white fat and is at its most active when we are cold. 

We have heard a lot about cold water swimming recently and the benefits of it, and even just a cold-water shower can do the job. This may feel too extreme but the research is suggesting that even mild cold exposure at temperatures of around 12 degrees is effective in boosting our brown fat. This makes those winter walks an ideal way to increase our brown fat. Maybe turning down the central heating and feeling cold is good for us!

Finally, now that we know our body fat is such a vital part of our bodies perhaps it's time that we had a more sensible relationship with it. Eating a balanced diet in moderation and taking plenty of exercise is still the best way to have a healthy amount of body fat. Everything that Rosemary and I promote in The 28-Day Immunity Plan!

This Week's Fitness Challenge


  1. Put strength work at the top of your list this week and commit to 3 x 15 - 20-minute programmes. If you have used the same hand weights for a long time, try increasing them by 0.5 kilo.
     
  2. Start your daily 30+ minute walks feeling cold – you know you will get warmer as you walk. We need to start embracing feeling cold!
     
  3. Do The Hand Dance and The Foot Workout from the website 3 times this week. We tend to neglect our micro joints but it is essential that we maintain a good range of movement in them.

Rosemary and Mary discuss the implications of our BMI and why being more active as we get older is beneficial to our weight and long term happiness.
Did you know... 


Tuesday this week was Shrove Tuesday, the day when traditionally Christians use up all their rich tasty foods like butter, eggs, sugar and fat prior to the fasting days of Lent, the period of reflection and restraint leading up to Easter. The best way to use up all those products? By making pancakes!

But given that most of us are not going to fast for forty days, as Jesus did, what are we most likely to commit to giving up to demonstrate how restrained we can be?

According to Google, the most common things being given up for Lent are:

1. Chocolate

2. Social Networking

3. Alcohol

4. X (Twitter)

5. Facebook

6. School

7. Meat

8. Sweets

9. Coffee

10. Fizzy drinks

Certain vices like alcohol, swearing and sugary drinks nearly always feature in the list - which is compiled every year - but trends and news events do influence people's choices.

And finally...

This week’s message comes through loud and clear. If we want to live a long and active life, regular exercise is key. We really need to embrace it into our lifestyle and make sure it becomes a habit just as cleaning our teeth and brushing our hair.

Nobody can do this for us and we only have one life, so let’s just do it!
 
Have a great week.
 
With love and best wishes,

Rosemary Conley CBE DL

LIVE LONGER | LIVE HEALTHIER | LIVE HAPPIER

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