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Advent is the beginning of the Church year and it starts with the theme of Hope, of the opportunity for light to break into darkness, to bring life where there is decay and death. But what does this mean to those around us, at this time of rising inflation, with people struggling to make ends meet, and long waiting lists for healthcare? What can the church offer?
President Obama speaking to the United Nations General Assembly, September 24, 2014

"We choose hope over fear. We see the future not as something out of our control, but as something we can shape for the better through concerted and collective effort. We reject fatalism or cynicism when it comes to human affairs; we choose to work for the world as it should be, as our children deserve it to be." 

How can we choose and offer hope in such difficult times? How can we help shape the future? What hope can we offer to those who are struggling?  As churches are we able to work together for the good of those around us who may not actually be sitting in our pews on a Sunday? How can we point the way to our God who is able to meet people in any situation and bring them safely through?

I wait patiently for God to save me. Only he gives me hope. He is my rock, who saves me. He protects me like a strong, walled city. I will not be defeated.

Psalm 62:5-6 International Children's Bible

The work we do with children and their families is so valuable; we can't change everything but we can commit to working together for the families we have contact with through our toddler groups, children's groups and schools. In the busy-ness of the Advent/Christmas season, lets make sure we don't miss those who really need to hear this message of Hope.
 
This mailing has information on Authorised Chaplaincy Assistant training, Children & Families' Authorised Lay Ministry training,  online All Inclusive training, as well as resources for Remembrance Day, Advent and Christmas which I will be adding to in the next mailing.

If you are a new children and families leader in your church you might like to join our next monthly  Children and Families Leaders' meeting, Evolve, on Monday 9 November on Zoom. The aim of Evolve is to meet other leaders from across the Diocese and to share our experiences and ideas. If you'd like to join in, email me directly and I'll send you a Zoom invite.
We will be having our second session ( postponed from September) looking at Intergenerational Worship, led by Ruth New, Children & Families' Missioner from St Mary's Ely. This session will offer an opportunity to hear the journeys of two churches, one in a market town and one in a village, with a discussion around  what the challenges of an intergenerational approach are and how we might approach these.


PS: As ever, resources below are denoted in green if they have been offered previously-new resources are in white. Inevitably there will be  some 'repeats' from previous years.
All Inclusive?
Wednesday 9 November 7pm-9.15pm
I'm delighted to say that Mark Arnold, from Urban Saints, will be delivering this excellent Zoom training on how to make sure that families who have children with special educational or additional needs can be welcomed and included in your church. As he explains, it is not as difficult as it might seem and it can make a world of difference to those children & their families. Visit the booking page for more information or to book on.
Please note booking closes on Monday 7 November at 9 am to enable us to email the information you'll need for the session
Authorised Chaplaincy Assistant Training
Working in conjunction with Ridley Hall, we are really excited to be able to offer this free training for Authorised Chaplaincy Assistants, for all those from Church of England churches in Ely Diocese wanting to strengthen their relationship with their church school. The training starts in early January 2023 for two school terms and will equip you to fulfill a supporting pastoral role in your local church school. You can find out more about what is on offer and how to apply on our School Chaplaincy page 
Children & Families' Authorised Lay Ministry Course
Are you new to working with children and families in your church or would you like to broaden your skill set?  The new streamlined, 10 session Children & Families' Authorised Lay Ministry course will be starting in January 2023 and is a great opportunity to meet with others delivering ministry to families, to learn from each other and from the experienced children and families' practitioners delivering the sessions. 
Most sessions on Zoom but two sessions will be delivered in person on Saturday 4 March 2023.
To find out more and to see the course outline, visit the ALM training page 
Please discuss this with your incumbent before applying as you will need to gain the support of the incumbent and PCC in order to gain the Bishop's authorisation. 
Resources For churches...
Photo by James Coleman on Unsplash
Photo author's own
Remembrance Day  
Services 
Poppy Prayer Church of England
Messy Church Ideas Messy Church 
Ribbons for Remembrance All Age BRF


Film Clips
Films Books and Poems Debbie Pinterest
Remembering Scripture Union

In Flanders Field BSL

Crafts
Crafts Debbie Pinterest
Food Crafts Debbie-Pinterest
Poppy Light Flame Creative
Poppy Lantern Sunhat & Wellie Boots 
Pinwheel Poppies Mum in the Mad House
National Church of England Resources  
This year's Advent and Christmas campaign from the Church of England  is on the theme of  'Follow the Star-the Great Invitation.' It comprises:
12 reflections by different authors on what it means to be invited (Christmas Eve-Jan 6th)
Christmas In a Box-a series of model services than you can edit and adapt for your local context, including a traditional Carol Service, an All Age Worship Service and a scratch Nativity Play. Visit the page to find out more.

Many people looking to attend church services over Christmas will search using the internet and A Church Near You (ACNY) will direct them to churches in their local area. Last year it had 77 million views with 80% of visitors on the site for the first time. Have you updated your information and put details of your Advent and Christmas services up for people to find?

If you are using the 'Follow the Star' theme, you may be interested in these resources:
Star ideas:
Star Craft ideas Pinterest Debbie Hill
Follow the Star crafts Pinterest Messy Church
Christmas Advert 2018 Church of England
Star wreath templates £5.95 for 10 Baker Ross
Stained glass templates £9.49 for 30 Baker Ross
Under 5s Star wreaths(various) Let their Light Shine
Baptism Families Star Invite Church Support Hub
Image by Jason Goh from Pixabay 
Advent Resources 
Telling the Story
Amazing Days booklet and video Bible Society
The Jesus Storybook bible Advent Kit  Faith Gateway
Telling the Story Pinterest Debbie Hill
Advent Films Pinterest Debbie Hill


Jesse trees:
Making and Using Jesse trees in different ways Network
The Story
Colour templates
Black and White templates
Family Jesse Tree(outside) Muddy Church
Jesse Trees & Posadas Pinterest Debbie Hill
 

Posada:
Posada two ways  Church Support Hub
Posada Spiritual Child network
Where to get a Posada set To buy ready-made Posadas
Knitting patterns for nativity characters
Knitting pattern to buy
Knitting pattern to buy
Crochet pattern to buy
 

Christingles:
Christingle Resources The Children's Society 
Edible Christingle(to make) Sunhat & Wellie Boots
Muddy Christingle Muddy Church 
Playdough Christingle Sunhat & Wellie Boots
Christingle Event Reimagined Hazelnut farm
Christingle ideas Pinterest Debbie Hill

Other ideas to try suggested by C&F practitioners:
Cake Pops Christingles
A giant Christingle made from 100 little cakes
A large Christingle shaped cake
A Christingle made from papier Mache (around a balloon)
Using a large pumpkin to make a large-scale Christingle
Christingle altar frontal-made from felt and attached weekly. ‘Lit’ by flames on Sunday during service


Other Resources for Advent
Gathering to Write-An Intergenerational Practice Build Faith
Advent Crafts Pinterest Debbie Hill
Advent Wreaths Pinterest Debbie Hill
Christmas Storybook 6 week session for toddler groups Care for the Family
Christmas videos free and to buy(including BSL) Go Chatter  
Photo author's own
Nativity Trails
Nativity trail (5 senses) Together At Home
The Adventure: a fresh Wander through the Advent Story Muddy Church 
The King's Gifts Muddy Church
Journey of the Kings(Epiphany)  Muddy Church 
Nativity trail Sunhat & Wellie Boots 


Pop-up Nativity Plays:
Under 5s A Party for Baby Jesus Care for the Family
Under 5s No rehearsal Nativity for Under 5s Flame Creative
Whole family:  Football Nativity Services for World Cup Day  Church Hub (2 versions)
Whole family: Amazing Days Pop up Nativity Bible Society
Whole family: No Rehearsal Nativity (Mary Hawes) -a short nativity with letters from God (available on request Debbie.hill@elydiocese.org)
Whole Family Three Nativity plays (to buy) Reflectionary
Christmas Gone Wrong/Away in a Suitcase/God Is With Us-Everywhere!


Nativity Crafts
Nativity Story Stones templates Sunhat & Wellie Boots
Rocky Road to Bethlehem Sunhat & Wellie Boots
Under 5s Nativity crafts Pinterest Debbie Hill
Under 5s Angel crafts Pinterest Debbie Hill
Christmas Fun foods Pinterest Debbie Hill
Nativity Crafts Pinterest Debbie Hill
Photo by Lewis Keegan on Unsplash
For Schools...
PSHE & Assemblies British Legion
Remembrance Assembly Flame Creative

Live Remembrance Assembly 11 November British Legion
Pop Up Prayer Spaces;creating a focused moment of spiritual life Prayer Spaces in Schools Mon 21 November 7.30-8.30pm
Christmas In a Box Bristol Schools Connection 
If you are going into schools and are looking for a way to share the Christmas story with a class, there are 6 boxes to be unpacked to tell the Christmas story- God’s Big Story, Mary’s story,Joseph’s story, Shepherd’s Story Wise Men’s story, The Story ends…and begins! It e
ncourages engagement and wondering, practical and can be adapted for different ages. Watch the training video online to find out more.
Virtual Christingle Monday 12th December 1.30pm-join in with other schools-you'll need to book with learning@elycathedral.org and find resources and lesson plans for in school activities
Mission and Ministry work closely with the Education department which supports church schools in the Diocese of Ely. There are resources for Collective Worship and Class Collective Worship which follow the Lectionary available to download. 
Photo by David Beale on Unsplash
For Homes...
The Lectio for Families app is now available to download. Designed for families with children aged 7-11, it helps generate conversation and prayer based on bible reading.
Raising faith is a flexible six week course from Care For the Family that can be done with small groups or individual families. It can be streamed for free or bought as a resource. It covers:
Building faith through everyday life
Creating the right environment to nurture faith
Making your faith visible
Different ways we connect with God
Doubts and questions
Belonging in the church

Parenting Teens for a Life of Faith Rachel Turner BRF
For Messy Churches...
If you are running a Messy Church please can I invite you to check your details are correct on the Messy Church Directory. If you haven't registered yet, it is very easy; follow the link, create an account (its free!) and register your Messy Church. 

Master class bookings are open 
  • Reimagining your Messy Church for a changing context Thursday 17 November 7.30pm-9pm 
  • Messy Church Discipleship Tuesday 8 November 11am-12.30pm 
  • Messy Church Goes Wild Tuesday 1 November 11am-12.30pm and Wednesday 23 November 7.30pm-9pm
Messy Meet Up-Early Christmas Thursday 3 November 12noon-1pm or 7.30pm-8.30pm

Messy Church has been developing some work on Messy Church Goes Wild-12 sessions for taking your Messy Church outdoors. You can see previous sessions for outdoor worship for Messy Church here
Wild and Wiggly is part of a new series of adventures looking at minibeasts and how little things and little people matter to Jesus.
For Professional Development...
Journeying Together free 4 session online course for toddler group leaders and helpers to review their work together Care for the Family
Pop Up Prayer Spaces;creating a focused moment of spiritual life Prayer Spaces in Schools Mon 21 November 7.30-8.30pm
Photo by Nick Fewings on Unsplash
How safe is your Children and Families Work?
1 Recruit all new helpers and leaders safely and ensure that they are fully  checked by your Parish Safeguarding Officer (PSO). This includes having a written job role.
2. Make sure that existing leaders and helpers' safeguarding training and DBS are up to date (with PSO)
3 Follow the best practice guidance in the Parish Safeguarding Handbook (August 2019) and Safer Environment and Activities
4 Make sure risk assessments are in place for whatever form of worship you use ie: indoor or outdoor or online. A simple risk assessment based on the national Church of England's guidelines. Further templates can be found here:Safer Working online (scroll down on website page to find section). These need to be updated regularly in the light of changing COVID restrictions 
5 Make sure any activity you undertake is covered by your church's insurance policy (PCC)
6 Contact the Diocesan Safeguarding team if you are unsure, require help or support.
Safeguarding...
Did you know that if you hold any position of responsibility in the church it is imperative that you have 'due regard' to safeguarding guidance. You can now complete most safeguarding courses online, including Responding to Domestic Abuse. 
 Cambridge and Peterborough Safeguarding Partnership (excerpt of latest newsletter)
Current child protection thresholds and pathways were originally designed to consider risks within the home and family setting; however, increasingly professionals are aware that children and young people spending time outside of the home can be subject to risk and harm. We refer to this as ‘extra familial harm’. There is national recognition that this type of harm is not adequately addressed through traditional child protection frameworks.
Managing extra familial harm through contextual safeguarding is not a new concept and has been successfully implemented in many partnerships across the country. Locally, we have been keen to further develop processes to create a contextual safeguarding system that supports both the individual (tier one) risk and those areas surrounding the individual, such as places, networks, and peers (tier two).
To support practitioners in gaining an understanding of what contextual safeguarding is and how it applies to practice we have produced a contextual safeguarding
SWAY
Is a child you know accessing Omegle? it is a free anonymous chatroom where people are randomly paired, with little moderation and no available function to report inappropriate behaviour. Omegle chats pop up on Instagram and TikTok, thus widening its appeal to young users. 


Debbie Hill 
Development Officer for Children & Families Diocese of Ely
Working hours 9-5pm Monday to Thursday 
debbie.hill@elydiocese.org  07837 699016
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