Understanding why things happen to us or for us
By Fiona van Rensburg (Portal of Alchemy)
Good day to you all
We are all emotional beings. Things that happen to us, has an effect on us, and we may from time to time wonder, why did this or that happened to me? Why did I loose …? When we have more awareness on ourselves creating and drawing experiences to us, we may wonder, why did I choose this experience or this person? It takes wisdom and time to give us the answers to these questions.
This year has been a year of revelations and great transformation and change for me. I’ve had multiple epiphanies and realizations, which deeper insights I’ve shared with my regular clients to assist them to better understand their journeys as well.
On multiple occasions I’ve been touched by the beautiful generous hearts of a number of Earth Angels in my life, for which I have immense gratitude.
One conclusion that I got to, is that everything that happens, happens for us, for a reason. It’s for us to understand the reason. learn the lesson and then consciously choose differently going forward.
A question that came to me today was, “What causes you to be or become a better person”, do more of that. Whatever your reason, inspiration, motivation, person, circumstance that drives you to work on yourself, your mental state, emotional state and spiritual state, make sure to continue on that path. It may be the glimpse of your child, that makes you want to be better, make the world a better place for them. It may be a Spiritual place that you get your substances from. It may be in nature that you feel nurtured. It may be watching good people doing good for others that inspires you. It may be your awareness of your connection to the Divine sitting in meditation that inspires you. We are the ones that knows ourselves the best. Do what is good for you regardless of the opinions of others.
Change doesn’t come to us, change comes from us. Gandhi says “be the change you want in the world”. It always begins and ends with us.
We may go out into the world to find love, and loose it again, just to one day realize we are that love. We cannot loose it. It’s within us. And we need to tap into that feeling, do more activities that enhance that feeling. And see how our lives change.
I must say it gladdens my heart so see so many take their spiritual journey more seriously and with whom I have regular interactions with. I can see the exponential growth within them. The person they were before they came to see me and the person they turn out to be afterwards, are worlds apart, and for them to get the feedback from work or home makes them come back for more. I thank you, honor and respect you for investing in you and your future.
I absolutely love what I do. I love touching peoples lives and teaching them more about themselves. Which brings them to self-acceptance, self-realization, self-respect, self-forgiveness, and self-love.
With all my love and light
Fiona van Rensburg
Emotional Healer, Transformational Coach, Intuitive Empath Energy Healer and Metaphysical Teacher